The more muscular you are the more attention you get ( to a certain degree )

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    May 03, 2013 9:05 PM GMT
    BarettaB80 said
    seekonk said
    BarettaB80 said It's not as if she stopped people from getting medical help if they wanted it.


    Oh yes, it is absolutely as if she stopped them from medical help if they wanted it. Have you ever been to South Asia? These were people who had no educated choice, and she kept them from getting proper medical care.


    Yes, I have been to South Asia, although that is absolutely irrelevant in this discussion.

    And no, she in no way prevented them from going somewhere else if they preferred. She did not deceive them or lie to them. Almost certainly, it was a case of either staying at home with no care at all, or laying on a bed with attendants who hydrated them and gave them food and attention. Their lack of education/choice had nothing to do with Mother Teresa.


    The point is, her organization had millions in the bank from wealthy donors that she could have spent to improve the horrifying conditions in her clinic but didn't. She had more than enough money, for example, to buy pain pills for terminal cancer patients begging her for relief, but she didn't do so because she believed their suffering was virtuous.

    I am curious, though. What is your investment in Mother Teresa?
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    May 04, 2013 5:37 AM GMT
    seekonk said
    I am curious, though. What is your investment in Mother Teresa?


    Actually, I have no investment in Mother Teresa at all. She was a great person, though flawed like everyone is. I disagree with a lot of her beliefs, but I respect her opinion. I am just against people posthumously slandering her.
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    May 04, 2013 1:37 PM GMT
    Hell no way , ( definition ) and lots of hair everywhere .
  • aznduderocks

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    May 04, 2013 1:55 PM GMT
    Silver_Chrome saidThe answer is YES, muscular guys get more attention. They're more attractive, it makes sense. Why buy the Honda when you can get the Corvette...?


    Uh..coz honda is much better car in the 'inside' lol I think your point is made.
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    May 31, 2013 6:19 PM GMT
    redbull saidA beautiful body is amazing to look at, admire, covet & have. If the personality coinciding with it isnt humble, fun or if theyre too stuck on themselves, arrogant, degrading & mean then they are a huge turn off for me no matter what they look like.


    ^I agree. Why can't there be more hot guys who are kind and considerate?
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    May 31, 2013 6:23 PM GMT
    musclejizz said
    redbull saidA beautiful body is amazing to look at, admire, covet & have. If the personality coinciding with it isnt humble, fun or if theyre too stuck on themselves, arrogant, degrading & mean then they are a huge turn off for me no matter what they look like.


    ^I agree. Why can't there be more hot guys who are kind and considerate?


    There are plenty of them! icon_smile.gif
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    May 31, 2013 7:40 PM GMT
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    muscledaddymark saidSO here's the benefit of my 56 years...people are attracted to all kinds of different things. {snip}

    I'm far from the biggest or most ripped guy in the gym, but I don't think I look to bad for my advanced years.


    Not to be mean, but you aren't exactly that muscular...icon_confused.gif

    Why would you call yourself that? Much less put it in your screen name...


    I'll have to politely disagree with ya on this, JM.

    (According to his profile) he's about my height and got about 10lbs more mass than me - and from the pics he's provided, he's got lean mass

    And I've been called a "muscle daddy" by a large handful of guys I've fucked in the 18-30 age range.

    But as the quotes poster remarked - "people are attracted to all kinds of different things."
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    May 31, 2013 7:46 PM GMT
    AlphaTrigger said
    jmusmc85 said
    muscledaddymark saidSO here's the benefit of my 56 years...people are attracted to all kinds of different things. {snip}

    I'm far from the biggest or most ripped guy in the gym, but I don't think I look to bad for my advanced years. blockquote>

    Not to be mean, but you aren't exactly that muscular...icon_confused.gif

    Why would you call yourself that? Much less put it in your screen name...


    I'll have to politely disagree with ya on this, JM.

    (According to his profile) he's about my height and got about 10lbs more mass than me - and from the pics he's provided, he's got lean mass

    And I've been called a "muscle daddy" by a large handful of guys I've fucked in the 18-30 age range.

    But as the quotes poster remarked - "people are attracted to all kinds of different things."


    Please, if I ever start trying to convince people that I'm hot by talking about the number of young guys I've fucked, put me out to pasture. Keep it to yourself. We're not impressed.
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    May 31, 2013 7:54 PM GMT
    muscsportsguy said
    AlphaTrigger said
    jmusmc85 said
    muscledaddymark saidSO here's the benefit of my 56 years...people are attracted to all kinds of different things. {snip}

    I'm far from the biggest or most ripped guy in the gym, but I don't think I look to bad for my advanced years. blockquote>

    Not to be mean, but you aren't exactly that muscular...icon_confused.gif

    Why would you call yourself that? Much less put it in your screen name...


