Guys who keep lying about their age...

  • whytehot

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    Nov 11, 2014 1:48 AM GMT
    crazycrazydoesdoes said
    Cash said...I don't know him, would never have any reason to and the only time he has attempted to address Me has been to make comments based on things he knows nothing about.. He has no reason to interact with Me at all -- and should simply keep,it that way...


    crazycrazydoesdoes saidYeah I had no reason to address you, and I didn't... until you attacked me first... on every thread!!


    Cash said...You have never been attacked, just addressed...



    Lol, you tell me not to talk to you - and I never did, but you keep "addressing" me when I'm not even talking to you... make up your mind! Crazy bitches icon_lol.gificon_lol.gif


    Lol he was referring to me - "the other". Anyway, still overkill for, like others said, a reasonable post. A bit self-promotioney, but less so than a lot of the queens here icon_lol.gif
  • HottJoe

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    Nov 11, 2014 1:55 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidI'm not 30!!!!icon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gif

    Didn't you turn 30 last year and everyone gave you presents and stayed up until 9:00 PM telling hilarious and sad stories about your life and service in the military?
  • craycraydoesd...

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    Nov 11, 2014 5:39 AM GMT
    whytehot said
    crazycrazydoesdoes said
    Cash said...I don't know him, would never have any reason to and the only time he has attempted to address Me has been to make comments based on things he knows nothing about.. He has no reason to interact with Me at all -- and should simply keep,it that way...


    crazycrazydoesdoes saidYeah I had no reason to address you, and I didn't... until you attacked me first... on every thread!!


    Cash said...You have never been attacked, just addressed...



    Lol, you tell me not to talk to you - and I never did, but you keep "addressing" me when I'm not even talking to you... make up your mind! Crazy bitches icon_lol.gificon_lol.gif


    Lol he was referring to me - "the other". Anyway, still overkill for, like others said, a reasonable post. A bit self-promotioney, but less so than a lot of the queens here icon_lol.gif


    How was I self-promoting?? I was mostly referring to what men my age should be doing.
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    Nov 11, 2014 9:36 PM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidI'm not 30!!!!icon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gif


    You're going to need to change that catchphrase soon icon_razz.gif
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    Nov 11, 2014 9:41 PM GMT
    Ohno said
    jmusmc85 saidI'm not 30!!!!icon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gif


    You're going to need to change that catchphrase soon icon_razz.gif

    Well, some of his loving friends think he may actually be approaching 31 - so he could continue denying that he is 30.
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    Nov 11, 2014 10:59 PM GMT
    Wesley10 saidI beleive if you take very good care of yourself you wont have to lie.... have a 50% raw diet... exercise consistently don't drink, smoke, get plenty of rest.. And also skin care... And lets not forget your teeth and you can defy time.... If you put in the work, you won't have to lie... I am 40 and people think I am 25 (clean shaven)


    Reminds me of the new TV show "Younger"....she's 40 and pretending to be 20 something.

    Black men have an advantage: they don;t crack! And you do look 25!
  • Unnamed6

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    Nov 12, 2014 12:54 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidI'm not 30!!!!icon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gif


    Believe it or not, people say I still look like a teenager.
  • whytehot

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    Nov 12, 2014 3:36 AM GMT
    crazycrazydoesdoes said
    whytehot said
    crazycrazydoesdoes said
    Cash said...I don't know him, would never have any reason to and the only time he has attempted to address Me has been to make comments based on things he knows nothing about.. He has no reason to interact with Me at all -- and should simply keep,it that way...


    crazycrazydoesdoes saidYeah I had no reason to address you, and I didn't... until you attacked me first... on every thread!!


    Cash said...You have never been attacked, just addressed...



    Lol, you tell me not to talk to you - and I never did, but you keep "addressing" me when I'm not even talking to you... make up your mind! Crazy bitches icon_lol.gificon_lol.gif


    Lol he was referring to me - "the other". Anyway, still overkill for, like others said, a reasonable post. A bit self-promotioney, but less so than a lot of the queens here icon_lol.gif


    How was I self-promoting?? I was mostly referring to what men my age should be doing.


    Whatever, at least not as self-promotioney as Cash's lengthy poems about himself http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/3948602/ rolleyes.gif
  • smegnificient

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    Nov 12, 2014 4:32 AM GMT
    crazycrazydoesdoes said
    __morphic__ said
    MartyredNeons saidI don't understand though how some older men complain about younger guys being ageist when they themselves do not seek out same aged men and instead pine for men much younger than themselves.
    Isn't that a little hypocritical?

    yeah, pretty much this. Also, those older men would have been the biggest ageist when they were young. Even if some older guys are not into younger guys, they'll go all the way to display that by putting lines like no boys, only men or no twinks etc, on their profile. You would expect better from older guys who falunt their maturity as a desirable personality trait.


