Guys who keep lying about their age...

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    Nov 02, 2014 4:48 PM GMT
    I beleive if you take very good care of yourself you wont have to lie.... have a 50% raw diet... exercise consistently don't drink, smoke, get plenty of rest.. And also skin care... And lets not forget your teeth and you can defy time.... If you put in the work, you won't have to lie... I am 40 and people think I am 25 (clean shaven)
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    Nov 02, 2014 7:12 PM GMT
    Jms31 saidWhy? I'm not going to think anything of you for being one year over 40 for example, but anyone that lies goes straight down in my estimation.

    It seems guys always ruin it just as we're getting to know each other. The worst one was back in winter. He told me online he was about late 40s. Met up on the day and he was nearer mid 60s icon_neutral.gif

    Can you forgive someone for lying about their age?


    Oh yeah, this one pisses me off.

    When its extreme lying of the age like this, this is clear chicken-hawk behavior and that is creepy.

    Granted some of it can be struck up to agism in the gay scene, but most of the time when its an old guy trying to pass himself off as merely older, its more or less a desperate attempt to trick younger guys into dating.

    If he is willing to lie and manipulate you this way, one has to wonder how many other ways is he willing to lie and manipulate.
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    Nov 03, 2014 2:23 AM GMT
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    MartyredNeons saidI don't understand though how some older men complain about younger guys being ageist when they themselves do not seek out same aged men and instead pine for men much younger than themselves.
    Isn't that a little hypocritical?

    yeah, pretty much this. Also, those older men would have been the biggest ageist when they were young. Even if some older guys are not into younger guys, they'll go all the way to display that by putting lines like no boys, only men or no twinks etc, on their profile. You would expect better from older guys who falunt their maturity as a desirable personality trait.


    Half of them end up going after the "boys" anyway; they just say that to plant the idea that older is "manlier", and thus sexy... sort of a self-advertisement
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    Nov 03, 2014 5:13 AM GMT
    ^^Haha, true say. I think most people who put outright rejection of types on their profile don't do it to be spiteful, but are simply insecure and feel the need to promote the opposite (ie: their own type). Like obese men who "don't want skinny anoxeric bitches" icon_lol.gif
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    Nov 04, 2014 12:54 AM GMT
    highforthis said^^Haha, true say. I think most people who put outright rejection of types on their profile don't do it to be spiteful, but are simply insecure and feel the need to promote the opposite (ie: their own type). Like obese men who "don't want skinny anoxeric bitches" icon_lol.gif


    That's very true. Myself, I never feel the need to lie about my age, or put down traditionally-hot types just to promote myself. Men my age make up for looks with charm, maturity, life experience, etc, and connect with other men who have those things. Unfortunately too many men look 40 but act 20, and fight like highschool girls, sort of the worst of all worlds.
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    Nov 04, 2014 1:29 AM GMT
    crazycrazydoesdoes said
    highforthis said^^Haha, true say. I think most people who put outright rejection of types on their profile don't do it to be spiteful, but are simply insecure and feel the need to promote the opposite (ie: their own type). Like obese men who "don't want skinny anoxeric bitches" icon_lol.gif


    That's very true. Myself, I never feel the need to lie about my age, or put down traditionally-hot types just to promote myself. Men my age make up for looks with charm, maturity, life experience, etc, and connect with other men who have those things. Unfortunately too many men look 40 but act 20, and fight like highschool girls, sort of the worst of all worlds.


    Translation;

    " I have an empty profile and am invisible because I have little to offer but I can pretend to be worldly and sophisticated. Will ANYONE ever notice me?..

    I will sit here and consult my magic 8 ball..."
  • craycraydoesd...

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    Nov 04, 2014 1:39 AM GMT
    oh wow, you're still on my case because I apparently dissed your bff art deco...
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    Nov 04, 2014 1:57 AM GMT
    crazycrazydoesdoes saidoh wow, you're still on my case because I apparently dissed your bff art deco...


    I couldn't care less about the " case" of an invisible nobody.

    Art doesn't even like Me but I think the crap you dish out is just plain wrong.

    You hide in the shadows and make noise but add nothing.

    Congratulations

    You rank slightly lower than a mosquito.
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    Nov 04, 2014 3:13 AM GMT
    crazycrazydoesdoes said
    __morphic__ said
    MartyredNeons saidI don't understand though how some older men complain about younger guys being ageist when they themselves do not seek out same aged men and instead pine for men much younger than themselves.
    Isn't that a little hypocritical?

    yeah, pretty much this. Also, those older men would have been the biggest ageist when they were young. Even if some older guys are not into younger guys, they'll go all the way to display that by putting lines like no boys, only men or no twinks etc, on their profile. You would expect better from older guys who falunt their maturity as a desirable personality trait.