    I'll have to politely disagree with ya on this, JM.

    (According to his profile) he's about my height and got about 10lbs more mass than me - and from the pics he's provided, he's got lean mass

    And I've been called a "muscle daddy" by a large handful of guys I've fucked in the 18-30 age range.

    But as the quotes poster remarked - "people are attracted to all kinds of different things."


    Please, if I ever start trying to convince people that I'm hot by talking about the number of young guys I've fucked, put me out to pasture. Keep it to yourself. We're not impressed.


    DAYUM! He threw major #shade at you Alpha....


    You going to let him get away with that?
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    May 31, 2013 8:04 PM GMT
    muscsportsguy said
    AlphaTrigger said
    jmusmc85 said
    muscledaddymark saidSO here's the benefit of my 56 years...people are attracted to all kinds of different things. {snip}

    I'm far from the biggest or most ripped guy in the gym, but I don't think I look to bad for my advanced years. blockquote>

    Not to be mean, but you aren't exactly that muscular...icon_confused.gif

    Why would you call yourself that? Much less put it in your screen name...


    I'll have to politely disagree with ya on this, JM.

    (According to his profile) he's about my height and got about 10lbs more mass than me - and from the pics he's provided, he's got lean mass

    And I've been called a "muscle daddy" by a large handful of guys I've fucked in the 18-30 age range.

    But as the quotes poster remarked - "people are attracted to all kinds of different things."


    Please, if I ever start trying to convince people that I'm hot by talking about the number of young guys I've fucked, put me out to pasture. Keep it to yourself. We're not impressed.


    He was making a valid point that has nothing to do with how hot he is. Your comment says more about you than it says about him.
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    May 31, 2013 8:05 PM GMT
    Aristoshark said
    jmusmc85 saidDAYUM! He threw major #shade at you Alpha
    You going to let him get away with that?

    trumpenik


    eh?
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    May 31, 2013 8:08 PM GMT
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    some dumb douchenozzle named muscsportsguy said
    AlphaTrigger said...


    Please, if I ever start trying to convince people that I'm hot by talking about the number of young guys I've fucked, put me out to pasture. Keep it to yourself. We're not impressed.


    DAYUM! He threw major #shade at you Alpha....


    You going to let him get away with that?


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    If I had any value of *his* opinion at all, I'd have shit in his mouth. ;)
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    May 31, 2013 8:09 PM GMT
    Aristoshark said
    jmusmc85 said
    Aristoshark said
    jmusmc85 saidDAYUM! He threw major #shade at you Alpha
    You going to let him get away with that?

    trumpenik


    eh?

    It's a Yiddish word that means someone who likes to stir up trouble between two other people.


    But, the instigator is JM's favorite Role in the RJ Soap.
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    May 31, 2013 8:10 PM GMT
    Slim2010 said
    Aristoshark said
    jmusmc85 said
    Aristoshark said
    jmusmc85 saidDAYUM! He threw major #shade at you Alpha
    You going to let him get away with that?

    trumpenik


    eh?

    It's a Yiddish word that means someone who likes to stir up trouble between two other people.


    But, the instigator is JM's favorite Role in the RJ Soap.


    I thought I was the slut?

    Or was that the idiot?

    I dunnooo.....
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    May 31, 2013 8:10 PM GMT
    On a superficial level, sadly, YES.
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    May 31, 2013 8:23 PM GMT
    It's just realistic... Can you look at someone and say they have a great personality? Probably not, a glance tells you about the outward appearance. , but little about character. When you have to sort through tons of different people, the best method is to first judge them based on looks then see if their personality is up to par by talking to them.
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    May 31, 2013 8:50 PM GMT
    Generally speaking, I would imagine so. So yeah, I feel there is truth that the more muscular a guy gets, the more attention he will get, especially in the gay community.

    I'm not going to go into all that scientific mumbo but I feel that guys are visual. However, this can go in many ways as everyone has different taste. As far as the muscular thing go. Say guy A trained and sculpted his body to look like a bodybuilder. Yes, he'd get an insane amount of attention but there would be the few people who don't have the same opinion on him. And same for a guy who builds lean muscle. Some like it, some don't.

