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    Feb 08, 2013 2:29 PM GMT
    at first it was good, then it just got really gay at the last few ones lol.
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    Feb 08, 2013 2:31 PM GMT
    archon saidat first it was good, then it just got really gay at the last few ones lol.


    Well now that's a great compliment archon, as my posts at the end were considerate and encouraging empathy, so you're saying gay is considerate and encourages empathy. Well done.
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    Feb 08, 2013 2:35 PM GMT
    archon saidat first it was good, then it just got really gay at the last few ones lol.


    Because of me???icon_surprised.gificon_neutral.gificon_lol.gif
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    Feb 08, 2013 2:36 PM GMT
    Right after my breakup #12 was what I missed the most. I lost half of my wardrobe overnight. These days as my ex and his bf live next door splitting the bills while I live alone paying all my bills, #13 is what I miss most.
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    Feb 08, 2013 2:37 PM GMT
    I personally LOVE couples! The major points in the original post only bother you, if you let them. There is nothing wrong with "I" becoming "We", unless they become that couple who can't have friend as individuals, annoying. Now, where is my "We" aka my hot little Spanish boy icon_twisted.gif.

    Best part of having couple friends. We are friends because we actually like each other, not because their is some lingering sexual interest, which seems to be all too common among gay men.
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    Feb 08, 2013 2:37 PM GMT
    Myol No need to hold back on us single guys. lol. We can handle it and would have great retorts 


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    Feb 08, 2013 2:39 PM GMT
    ya'll are just jealous and need stability!

    i love seeing a lovely happy couple (gay or straight), it's a beautiful thing that thing called love (or is it lust in slow release),
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    Feb 08, 2013 2:55 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    archon saidat first it was good, then it just got really gay at the last few ones lol.


    Well now that's a great compliment archon, as my posts at the end were considerate and encouraging empathy, so you're saying gay is considerate and encourages empathy. Well done.


    i was not talking about you, i was talking about the stuff the OP was saying, like it was funny the first few points then the last ones where not that good. and i used gay to describe not that good.
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    Feb 08, 2013 2:56 PM GMT
    HottJoe said
    archon saidat first it was good, then it just got really gay at the last few ones lol.


    Because of me???icon_surprised.gificon_neutral.gificon_lol.gif


    no your are to sexy to be blamed on anything, even if you killed everyone in the world and i was alive i would not take revenge cause you to sexyicon_razz.gif
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    Feb 08, 2013 4:19 PM GMT
    archon saidat first it was good, then it just got really gay at the last few ones lol.


    +1 It went rather meh at the end.

    But What if couples says this to you :

    "Shall we do it together!?" 15.gif - Now that I don't feel like a 3rd wheel I feel I'm in that wheel together! *wink! 4.gificon_razz.gif
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    Feb 08, 2013 4:27 PM GMT
    i actually like couples

    except when it becomes "have your cake and eat it too"

    "oh, we're together, but we both still hookup constantly on the side and it's not actually part of our agreement....we just expect you to accept it and manage it"

    it's very common and i wouldn't do it for my straight friends either.

    i will not celebrate your creeping....
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    Feb 08, 2013 5:04 PM GMT
    The article forgets to mention this one: When you're friend's with one of them, but the friendship dies once they become a couple. I've had this happen to me twice. A straight female friend flat out stopped talking to me once she got married and had children. She just dropped off the face of the earth. The other one is one of my ex-lovers, who became just a friend, but who dropped me completely as a friend due to his new boyfriend being tremendously insecure and controlling.
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    Feb 08, 2013 5:37 PM GMT
    I'm a guy who has been single sometimes, but in relationships most of the time. I recognize that I'm sometimes guilty of some of these issues and this is sort of a wake up call to be much more sensitive to my single friends.
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    Feb 08, 2013 5:42 PM GMT
    CityofDreams saidI personally LOVE couples! The major points in the original post only bother you, if you let them. There is nothing wrong with "I" becoming "We", unless they become that couple who can't have friend as individuals, annoying. Now, where is my "We" aka my hot little Spanish boy icon_twisted.gif.

    Best part of having couple friends. We are friends because we actually like each other, not because their is some lingering sexual interest, which seems to be all too common among gay men.


    And what about the many gay couples in open relationships? icon_wink.gif
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    Feb 08, 2013 5:44 PM GMT
    RedWhiteBlue saidi actually like couples

    except when it becomes "have your cake and eat it too"

    "oh, we're together, but we both still hookup constantly on the side and it's not actually part of our agreement....we just expect you to accept it and manage it"

    it's very common and i wouldn't do it for my straight friends either.

    i will not celebrate your creeping....


    Why do you care if it's not your relationship?icon_confused.gif
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    Feb 08, 2013 5:53 PM GMT
    funny post. Reminiscent of things i used to do when I had a man.

    #shouldvebeenme
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    Feb 08, 2013 6:06 PM GMT
    Someone's jelly!
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    Feb 08, 2013 6:08 PM GMT
    Har19 said
    archon saidat first it was good, then it just got really gay at the last few ones lol.


    +1 It went rather meh at the end.

    But What if couples says this to you :

    "Shall we do it together!?" 15.gif - Now that I don't feel like a 3rd wheel I feel I'm in that wheel together! *wink! 4.gificon_razz.gif


    couples are whack, I'm going to be the awesome fun couple lol.
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    Feb 08, 2013 6:09 PM GMT
    Velociraptor saidSomeone's jelly!


    haha yup!! Including me! Who doesn't want someone so close to them/who loves them unconditionally
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    Feb 08, 2013 6:11 PM GMT
    running11 said
    Velociraptor saidSomeone's jelly!


    haha yup!! Including me! Who doesn't want someone so close to them/who loves them unconditionally


    not meicon_confused.gif

    i love the world, and i want to marry it lol
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    Feb 08, 2013 7:56 PM GMT
    Good read.
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    Feb 08, 2013 9:02 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    PolaroidSwinger saidThe first one is actually sort of true in my experience, and really irritating. There definitely seems to be a codependency epidemic among my peers who are in relationships.

    (Number three is annoying too.)


    lol, codependency is when you can't stand each other but can't exist without each other.


    My understanding was that codependency; in it's broadest definition was just an excessive emotional dependance on a partner. Usually with some sort of controlling/manipulative features.

    What you've described is it's own problem though. I've dealt with too many friends (especially gal pals) who will complain about, rather than confront, their abusive or hostile relationships. (AKA #5)
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    Feb 08, 2013 9:04 PM GMT
    Oooooooh, y'all is so MEAN to us couples. Gonna sulk and cry now. icon_cry.gif
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    Feb 08, 2013 10:50 PM GMT
    showme saidOooooooh, y'all is so MEAN to us couples. Gonna sulk and cry now. icon_cry.gif


    With your bf?icon_wink.gif
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    Feb 08, 2013 11:00 PM GMT
    HottJoe said
    showme saidOooooooh, y'all is so MEAN to us couples. Gonna sulk and cry now. icon_cry.gif


    With your bf?icon_wink.gif


    I'm still at work. In a little bit.