Feeling Lonely

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    Feb 15, 2013 2:28 AM GMT
    I'm glad I found this website. I could use more friends. Specially gay friends because most of my friends are straight. A little info about me: I was in a relationship for 3 years and my partner abandoned me for multiple guys. I am a very nice guy and I'm sad this happened to me. BUT ANYWAYS, I've used the gym as my way to battle loneliness and depression. I started as this scrawny kid and now I'd say I'm buff. I love the gym. I love working out. It temporarily cures my loneliness but I would like to have more.

    I'm hoping to meet awesome people from this website!
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    Feb 15, 2013 2:34 AM GMT
    I could use more straight friends, since most of my gay friends are weird. icon_razz.gif
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    Feb 15, 2013 2:36 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidI could use more straight friends, since most of my gay friends are weird. icon_razz.gif


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    Feb 15, 2013 6:02 AM GMT
    Well glad to hear you channelling that into something positive. You look great man!
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    Feb 15, 2013 7:10 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidI could use more straight friends, since most of my gay friends are weird. icon_razz.gif


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    Feb 15, 2013 7:13 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidI could use more straight friends, since most of my gay friends are weird. icon_razz.gif
    stop it paul and be nice for once. jeeze. ha ha ha buddy, why don't you try joining some of the social gay groups in your town. that is always a good way to make new friends. also the quickest way to get over someone is fine you someone else to sleep with.
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    Feb 15, 2013 7:27 AM GMT
    JosephC saidWell glad to hear you channelling that into something positive. You look great man!


    thank you. you look great as well!
  • Pontifex

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    Feb 15, 2013 7:36 AM GMT
    Welcome to RJ.

    You will find more gay friends than you could ever want here.

    The gym is a great place to channel your energy. There are definitely worse things you could be doing. Actually there aren't many things that are better that you could be doing.

    Oh. And I'm sure you'll find the right guy eventually. You just might have to sort through a few of them first.
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    Feb 15, 2013 6:44 PM GMT
    good advice
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    Feb 15, 2013 6:47 PM GMT
    You're cute.


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  • LJay

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    Feb 15, 2013 6:57 PM GMT
    OP, you will meet some great guys here. Glad you have joined and posted. Even the goofiest of this crew has something to offer and there are lots of guys who will make your thinking broader.

    Paul, you have a good point. what you may be missing is that the best straight friends are weird, too. As a matter of fact, I know very few interesting and worthwhile people who are not weird. That is part of the reason so many of us like you.
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    Nov 08, 2019 1:46 AM GMT
    I've been Lonesome for 20 years, and I love it like there is no tomorrow!
    I left a busy working musician lifestyle behind in Buffalo, to relocate with my partner
    to the Albany NY Capital region to start a new life together.
    Upon arriving here, my Dr Jekyll suddenly became Mr Hyde and I was booted
    out of his life. I took all my belongings and music gear into a storage space
    where I squatted for 3 years and used the space as my personal music studio...

    After the first year alone, I finally got over it. I felt so free. I could go anywhere and
    do anything anytime with anyone without having to answer for it.
    By day I worked at my job, and then I'd come "home" to my music space and
    practice on my drums, guitar, and bass, all night long.
    I went out and met cool bands, played local and out-of-town shows for a while.
    And although I've met some nice guys along this journey for a temporary
    fling now n then I'm officially "married" to my music.

    I was made lonely by force. Since then, I've been Lonesome by choice.
    Nothing wrong with Intimacy. It has its perks, and it's piss-offs.
    I'd rather go it alone, thrash out, jerk off, smoke a cigar, sip some wine,
    and go right to sleep without hearing hubby bitch about it.
    Wake up the next day and do MY thing, not be dragged around town
    like a low-down clown with a frown in a burlap gown crying sad nouns
    as though I were someone's "trophy wife".

    I'll think about Settling Down later on after I am too old to Rock Out.
    Until then, I'm going full Keith Richards while living the single life.
    I have plenty of friends on both sides of the fence, enough to keep me busy,
    while I plan stuff with my band and things to do by myself.

    To this day I've been single, and lonesome. I don't miss having a relationship.
    On the contrary, I'm having the time of my life right now with my new band.
    Looking forward to entering 2020 Headache-free, Drama-free, Boyfriend-free
    and doing what I enjoy with my first love: Rock-n-Roll.
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    Nov 18, 2019 7:42 AM GMT
    I actually have no idea what loneliness is. From what I'm told it's like it must be horrible to depend on others for happiness.