    Half of them end up going after the "boys" anyway; they just say that to plant the idea that older is "manlier", and thus sexy... sort of a self-advertisement


    highforthis said^^Haha, true say. I think most people who put outright rejection of types on their profile don't do it to be spiteful, but are simply insecure and feel the need to promote the opposite (ie: their own type). Like obese men who "don't want skinny anoxeric bitches" icon_lol.gif



    So true
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    Nov 12, 2014 5:24 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidGuys can'take believe I'm 43. They tell me to my face in person I look like I'm in my mid thirties.

    It turns me off when guys either lie about their age or conceal it.

    The worst of it all is that they tend to be the most sanctimonious hypocrites in general.


    i get told mid thirties a lot too. which is why i personally try not to judge people for that.. it really is just a number.

    and if i found out someone lied about that i would probably doubt a lot of whatever else they said.
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    Nov 13, 2014 1:19 AM GMT
    smegnificient said
    crazycrazydoesdoes said
    __morphic__ said
    MartyredNeons saidI don't understand though how some older men complain about younger guys being ageist when they themselves do not seek out same aged men and instead pine for men much younger than themselves.
    Isn't that a little hypocritical?

    yeah, pretty much this. Also, those older men would have been the biggest ageist when they were young. Even if some older guys are not into younger guys, they'll go all the way to display that by putting lines like no boys, only men or no twinks etc, on their profile. You would expect better from older guys who falunt their maturity as a desirable personality trait.


    Half of them end up going after the "boys" anyway; they just say that to plant the idea that older is "manlier", and thus sexy... sort of a self-advertisement


    highforthis said^^Haha, true say. I think most people who put outright rejection of types on their profile don't do it to be spiteful, but are simply insecure and feel the need to promote the opposite (ie: their own type). Like obese men who "don't want skinny anoxeric bitches" icon_lol.gif



    So true


    similar to fat basement warcraft players who rate supermodels "2/10, would not bang"..
  • highforthis

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    Nov 14, 2014 3:37 AM GMT
    meanwhile:

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    Nov 14, 2014 4:22 AM GMT
    whytehot said
    crazycrazydoesdoes said
    whytehot said
    crazycrazydoesdoes said
    Cash said...I don't know him, would never have any reason to and the only time he has attempted to address Me has been to make comments based on things he knows nothing about.. He has no reason to interact with Me at all -- and should simply keep,it that way...


    crazycrazydoesdoes saidYeah I had no reason to address you, and I didn't... until you attacked me first... on every thread!!


    Cash said...You have never been attacked, just addressed...



    Lol, you tell me not to talk to you - and I never did, but you keep "addressing" me when I'm not even talking to you... make up your mind! Crazy bitches icon_lol.gificon_lol.gif


    Lol he was referring to me - "the other". Anyway, still overkill for, like others said, a reasonable post. A bit self-promotioney, but less so than a lot of the queens here icon_lol.gif


    How was I self-promoting?? I was mostly referring to what men my age should be doing.


    Whatever, at least not as self-promotioney as Cash's lengthy poems about himself http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/3948602/ rolleyes.gif


    Self promoting?
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    I have been around a bit so I occasionally share stories and ideas that I feel are relevant to the topic.

    That IS part of the point of being involved with a Social Site.

    I have experienced enough of Life to have a valid point of view and have no fears of expressing it.

    Who exactly do you think I would be trying to promote Myself to? "you?"

    That is truly laughable.

    And you know it.

    Don't like what I write, dont read it.

    I ASSURE you I can easily survive with out the patronage of something like you.

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  • whytehot

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    Nov 14, 2014 6:50 AM GMT
    Cash said
    whytehot saidWhatever, at least not as self-promotioney as Cash's lengthy poems about himself http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/3948602/ rolleyes.gif


    Self promoting?
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    I have been around a bit so I occasionally share stories and ideas that I feel are relevant to the topic.

    That IS part of the point of being involved with a Social Site.

    I have experienced enough of Life to have a valid point of view and have no fears of expressing it.

    Who exactly do you think I would be trying to promote Myself to? "you?"

    That is truly laughable.

    And you know it.

    Don't like what I write, dont read it.

    I ASSURE you I can easily survive with out the patronage of something like you.


