Sep 23, 2007 7:49 PM GMT
What would be the one thing that turns you off from the hotest, sexiest, cutest guy in the world?
Personally it would be a bad attitude.
Personally it would be a bad attitude.
What is your biggest turn off concerning other guys?
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Sep 23, 2007 7:49 PM GMT -
Sep 23, 2007 7:56 PM GMTLiars..
I don't care how hot they are. I just can't deal with it. People don't get many chances at all with me on honesty. -
Sep 23, 2007 10:45 PM GMTDefinately having a bad attitude. I can't stand it. -
Sep 23, 2007 10:48 PM GMTGotta second kylez4me's answer. -
Sep 23, 2007 10:53 PM GMTHmm... I'm not sure exactly how dumb they can be, yet still be attractive. But I'm willing to experiment. -
Sep 23, 2007 10:53 PM GMTFIRST: Drugs and/or Alcohol abuse
SECOND: Liar and/or Player
Third: Femininity
Fourth: Smoker
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Sep 23, 2007 11:00 PM GMTLying is a huge turn-off for me. Lying in any fashion - including the various forms of posing and changing who you are from crowd to crowd. Even white lies get me - it's a real "tell" in terms of how comfortable people truly are with each other when they can be honest about the little things. -
Sep 23, 2007 11:04 PM GMTI'm with Mindgarden. Stupidity is the ultimate woodkiller. -
Sep 23, 2007 11:13 PM GMTI'm with Mindgarden and OW. Dumb guys, even physically attractive dumb guys, are a complete turnoff. -
Sep 23, 2007 11:25 PM GMTSmoking. I see one particularly hot guy out and about every couple years. We flirt, he gives me his card, he leans in for the goodbye hug -- and it's ashtray, ashtray, ashtray.
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Sep 24, 2007 12:07 AM GMT1 - Liars in any form
2 - Drug users, Addicts
3 - Whiners who won't help themselves, Laziness
4 - Arrogance, predjudice, judgemental people
5 - Abusers, Bully's -
Sep 24, 2007 12:26 AM GMT1. Smokers, Drunks.
2. Atitudes, Fems. (just can not be withsome that talks like a girl.)
3. Liars.
4. many more but they are personal. -
Sep 24, 2007 12:27 AM GMTThe short list:
1. Stuck up (i.e., my shit don't stink and if you don't drive as nice a car as me, make as much money as me, have a nice home like me...then go away)
2. Smoking (I'm with squarejaw on that one, ick!)
3. Liars (though I may be a little less literal about TOTAL honesty than some of you guys)
4. Laziness (lack of ambition to make something of their life and expecting you to be the sole provider)
5. Judgemental
6. Substance abuse -
Sep 24, 2007 12:38 AM GMTStupidity.
Laziness bugs me, too. My biggest pet peeve of all has to be getting stuck in a car with someone who drives around looking for a parking spot close to the door.
Physically, I'm repulsed by teeth that aren't clean. -
Sep 24, 2007 1:10 AM GMTIf he can't laugh at himself. I like to push on his insecurities (playfully!) and if he can't push back, or worse, if he gets offended, that turns me off. On the other hand, those who can play that game and throw it right back at me are really fucking hot. -
Sep 24, 2007 1:12 AM GMTThe problem with being turned off by stupidity is that even more men are turned off by brains.
In order to lead a happy and healthy life, with plenty of robust sex, I think it's important to cultivate a really really stupid appearance. -
Sep 24, 2007 1:13 AM GMTOh, you are right, Rune. Lacking a sense of humor is even worse than being an idjit. -
Sep 24, 2007 1:26 AM GMTHmmm...Yep. All my turn-offs have been covered by the above. -
Sep 24, 2007 1:27 AM GMTShort list:
Liars
Players
Abusers (physical and/or substance)
Control freaks
Bad breath/body odor
Arrogance
Posers
Stupidity
Prejudice
Rudeness
Overly "macho" or overly "fem" (just be a regular guy already)
Moochers (get a job)
Whiners (get a clue)
The list goes on... but I'll save the others for another time... -
Sep 24, 2007 2:09 AM GMTBiggest....
would be - Drugs or alcohol
followed...quickly by smoking
lying
and laziness -
Sep 24, 2007 2:15 AM GMTObscenewishIn order to lead a happy and healthy life, with plenty of robust sex, I think it's important to cultivate a really really stupid appearance.
Fortunately, I've got that covered. However, I've been advised not to talk on a date, but concentrate on displaying the bulge. (?) -
Sep 24, 2007 2:15 AM GMTI'm with, mindgarden, chewey, and OW: stupidity. So of course brains, and the ability to use them are a turn on, and that added with a little culture and class, well, deadly. Also I need spontaneity, someone who goes with the flow and doesn't have to have everything planned. -
Sep 24, 2007 2:35 AM GMTI agree with Rune: if a guy can't take a joke (and I'm not that much of a joker) I can't do it. In the same vein, someone who's able to laugh when having sex. Not laugh because of the sex, but if something funny happens, it should be laughed at. My thoughts, anyway. -
Sep 24, 2007 2:58 AM GMTI'd go with attitude as the ultimate turnoff.
The "stupidity" thing seems to pop up a lot, which surprises me. I'm presuming those of you in the "stupidity" camp mean someone who is profoundly dumb, not just uneducated (not the same thing at all) or a tad slow on the uptake.
I've known some very special guys - hot, even, who weren't the brightest bulbs on the block, but had loving natures, generous spirits, and all of the usual phyical appeals. I'm glad they've crossed my path. -
Sep 24, 2007 3:00 AM GMTOWIn order to lead a happy and healthy life, with plenty of robust sex, I think it's important to cultivate a really really stupid appearance.
On friday I went to Burkhart's to check out the gay scene and see if I can break out of my little shell, and most guys there didn't seem to even get to the point of asking me anything that would lead them to believe I was intelligent. It went more like:
Guy: *looks at Rune a few times without saying anything*
Rune: *Thinks: Hmm he seems interested. I wonder what would happen if I said hi.*
Rune: *Thinks: No, I can't! I dunno what to do after that!*
Rune: *Thinks: Fuck it, I'll say it and maybe things will take care of themselves!*
Rune: *Nervously* "Hey I'm _________. You're kinda cute."
Guy: "You're really cute too"
*2 second pause*
*start making out*
So no one seemed concerend to find out my level of intelligence in there before wanting the robust sex (which I didn't let happen btw, I'm a good little boy, I was just testing the waters :) ). I think as long as you don't bring it up you're safe!
On a sidenote OW, you missed me practicing making out (yep, 23 and yesterday was the first time I kissed a dude.. and the second, and the third :P). I wonder if people are turned off or find it hot if I dunno what I'm doing ? What a shame you weren't there to show me the ropes ;)