    Half of them end up going after the "boys" anyway; they just say that to plant the idea that older is "manlier", and thus sexy... sort of a self-advertisement


    highforthis said^^Haha, true say. I think most people who put outright rejection of types on their profile don't do it to be spiteful, but are simply insecure and feel the need to promote the opposite (ie: their own type). Like obese men who "don't want skinny anoxeric bitches" icon_lol.gif


    Haha, agreed on all counts! I've actually been contacted by one of those "no twinks" 39-year-olds who told me I'm an "exception" lmao
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    Nov 04, 2014 7:00 AM GMT
    Avsigkommen said

    Hi. It is possible that you don't know this, but using nonstandard English such as the infinitive of the verb 'to be' as if it's the present form might make you seem ignorant in the eyes of others. Another critical error in your post was 'How you gonna...'. 'Gonna' is a widely used nonstandard word to mean 'going to', a way to introduce a future action. However, your lack of the auxiliary verb 'are' is improper because the use of a gerund ('going') will always require a form of the verb 'to be'.

    It is possible that you are unsure of how the verb 'to be' should be conjugated, as evidenced by your first critical error that was highlighted at the beginning of this post. Please inquire if you require any clarifications.


    Are you officially the grammar police, if so may I see your badge?

    Please.

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    Nov 04, 2014 7:15 AM GMT
    I lied because I was too young... People thoght I was a kid. But had such a great desire for sex that I couldn't control... I was 16 that time. And law restricted people to date me even they wished. So I lied and I don't regret. Now I m happy that I don't have to lie.
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    Nov 04, 2014 9:37 AM GMT
    Okay my profile is updated.
    I am now lying about my age icon_razz.gif
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    Nov 04, 2014 9:44 AM GMT
    Aditya96 saidI lied because I was too young... People thoght I was a kid. But had such a great desire for sex that I couldn't control... I was 16 that time. And law restricted people to date me even they wished. So I lied and I don't regret. Now I m happy that I don't have to lie.


    Nice

    Yes, there are quite a few profiles on here who's "Member since" date and birth date require NEW math.
  • highforthis

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    Nov 04, 2014 2:44 PM GMT
    christastic said
    crazycrazydoesdoes said
    __morphic__ said
    MartyredNeons saidI don't understand though how some older men complain about younger guys being ageist when they themselves do not seek out same aged men and instead pine for men much younger than themselves.
    Isn't that a little hypocritical?

    yeah, pretty much this. Also, those older men would have been the biggest ageist when they were young. Even if some older guys are not into younger guys, they'll go all the way to display that by putting lines like no boys, only men or no twinks etc, on their profile. You would expect better from older guys who falunt their maturity as a desirable personality trait.


    Half of them end up going after the "boys" anyway; they just say that to plant the idea that older is "manlier", and thus sexy... sort of a self-advertisement


    highforthis said^^Haha, true say. I think most people who put outright rejection of types on their profile don't do it to be spiteful, but are simply insecure and feel the need to promote the opposite (ie: their own type). Like obese men who "don't want skinny anoxeric bitches" icon_lol.gif


    Haha, agreed on all counts! I've actually been contacted by one of those "no twinks" 39-year-olds who told me I'm an "exception" lmao


    Lol same here
  • whytehot

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    Nov 05, 2014 1:42 AM GMT
    crazycrazydoesdoes said
    highforthis said^^Haha, true say. I think most people who put outright rejection of types on their profile don't do it to be spiteful, but are simply insecure and feel the need to promote the opposite (ie: their own type). Like obese men who "don't want skinny anoxeric bitches" icon_lol.gif


    That's very true. Myself, I never feel the need to lie about my age, or put down traditionally-hot types just to promote myself. Men my age make up for looks with charm, maturity, life experience, etc, and connect with other men who have those things. Unfortunately too many men look 40 but act 20, and fight like highschool girls, sort of the worst of all worlds.


    When they instead cite these as selling points to connect with barely-legal boys, it defeats the purpose of having those qualities (if they even have them). rolleyes.gif
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    Nov 05, 2014 1:48 AM GMT
    Stopped lying when I got real ID I could buy beer with.
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    Nov 05, 2014 2:24 AM GMT
    Cash said
    crazycrazydoesdoes said
    highforthis said^^Haha, true say. I think most people who put outright rejection of types on their profile don't do it to be spiteful, but are simply insecure and feel the need to promote the opposite (ie: their own type). Like obese men who "don't want skinny anoxeric bitches" icon_lol.gif


    That's very true. Myself, I never feel the need to lie about my age, or put down traditionally-hot types just to promote myself. Men my age make up for looks with charm, maturity, life experience, etc, and connect with other men who have those things. Unfortunately too many men look 40 but act 20, and fight like highschool girls, sort of the worst of all worlds.


    Translation;

    " I have an empty profile and am invisible because I have little to offer but I can pretend to be worldly and sophisticated. Will ANYONE ever notice me?..

    I will sit here and consult my magic 8 ball..."


