More bottoms than tops??

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    Dec 20, 2008 5:08 PM GMT
    It seems whenever I have scanned any kind of gay ads and it specifies sex role preference most gay guys are bottoms. I was in Norfolk Va one time at a Phoenix Rising book store or something like that and they were selling key said "BOTTOM" and the other said "TOP".

    Well guess which one was sold out!!! The one that said "BOTTOM". The key chains that said 'TOP" were completely full.

    It just seems to me as gay men the majority of us are versatile or bottom. Which I think can be great. No limits I say. My bf and I are both versatile so we do everything to each other and its great....but generally I think alot of gay guys are bottoms compared to the gay guys that say they are top only.

    What do you think? I guess if this is true...if your gay and a top only that really opens the field up for you, haha.
  • rnch

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    Dec 20, 2008 6:12 PM GMT
    my current FB/almost bf and I both considered each other "tops" when we first met last spring.

    we have reached the comfort level with each other that we can be "vers" with each other and switch back and forth whenever the urge is there. icon_smile.gif

    first guy this has happened with for me! icon_surprised.gif
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    Dec 24, 2008 10:14 AM GMT
    Meh, not interested in either but here's the thing; someone else posted a forum about being the only bottom in a room full of tops.

    I guess this is a case where the grass is greener on the other side.