My issue with whites/caucasians

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    Feb 18, 2013 12:44 AM GMT
    spacemagic said
    7Famark saidYou don't hate me because I'm white, I'm white because you hate me.


    I'm sorry I called you a gap-toothed bitch. It's not your fault you're so gap-toothed.

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    Feb 18, 2013 12:57 AM GMT
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    Ditto. Dont assume we are all the same. Ive been attracted to asian guys before even though i dont always try to date them or seek them out.
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    Feb 18, 2013 1:08 AM GMT
    Pot_Brownie saidChing chong we dont want your ding dong


    This is the best possible reply to the thread.

    I snorted laughing. Awesomesauce.

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    Feb 18, 2013 1:58 AM GMT
    wow you guys are mature.... REALLY mature. Way to divert the racial segregation issue within the community. All of the other threads of "similar" substance would end up like this too. I'd like to get a caucasian guys perspective not some analysis from other asians or old guys who think this is not a real issue.

    I find caucasian guys (who are not into asians) are always silent in a thread like this.
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    Feb 18, 2013 2:05 AM GMT
    I like Asians too
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    Feb 18, 2013 2:06 AM GMT
    jtz03932 saidwow you guys are mature.... REALLY mature. Way to divert the racial segregation issue within the community. All of the other threads of "similar" substance would end up like this too. I'd like to get a caucasian guys perspective not some analysis from other asians or old guys who think this is not a real issue.

    I find caucasian guys (who are not into asians) are always silent in a thread like this.


    Maybe because they don't want to add any fuel to the fire...

    You should find yourself a healthy hobby or distraction, rather than incite these incessant hate-thread.
    Just sayin'...
    As my previous response, "Maybe you're not aesthetically pleasing to the eyes?"
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    Feb 18, 2013 2:11 AM GMT
    jtz03932 saidwow you guys are mature.... REALLY mature. Way to divert the racial segregation issue within the community. All of the other threads of "similar" substance would end up like this too. I'd like to get a caucasian guys perspective not some analysis from other asians or old guys who think this is not a real issue.

    I find caucasian guys (who are not into asians) are always silent in a thread like this.


    Please do us all a favor and go to "account" and click "delete account".

    Thanks.
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    Feb 18, 2013 2:28 AM GMT
    Hello..iam from qu├ębec city Canada. Maybe you didn`t know that in quebec city. we speak french. so between english speaking and french speaking people, they are different in attitude and culture.
    I don`t know where and how to begin my explaination, i like to make it as short as possible so it will not make us boring reading my comment.
    some white men dont like the color one ( latino,asian, black) you cannot change it. you cannot say too that only old white bald love asian. i saw many handsome white man hunk, muscle, model look of men`s health magazine but their couple is a fat old man and really really not interesting, both are white. so don`t dramatize the situation.
    telling you the truth i fucked with many white good looking man, iam asian too,
    But finding a right man, that`s another story. even for the white people they have the difficulty to find one. even in the heteros community. a friend of mine hetero, he never have a girl friend. he is handsome, lawyer, but always alone. he always fail to find some one..so??? what you think??
    but you have to be ready because so many people when they die they still alone, this phenomena happen also in white people, they have boy friend, broke up...and when they die they still alone.
    i think what i have written can explain you better.
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    Feb 18, 2013 2:32 AM GMT
    You suck at trolling. Just keepin it real


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    Feb 18, 2013 2:57 AM GMT
    "Here we go, one more time.."

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    Feb 18, 2013 3:08 AM GMT
    I'd date me. LOL icon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 18, 2013 3:16 AM GMT
    Kel_ said
    jtz03932 saidwow you guys are mature.... REALLY mature. Way to divert the racial segregation issue within the community. All of the other threads of "similar" substance would end up like this too. I'd like to get a caucasian guys perspective not some analysis from other asians or old guys who think this is not a real issue.

    I find caucasian guys (who are not into asians) are always silent in a thread like this.


    Maybe because they don't want to add any fuel to the fire...

    You should find yourself a healthy hobby or distraction, rather than incite these incessant hate-thread.
    Just sayin'...
    As my previous response, "Maybe you're not aesthetically pleasing to the eyes?"

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    Feb 18, 2013 4:46 AM GMT
    Kel_ said
    jtz03932 saidwow you guys are mature.... REALLY mature. Way to divert the racial segregation issue within the community. All of the other threads of "similar" substance would end up like this too. I'd like to get a caucasian guys perspective not some analysis from other asians or old guys who think this is not a real issue.

    I find caucasian guys (who are not into asians) are always silent in a thread like this.


    Maybe because they don't want to add any fuel to the fire...

    You should find yourself a healthy hobby or distraction, rather than incite these incessant hate-thread.
    Just sayin'...
    As my previous response, "Maybe you're not aesthetically pleasing to the eyes?"


    Doesn't matter, even if you're "aesthetically pleasing to the eyes" no white guys is going to give you shit.
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    Feb 18, 2013 4:58 AM GMT
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    Kel_ said
    jtz03932 saidwow you guys are mature.... REALLY mature. Way to divert the racial segregation issue within the community. All of the other threads of "similar" substance would end up like this too. I'd like to get a caucasian guys perspective not some analysis from other asians or old guys who think this is not a real issue.

    I find caucasian guys (who are not into asians) are always silent in a thread like this.


    Maybe because they don't want to add any fuel to the fire...

    You should find yourself a healthy hobby or distraction, rather than incite these incessant hate-thread.
    Just sayin'...
    As my previous response, "Maybe you're not aesthetically pleasing to the eyes?"


    Doesn't matter, even if you're "aesthetically pleasing to the eyes" no white guys is going to give you shit.