    Lol case in point
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    Nov 05, 2014 5:18 AM GMT
    whytehot said
    Cash said
    crazycrazydoesdoes said
    highforthis said^^Haha, true say. I think most people who put outright rejection of types on their profile don't do it to be spiteful, but are simply insecure and feel the need to promote the opposite (ie: their own type). Like obese men who "don't want skinny anoxeric bitches" icon_lol.gif


    That's very true. Myself, I never feel the need to lie about my age, or put down traditionally-hot types just to promote myself. Men my age make up for looks with charm, maturity, life experience, etc, and connect with other men who have those things. Unfortunately too many men look 40 but act 20, and fight like highschool girls, sort of the worst of all worlds.


    Translation;

    " I have an empty profile and am invisible because I have little to offer but I can pretend to be worldly and sophisticated. Will ANYONE ever notice me?..

    I will sit here and consult my magic 8 ball..."


    Lol case in point


    I guess that part hit a nerve with him icon_lol.gif
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    Nov 05, 2014 5:31 AM GMT
    crazycrazydoesdoes said
    whytehot said
    Cash said
    crazycrazydoesdoes said
    highforthis said^^Haha, true say. I think most people who put outright rejection of types on their profile don't do it to be spiteful, but are simply insecure and feel the need to promote the opposite (ie: their own type). Like obese men who "don't want skinny anoxeric bitches" icon_lol.gif


    That's very true. Myself, I never feel the need to lie about my age, or put down traditionally-hot types just to promote myself. Men my age make up for looks with charm, maturity, life experience, etc, and connect with other men who have those things. Unfortunately too many men look 40 but act 20, and fight like highschool girls, sort of the worst of all worlds.


    Translation;

    " I have an empty profile and am invisible because I have little to offer but I can pretend to be worldly and sophisticated. Will ANYONE ever notice me?..

    I will sit here and consult my magic 8 ball..."


    Lol case in point


    I guess that part hit a nerve with him icon_lol.gif


    Somehow, I think I can manage to survive without the two of you liking Me or understanding My humor.

    Considering the sources, it's to be expected.

    And a pretty good indication that I am exactly where I want to be.

    And a glaring neon sign that your both exactly where you always will be.

    Now, I will try to carry on...

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  • highforthis

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    Nov 05, 2014 6:55 AM GMT
    ^^It might be because you were attacking crazycrazy over a pretty-reasonable post. Was there something that you actually disagreed with other than his lack of a face picture lol?
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    highforthis said^^It might be because you were attacking crazycrazy over a pretty-reasonable post. Was there something that you actually disagreed with other than his lack of a face picture lol?


    It is not that particular post per se but the culmination of all of "his" dim witted posts. The fact that's"he" is invisible and empty only further solidifies My opinion of "him."

    As for the other, I don't know him, would never have any reason to and the only time he has attempted to address Me has been to make comments based on things he knows nothing about.. He has no reason to interact with Me at all -- and should simply keep,it that way.

    Done.

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    Nov 07, 2014 2:44 AM GMT
    1. Tons of guys who are invisible who don't want their "issues" and venting traced to them in real life, unlike some of the queens here.

    2. Yeah I had no reason to address you, and I didn't... until you attacked me first... on every thread!!

    Pretty sure you felt indicted by something I said, that's the only explanation possible... just lay off or ignore me if you can't help yourself lol
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    Nov 07, 2014 3:08 AM GMT
    crazycrazydoesdoes said1. Tons of guys who are invisible who don't want their "issues" and venting traced to them in real life, unlike some of the queens here.

    2. Yeah I had no reason to address you, and I didn't... until you attacked me first... on every thread!!

    Pretty sure you felt indicted by something I said, that's the only explanation possible... just lay off or ignore me if you can't help yourself lol




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    crazycrazydoesdoes said
    Just me personally, if I lived such a charmed life of fundraisers and candlelight dinners, I would be too busy enjoying life to bother with posting about it on RJ, let alone have 36,000 posts. Don't waste your golden years here, OP!


    Now, what EXACTLY was the point here crazycrazycantshowmyface???

    He and His Husband ARE enjoying Life. And Giving a little something in return.

    RJ is a viable community that He enjoys participating in.

    That can't possibly affect YOUR life, so what does it matter If He has 36 MILLION posts???

    Back off....


    Do you honestly believe something like you could "indict" Me on any level?

    Agree or disagree with Me...I am here, transparent and quite capable of justifying Myself.

    I think the above adds all the clarity required.

    I don't block or ignore because I despise sensorship.

    You have never been attacked, just addressed.

    Your invisibility is quite apropos for you -- a bag of air that adds nothing but demands attention.

    Well done Madame...

  • craycraydoesd...

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    Nov 10, 2014 4:44 AM GMT
    Cash said...I don't know him, would never have any reason to and the only time he has attempted to address Me has been to make comments based on things he knows nothing about.. He has no reason to interact with Me at all -- and should simply keep,it that way...


    crazycrazydoesdoes saidYeah I had no reason to address you, and I didn't... until you attacked me first... on every thread!!


    Cash said...You have never been attacked, just addressed...



    Lol, you tell me not to talk to you - and I never did, but you keep "addressing" me when I'm not even talking to you... make up your mind! Crazy bitches icon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    Nov 10, 2014 4:53 AM GMT
    I'm not 30!!!!icon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gif