    I know it's a vague description but I think you might get what I mean. So in the end, it depends on the guy.

    I will include that I am guilty at times at double looking at a guy I found attractive (a lot of times, muscular guys, yes I will admit it lol). But like other answers said, if I happened to be in a gay setting and came across a said muscular guy who I thought looked handsome; if he had a personality like being too into himself, putting down others, and things like that, my interest depletes completely.

    So as the saying goes, looks capture the attention but the personality is what keeps it. I know I probably butchered the saying but you know what I mean. lol
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    May 31, 2013 9:42 PM GMT
    Well most guys here who have an attractive body tend to get more comments on their photos. icon_wink.gif
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    May 31, 2013 9:53 PM GMT
    Trollileo saidAs I gained more lean mass (what little there is) I've actually gotten less attention than I did when I was a little chunkier.


    You're intimidating now.
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    May 31, 2013 9:59 PM GMT
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    Trollileo saidAs I gained more lean mass (what little there is) I've actually gotten less attention than I did when I was a little chunkier.
    You're intimidating now.
    How the bosoms am I intimidating?


    Lol, I was kind of joking.

    But you ARE hotter, so maybe some guys are less likely to risk the rejection.
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    May 31, 2013 10:32 PM GMT
    I don't necessarily think it's the more muscular you are...I think maybe it's a combination of that and how much skin you show.

    Just by looking at the MOTD candidates, you can tell. There are some guys who are smaller then me who get nominated regularly...according to your logic, that shouldn't be possible. But then you factor in that these guys are also showing off their asses in the Adult Pics section.

    To get noticed you unfortunately have to:

    1. Show off your ass

    and/or

    2. Be macho and have a perfect bod.

    Or...there is a 3rd that I thought of thats more rare but it happens and is the exception to the above rule: have a gorgeous face. There are quite a few guys who don't show any muscles or nudity and yet they get noticed because they have a face of a god.
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    Aug 07, 2013 7:14 AM GMT
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    jmusmc85 saidLet's just put it this way.


    I would let a bodybuilder fuck me, but I don't think I would date him....


    give a good reason...for such a decision....


    Well as a smaller guy, I think it would very unusual to have my 5'5 ass standing next to a 6footwhatever guy with bulging muscles.

    Plus, bodybuilders tend to follow a VERY strict diet and exercise routine that I simply have no desire to follow or revolve my life around.
    I go to the gym regularly and try to watch what I eat but I don't do it religiously.

    Lastly, and probably most importantly, I don't find the aesthetics of a bodybuilder as attractive as a man who is just fit or athletic.

    Exhibit A of what I would fuck, but not date....

    Zeb_Atlas_Series3_002.jpg


    Exhibit B of husband(s) material...my favorite is the tall one in the back...

    256189_156276261111369_122136551192007_3


    some of you that commented negatively on these men didn't realize they wouldn't fuck you without moneyicon_lol.gif
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    Aug 07, 2013 7:16 AM GMT
    MikemikeMike said
    jmusmc85 said
    tereseus1 said
    jmusmc85 saidLet's just put it this way.


    I would let a bodybuilder fuck me, but I don't think I would date him....


    give a good reason...for such a decision....


    Well as a smaller guy, I think it would very unusual to have my 5'5 ass standing next to a 6footwhatever guy with bulging muscles.

    Plus, bodybuilders tend to follow a VERY strict diet and exercise routine that I simply have no desire to follow or revolve my life around.
    I go to the gym regularly and try to watch what I eat but I don't do it religiously.

    Lastly, and probably most importantly, I don't find the aesthetics of a bodybuilder as attractive as a man who is just fit or athletic.

    Exhibit A of what I would fuck, but not date....

    Zeb_Atlas_Series3_002.jpg


    Exhibit B of husband(s) material...my favorite is the tall one in the back...

    256189_156276261111369_122136551192007_3


    some of you that commented negatively on these men didn't realize they wouldn't fuck you without moneyicon_lol.gif


    To the OP handsome face and nice bod works everytime. Guys with perfect bods can be unattractive and still get laid a lot.icon_idea.gif
    Been told I have both and I NEVER take it for granted.
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    Aug 07, 2013 7:21 AM GMT
    True, see it here all the time.
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    Aug 07, 2013 7:25 AM GMT
    Daelin saidSo in my personal experiences I've noticed this is true for the online world, is this true in real life as well? (gay bars etc) What's your experience?


    True. That's because fewer people are in as good shape and they either want or are jealous.