Saffron69 saidI must agree with this assessment most of the guys I interact with on this site r usually Americans n everyone else outside my country. South African gay n bi men in general r not a mature bunch. No matter what site I go to the overwhelming majority of South Africans are only here to cruise. It's really embarrassing. Im not sure about anyone else (in SA) but aside from having to deal with guys who treat RJ like another fuck site I also deal with a lot of racism n disrespect... given our history as a country a lot of white guys have never been with black men before. Some will even go as far as to write "White Men Only" on their profiles... ironically its usually these same guys that message me to have thier jungle fever fantasy like Im Castro Supreme or somthing, like Im a chew toy to experiment on paying no mind to the words on my pro or the fact I'm a human as well n not a tally for anyone's "fuck it" list. Its all very frustrating! Its not all bad though it's nice to know not every gay n bi guy in the world is like that... inspires one to travel if given the chance
So unbelievably true. The first part for me at least. I end up dating sometimes up to a decade older to feel on the same maturity level.
With my ex being 27 and still saying: "Haal jou Piel uit" (You don't wanna know)
Like what the fuck. Dumbed his ass faster than you could say snap.
The racial thing is true, but I mostly don't hang out with those type of guys but i do experience the reversed on here coming from black south africans, So I definitely get where you're coming from. Then theres the fact that I'm so young too Twink this think that
Not to sound shallow but have you also noticed how most of the South Africans here don't have much going for themselves on RJ saffron? Whats up with that?