Is it stupid to want luxury goods?

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    Dec 17, 2014 9:50 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidP.S. if my post upsets you, and you can't give up music for anything, then my advice is to make time for it every single day. You will get better and maybe even strike gold. But those instruments aren't going to play themselves.


    No, it didn't upset me. I still do music sometimes, if I continued, I mean I could get into conducting, I was a singer though in my undergrad. So I always have my voice with me, and I still sing privately. Glance at some arias now and then. Or I could do arts administration. That could work too. I just can't choose though...
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    Dec 18, 2014 4:30 AM GMT
    Scotticvs saidBut I came so far in music school. And it really defines me. I learned languages very quickly and efficiently too, and I wish I could travel and see fhe world. It's just so hard trying to make a decision about what to do and what really matters...

    I believe that a person is more likely to be successful if they make a career out of doing what they like doing. Assuming that what they like doing is reasonably lucrative.

    You're lucky that you know what you like doing; I worked with a lot of people who were doing computer work and didn't like it but were trapped in their jobs because it paid well. And none of them had any idea what they would have rather been doing.
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    Dec 18, 2014 8:45 AM GMT
    There is nothing wrong with having nice things (aka "luxury goods"), however what is stupid about it is: 1) wanting nothing but luxury goods, 2) getting luxury goods you can't afford to have.
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    Dec 18, 2014 8:49 AM GMT
    BIG_N_TALL saidThere is nothing wrong with having nice things (aka "luxury goods"), however what is stupid about it is: 1) wanting nothing but luxury goods, 2) getting luxury goods you can't afford to have.
    Well said.
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    Dec 18, 2014 2:47 PM GMT
    Scotticvs saidPlease tell me it really is. I certainly act like it would be amazing but I probably shouldn't.

    I dream someday of having a nice, southern Californian high rise condo looking out to the ocean. Nothing huge per se, but luxurious, fashionable and where I could really see myself making my dream home. Of course, that key word is "luxury". I see the stories in magazines like Details that tantalize with scenic pictures of these amazing places. But as glorified as they are, is it really something I should want enough to try to get?

    I have my music, and I have my art. It may not make me much money, but it makes me think deeply and philosophically about our existence and place in the universe. I go to the gym to improve my body, and really put in the physical effort. I work hard at my job and it keeps a roof over my head.

    After all, a Mercedes is just another car. A Louis Vuitton suitcase is just an overpriced suitcase. Diamonds are just shiny rocks. Or is there really more to this stuff than just meets the eye?


    Here's my take on luxury goods. Its a pretty simple matter actually and easy to understand and put in context.

    There are two types of buyers of luxury goods: those who enjoy a high-quality product, and those who simply feel that having nice things makes them more impressive to others.

    If you fall into the latter category then hopefully you'll get a wakeup call eventually and realize that unless your career is as a reality TV star, those other people don't matter.
    The former category is where I fall, even though I'm in a tight spot right now and can't spend on things that I used to. I've experienced firsthand the difference between buying "cheap" and buying "quality" goods, Ralph Lauren being a perfect example (the classic stuff, not the idiotic "Big Polo" line). I once bought a pack of Haynes undershirts. I wore them sporadically for a year before they all developed holes in the armpits and unravelled stitching. By contrast, a pack of RL undershirts lasted several years and only got given away when they were no longer white enough to wear under a white shirt (engine oil, etc).

    Buying a 15,000 timepiece can be about several different things (for the record, I'm unlikely to ever spend that much on a watch, lol). It can be about show and flash or simply enjoying the feel of a hand-made accessory, but other things as well. A watch is an easy place to dump cash that you'd like to save on the side, tax-free (Rolex is a common brand used for this purpose as it doesn't depreciate quickly). If you get a timepiece made by a particularly small and unique firm it may even APPRECIATE in value over the time (heheh, pun) you own it if the issue size is small enough.

    A Mercedes is a study in perfecting every element of an automobile within the context of mass-production. Sitting in an S-Class and examining the quality, fit, finish and heft of all the componentry and then remembering that this car was basically built on a production line for volume sales is astounding. I particularly prefer vintage Mercedes though, as they're less complicated than the new ones (with the exception of the old 600 Pullmans).

    In the end, luxury should be about what makes YOU happy, not about what makes others envious.
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    Dec 18, 2014 2:57 PM GMT
    Scotticvs saidIs it stupid to want luxury goods?
    Please tell me it really is....


    YES it is stupid.