Dec 19, 2008 6:06 PM GMT
Okay, let me start by admitting something personal. I have bottomed in the past, and never enjoyed it (usually it hurt too much). I have also topped in the past (well...once...with a drunk straight boy), and I don't think I'm aggressive enough to be a top.
Anal sex has never been a priority, yet I know so many people enjoy it. Even my ex of 5 years and I never had intercourse.
Sometimes I wonder what is wrong with me. Why don't I enjoy anal sex as most other gay men do? Even when I watch porn, I fast forward through the intercourse scenes and only enjoy the foreplay.
Do I have a problem? Am I alone in feeling this way? Does anybody have any advice?
Anal sex has never been a priority, yet I know so many people enjoy it. Even my ex of 5 years and I never had intercourse.
Sometimes I wonder what is wrong with me. Why don't I enjoy anal sex as most other gay men do? Even when I watch porn, I fast forward through the intercourse scenes and only enjoy the foreplay.
Do I have a problem? Am I alone in feeling this way? Does anybody have any advice?