    Obviously not me, I'm way too old for you anyway lol

    It's just a pity seeing your ad-nauseum "I don't need to defend myself, I come from a royal pedigree, oh and my ex bought me a vintage car, don't u forget that!" that's all. rolleyes.gif
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    Nov 14, 2014 7:13 AM GMT
    whytehot said
    Cash said
    whytehot saidWhatever, at least not as self-promotioney as Cash's lengthy poems about himself http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/3948602/ rolleyes.gif


    Self promoting?
    icon_smile.gif
    I have been around a bit so I occasionally share stories and ideas that I feel are relevant to the topic.

    That IS part of the point of being involved with a Social Site.

    I have experienced enough of Life to have a valid point of view and have no fears of expressing it.

    Who exactly do you think I would be trying to promote Myself to? "you?"

    That is truly laughable.

    And you know it.

    Don't like what I write, dont read it.

    I ASSURE you I can easily survive with out the patronage of something like you.


    Obviously not me, I'm way too old for you anyway lol

    It's just a pity seeing your ad-nauseum "I don't need to defend myself, I come from a royal pedigree, oh and my ex bought me a vintage car, don't u forget that!" that's all. rolleyes.gif


    I have had a signicantly different life than you and that seems to piss you off. I told the story about the car( one of several I have received over the years - bet THAT sticks yer craw) because it was a sweet romantic gesture. And sorta cool and fun.

    There is far more to My life than the trinkets I have been handed.

    Anyone who knows Me for more than 2 minutes will tell you that. Including the many Men I have become Friends with and dated from RJ.

    But what difference does it make to someone like you?

    Again, feel free to block Me.

    Don't like what I have to say- don't read it.

    You are not the demographic I would be looking to impress, befriend or communicate with anyway.

    So let's agree to avoid one another.

    I will simply live My life as I see fit and you can pretend to have one!

    Deal?
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  • christastic

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    Nov 16, 2014 12:00 AM GMT
    highforthis said
    christastic said
    crazycrazydoesdoes said
    __morphic__ said
    MartyredNeons saidI don't understand though how some older men complain about younger guys being ageist when they themselves do not seek out same aged men and instead pine for men much younger than themselves.
    Isn't that a little hypocritical?

    yeah, pretty much this. Also, those older men would have been the biggest ageist when they were young. Even if some older guys are not into younger guys, they'll go all the way to display that by putting lines like no boys, only men or no twinks etc, on their profile. You would expect better from older guys who falunt their maturity as a desirable personality trait.


    Half of them end up going after the "boys" anyway; they just say that to plant the idea that older is "manlier", and thus sexy... sort of a self-advertisement


    highforthis said^^Haha, true say. I think most people who put outright rejection of types on their profile don't do it to be spiteful, but are simply insecure and feel the need to promote the opposite (ie: their own type). Like obese men who "don't want skinny anoxeric bitches" icon_lol.gif


    Haha, agreed on all counts! I've actually been contacted by one of those "no twinks" 39-year-olds who told me I'm an "exception" lmao


    Lol same here


    They think we're born yesterday lol
  • HottJoe

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    Nov 16, 2014 12:12 AM GMT
    christastic said
    highforthis said
    christastic said
    crazycrazydoesdoes said
    __morphic__ said
    MartyredNeons saidI don't understand though how some older men complain about younger guys being ageist when they themselves do not seek out same aged men and instead pine for men much younger than themselves.
    Isn't that a little hypocritical?

    yeah, pretty much this. Also, those older men would have been the biggest ageist when they were young. Even if some older guys are not into younger guys, they'll go all the way to display that by putting lines like no boys, only men or no twinks etc, on their profile. You would expect better from older guys who falunt their maturity as a desirable personality trait.


    Half of them end up going after the "boys" anyway; they just say that to plant the idea that older is "manlier", and thus sexy... sort of a self-advertisement


    highforthis said^^Haha, true say. I think most people who put outright rejection of types on their profile don't do it to be spiteful, but are simply insecure and feel the need to promote the opposite (ie: their own type). Like obese men who "don't want skinny anoxeric bitches" icon_lol.gif


    Haha, agreed on all counts! I've actually been contacted by one of those "no twinks" 39-year-olds who told me I'm an "exception" lmao


    Lol same here


    They think we're born yesterday lol

    I've always wondered about the highforthis, whytehot, christastic clique, but all of this explains it. You guys say you don't like older men because you are obsessed with them! Thank God! I'm glad that's cleared up.icon_lol.gif
  • christastic

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    Nov 16, 2014 12:24 AM GMT
    uh what? who r u and why are you taking it so personally?
  • HottJoe

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    Nov 16, 2014 12:38 AM GMT
    christastic saiduh what? who r u and why are you taking it so personally?

