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  Oct 27, 2008 12:35 AM GMT

  So I'm dating this older guy. He's cute, great body, stable...a good kisser, but his rough stubble is KILLING ME!! I just now recovered from last weekend of raw lips and exfoliated cheeks (the best remedy since apricot scrub).
  
  I want to be with him, but I honestly don't know how long I can make-out with sandpaper. Should I tell him?
  
  This could just be me finding small issues and making a big deal of it...My lips tell me otherwise.
  
  My face feels like this guy here ----->
  
  
  

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  Oct 27, 2008 12:37 AM GMT

  Talk to him about it. You don't want to be uncomfortable.

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  Oct 27, 2008 2:06 AM GMT

  This seems to be an issue of late:
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  Oct 27, 2008 2:11 AM GMT

  I'm sure if it was a choice between shaving and losing some good making out with you, that he's likely to make the right choice. Be upfront about it.

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  Oct 27, 2008 2:41 AM GMT

  I often have the same problem. I have really sensitive skin, so after a long make-out session I sometimes even get scabs on my chin! So get the guy to shave!

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  Oct 27, 2008 2:53 AM GMT

  My first BF had a stubbly mustache that was torture on my face. I mentioned it to him, but he wanted to maintain his "look." So I grew my own mustache as a defense against his, and it actually worked pretty well.
  
  I would tell him about the problem. I doubt it's the first time he's heard it. How you guys deal with it is another matter, but discussion & compromise is a mark of 2 guys who can get along for the long term. Rigidity of position is usually a less favorable sign.

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  Oct 27, 2008 3:27 AM GMT

  I love my stubble. I could never part ways with it. I know what you mean thou. When I make out with another guy with a stubbly face i get red. I love it thou. But I guess thats me and I like it rough

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  Oct 27, 2008 3:39 AM GMT

  I guess I have pretty tough skin. I actually like the kiss exfoliant!

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  Oct 27, 2008 4:21 AM GMT

  Oh man I LOVE stubble! Thought if I hadn't shaved in a day or something and a guy told me he wanted me to shave I would not care at all. It's not big deal! I would do it ASAP for him lol.

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  Oct 27, 2008 4:42 AM GMT

  i love it.
  
  but take it up with him. yall will work something out.

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  Oct 27, 2008 9:01 PM GMT

  I'll tell him tonight before he comes over.
  
  I'm cooking him a steak dinner, the works!
  
  (I'm already growing out my beard too!! LOL)
  
  Thanks alot guys, ya'll are so helpful!

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  Oct 27, 2008 9:10 PM GMT

  The irritation and bruising on my chin from kissing a guy with stubble is a badge of honor for me. I wake up in the morning, look in the mirror and smile.

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