    Sucks to be you then, never got that problem.
    Oh well, bitch more, not gonna help your situation.
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    Feb 18, 2013 4:58 AM GMT
    jtz03932 saidwow you guys are mature.... REALLY mature. Way to divert the racial segregation issue within the community. All of the other threads of "similar" substance would end up like this too. I'd like to get a caucasian guys perspective not some analysis from other asians or old guys who think this is not a real issue.

    I find caucasian guys (who are not into asians) are always silent in a thread like this.


    Yeah, because what the fuck do old guys know about anything? Their opinions don't matter. Geeze, when will you old guys learn that no one wants your opinion about the serious marginalization that young Asian men suffer?
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    Feb 18, 2013 5:09 AM GMT
    If you are secure in yourself you will attract someone... Asians are unatractive because they are so often characterized as meek, aloof, etc... accept that the stereotypes exist and then know yourself beyond them. Embrace yourself in a way that you can be confident and comfortable. People will see that instead.

    Would you want to date someone who is ONLY into Asians? I find that far more insulting, personally. I don't want to be someone's fetish, I want to be loved beyond my ethnicity.
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    Feb 18, 2013 5:15 AM GMT
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    Kel_ said
    jtz03932 saidwow you guys are mature.... REALLY mature. Way to divert the racial segregation issue within the community. All of the other threads of "similar" substance would end up like this too. I'd like to get a caucasian guys perspective not some analysis from other asians or old guys who think this is not a real issue.

    I find caucasian guys (who are not into asians) are always silent in a thread like this.


    Maybe because they don't want to add any fuel to the fire...

    You should find yourself a healthy hobby or distraction, rather than incite these incessant hate-thread.
    Just sayin'...
    As my previous response, "Maybe you're not aesthetically pleasing to the eyes?"


    Doesn't matter, even if you're "aesthetically pleasing to the eyes" no white guys is going to give you shit.


    This is factually untrue. I've been with several drop-dead-gorgeous Asian guys. And it was in the States, not Taiwan.

    Kel may be on to something. It doesn't serve you well to automatically attribute to racial animus what may be more simply attributed to your own physical (or psychosocial) flaws. I am not denying that there is very strong racism alive and well in Western Gay subculture. But people of different phenotypes have been mixing for as long as human history, so you're better off focusing on being the best "you" you can be, and finding the best "him" he can be, and not worrying about those who do not have the intelligence or self-awareness to look beyond the socialized standard of attractiveness.

    And in closing... there are plenty of ugly white people.
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    Feb 18, 2013 5:16 AM GMT
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    jtz03932 saidI find caucasian guys (who are not into asians) are always silent in a thread like this.


    Ok, I'll admit lol... I date Asians about 25% of the time, but only because with them I can date "above my looks". I'm sure many guys who claim to be open to all races secretly have these double standards icon_wink.gif


    This is despicable.
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    Feb 18, 2013 5:27 AM GMT
    Kel_ said
    jtz03932 said
    Kel_ said
    jtz03932 saidwow you guys are mature.... REALLY mature. Way to divert the racial segregation issue within the community. All of the other threads of "similar" substance would end up like this too. I'd like to get a caucasian guys perspective not some analysis from other asians or old guys who think this is not a real issue.

    I find caucasian guys (who are not into asians) are always silent in a thread like this.


    Maybe because they don't want to add any fuel to the fire...

    You should find yourself a healthy hobby or distraction, rather than incite these incessant hate-thread.
    Just sayin'...
    As my previous response, "Maybe you're not aesthetically pleasing to the eyes?"


    Doesn't matter, even if you're "aesthetically pleasing to the eyes" no white guys is going to give you shit.


    Sucks to be you then, never got that problem.
    Oh well, bitch more, not gonna help your situation.


    Count me in as never having that problem. Besides my current bf, one of the hottest guys that pursued me was a white guy who worked for Wall Street. He had a killer bod, drop dead gorgeous, successful, passionate in bed, everything I ever dreamed of in a guy. Too bad he was an asshole! icon_mad.gif
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    Feb 18, 2013 5:31 AM GMT
    I'm not running into the same issues as OP. Please don't let this lead to a negative stereotype for gay asian males.
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    Feb 18, 2013 5:34 AM GMT
    howling saidI'm not running into the same issues as OP. Please don't let this lead to a negative stereotype for gay asian males.


    I don't think this is the case, I think most are just peeved at the amount of times threads like this pop up.

    Though we are all human and have insecurities, and now I am running on empty so the mind blowing and potentially life changing statement I was going to make has been taken over by thoughts of various foods.

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    Feb 18, 2013 5:34 AM GMT
    howling saidI'm not running into the same issues as OP. Please don't let this lead to a negative stereotype for gay asian males.

    Aww how cute. Still so innocent.

    @Op: welcome to real life. Suck it up
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    Feb 18, 2013 5:34 AM GMT
    to the OP, If you're serious and NOT a troll, let me tell you. I used to be just like you, It actually made me depressed, I tried to kill myself, then I woke up and got over it (long story short). I realized, Does a significant amount of the mainstream gay community prefer and glorify caucasians? absolutely. Does it mean you're doomed? NOT necessarily...but if you don't respect yourself or race, then no one else will either. It took me a long time to learn that, but when I did, it was extremely liberating. There are tons of guys I am attracted to who simply don't prefer guys of my racial background..and even though I am asexual, I'm pretty sure the dating pool for NON-whites (especially Blacks and Asians) is smaller than for your average european dude.....but there are also a lot of open minded/diverse guys who don't care about racial background or actually may PREFER your race. However, making a post about it, isn't going to help, you can't GUILT someone into liking you.