    You've probably never seen me before. (I rarely post.) But I took your little dialogue so personally that I just had to come out of my shell. THANKS!
  • christastic

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    Nov 16, 2014 5:21 AM GMT
    But why the adhominem attack? They were talking about guys who try to boost their own type by putting down opposite types... surely you're not one of them?
  • HottJoe

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    Nov 16, 2014 3:15 PM GMT
    christastic saidBut why the adhominem attack? They were talking about guys who try to boost their own type by putting down opposite types... surely you're not one of them?

    I only pointed out that you and your friends Whytehot and highforthis are constantly putting down older men (that's all you're known for to the point that it seems like it's the only reason you're here) so, by your own logic, you're just trying boost yourselves???

    I'm 35, and wondering how many more years I have to go until I'm the target of this kind of abuse.

    The really irksome thing is that on this particular site you couldn't be more wrong. People on RJ aren't looking for young underdeveloped men, at least not that I'm aware of. The guys here are generally more interested in buff guys that have professional adult lives and are simply not, for lack of a better word, twinks.
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    Nov 16, 2014 3:24 PM GMT
    MartyredNeons saidI don't understand though how some older men complain about younger guys being ageist when they themselves do not seek out same aged men and instead pine for men much younger than themselves.
    Isn't that a little hypocritical?


    +1
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    Nov 16, 2014 3:28 PM GMT
    HottJoe said
    christastic said
    highforthis said
    christastic said
    crazycrazydoesdoes said
    __morphic__ said
    MartyredNeons saidI don't understand though how some older men complain about younger guys being ageist when they themselves do not seek out same aged men and instead pine for men much younger than themselves.
    Isn't that a little hypocritical?

    yeah, pretty much this. Also, those older men would have been the biggest ageist when they were young. Even if some older guys are not into younger guys, they'll go all the way to display that by putting lines like no boys, only men or no twinks etc, on their profile. You would expect better from older guys who falunt their maturity as a desirable personality trait.


    Half of them end up going after the "boys" anyway; they just say that to plant the idea that older is "manlier", and thus sexy... sort of a self-advertisement


    highforthis said^^Haha, true say. I think most people who put outright rejection of types on their profile don't do it to be spiteful, but are simply insecure and feel the need to promote the opposite (ie: their own type). Like obese men who "don't want skinny anoxeric bitches" icon_lol.gif


    Haha, agreed on all counts! I've actually been contacted by one of those "no twinks" 39-year-olds who told me I'm an "exception" lmao


    Lol same here


    They think we're born yesterday lol

    I've always wondered about the highforthis, whytehot, christastic clique, but all of this explains it. You guys say you don't like older men because you are obsessed with them! Thank God! I'm glad that's cleared up.icon_lol.gif



    They are actually the same person. It's kinda obvious.
  • HottJoe

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    Nov 16, 2014 3:54 PM GMT
    kxd7 said
    MartyredNeons saidI don't understand though how some older men complain about younger guys being ageist when they themselves do not seek out same aged men and instead pine for men much younger than themselves.
    Isn't that a little hypocritical?


    +1

    I think young gay men get it in their heads that older gay men are lecherous, because those are the only older gay men who pay attention to them, and I think the older men who pay attention to them are often in a fantasy. Perhaps they didn't sew their oats and are making up for lost time?

    I can remember being 20 or so and fearing that I would still be attracted to young guys when I got older, because it seemed like every older guy just wanted an 18 year old, but that's not how it worked. I realize that I have gotten less self absorbed as I've gotten older, and the flaw of my logic back then was that I thought the world revolved around me and my generation.

    I'm in my 30s now and still really only attracted to guys my age, or within a few years of my age, the same as I always have been. I've only been in one relationship in my whole life where there was a big nine year age difference, and that relationship was as doomed to fail as if I'd been with a woman.

    Anyone significantly younger than me looks too much like a child to treat as a sexual equal, and anyone significantly older than me who is attracted to me makes me feel like a light snack.

    I think I'm more typical, and the guys that haunt the younger crowds are the exception.

    The reason more guys don't talk about it is that we know it's insulting to call young people immature, or to call older guys lecherous.

    The fact is my husband and I are 10 months apart in age, and that means we're not in some father son mentor mentee relationship. We face the milestones of aging together as equals.

    mho
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    Nov 16, 2014 6:37 PM GMT
    ^^You do realize that you're an exception here, and that every single age-related thread on this forum is filled with older men emphatically saying "it's just a number!" "consenting adults!" or "I'm 50 and have 18 year olds lining up outside my door..." icon_lol.gif

    We all get old eventually, but I never understand why people use that to justify the behaviors of SOME older men