Dec 20, 2008 2:43 AM GMT
Hi guys
I was recently introduced to an old gentleman - he was keen to offer assistance with some music stuff I've been involved with in the run-up to Christmas. He's an expert in his field, and has been incredibly kind and helpful, way beyond what is 'normal': I'm deeply indebted to him, as are many people, in fact.
The problem is - and he's told me about it - that he has grown so used to helping others (which stems from having had to look after an ill relative for many years) that he neglects his own well-being. For instance, his diet is appalling, simply because he won't devote the time or energy to cooking decently for himself.
Naturally, I can't help feeling concerned, though I fully understand (and am humbled by) his perspective. Should I even try to get him to look after himself more? It's his diet that worries me mainly!
Thoughts would be appreciated, with thanks.
I was recently introduced to an old gentleman - he was keen to offer assistance with some music stuff I've been involved with in the run-up to Christmas. He's an expert in his field, and has been incredibly kind and helpful, way beyond what is 'normal': I'm deeply indebted to him, as are many people, in fact.
The problem is - and he's told me about it - that he has grown so used to helping others (which stems from having had to look after an ill relative for many years) that he neglects his own well-being. For instance, his diet is appalling, simply because he won't devote the time or energy to cooking decently for himself.
Naturally, I can't help feeling concerned, though I fully understand (and am humbled by) his perspective. Should I even try to get him to look after himself more? It's his diet that worries me mainly!
Thoughts would be appreciated, with thanks.
