Why do old white men assume young minorities will be attracted to them?

  • BloodFlame

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    Dec 21, 2014 12:41 PM GMT
    Destinharbor saidYa know, while you whine about how awful old men are, it certainly appears you can't attract anyone of any age. Listen, you moron, the population of older, gay guys is small having lived through a period when it was social and economic suicide to be out unless you were a hairdresser or ran a flower shop. Exceptions certainly, but few enough that most guys just figured out how to live in some closet or other. Oh, yeah. And we managed to make it OK for you twits to live openly. So outside of a few concentration centers like Palm Springs, the chance to meet other guy guys that have transitioned out of that closet is problematic and largely internet based. In my experience, most older guys can and do admire guys of all ages. And there is a substantial group of younger guys that actually prefer older guys because we generally aren't childish and stupid like you. So we chat around the net. Some are drooly and nasty just like you and it doesn't surprise me that they keep finding you. But it appears to me that there are just as many slimy, uneducated, self-centered McDonalds fry machine mental midgets who think they are interesting for no reason other than they're young. HEY! Heads up! You're attracting an older version of yourself. But it doesn't apply to the rest of us, young or old.


    I was just answering the question from my experience. Sheesh. Since when did I say older guys were "gross"?

    Just because some of us had some less than stellar experiences doesn't mean we think all older men like that. I've met quite a few nice older men who were fun to talk to and learn where they came from or their origins.

    Again, I didn't mean to offend and I apologize.
  • helloandgoodb...

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    Dec 21, 2014 2:45 PM GMT
    old white men don't assume young minorities will be attracted to them, they are attracted to young minorities and hope you will be attracted to them
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    Dec 21, 2014 8:06 PM GMT
    It's not all that unusual for younger guys to be attracted to older guys, although one has to wonder about the motivation sometimes.
  • Destinharbor

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    Dec 21, 2014 8:13 PM GMT
    jtz03932 saidOld men who go after really young guys (I'm talking about 15+ year younger) just creeps me out

    Lol says the guy without the balls to even have a profile. What you think means nothing because you are a scared, little baby.
  • Destinharbor

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    Dec 21, 2014 8:17 PM GMT
    sf_swimmer saidIt's not all that unusual for younger guys to be attracted to older guys, although one has to wonder about the motivation sometimes.

    I think it falls into the same list of reasons why anyone ends up with anyone-- a complex collection of interests and attributes. Those who speculate are most often projecting some issue of their own which has zero to do with the guys he's gossiping about.
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    Dec 22, 2014 8:34 AM GMT
    They don't.
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    Dec 22, 2014 1:00 PM GMT
    I'd like to gain an understanding of this too. I rarely ever get messages from anyone, other than white men over 45-40... and they are almost always the more unsightly type. Never is it from the older guys that visibly take care of themselves, sadly.
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    Dec 22, 2014 5:13 PM GMT
    HikerSkier saidThey don't.

    They do, why being in denial?
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    Dec 23, 2014 12:24 AM GMT
    helloandgoodbi saidold white men don't assume young minorities will be attracted to them, they are attracted to young minorities and hope you will be attracted to them


    # I'm an older guy and want to be a sugga daddy complex... icon_wink.gificon_redface.gif
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    Dec 23, 2014 12:33 AM GMT
    Because many young minorities target older white men as sugar daddies
  • Buddha

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    Dec 23, 2014 1:04 AM GMT
    My personal hope is that the older you get, the less you give a shit about "fear of rejection" and just go for whatever you want. When I get old, I hope I'll finally do the things I otherwise have to drink myself senseless to do now. Like jumping into a pond. Or talking to people.
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    Dec 23, 2014 6:44 AM GMT
    Buddha saidMy personal hope is that the older you get, the less you give a shit about "fear of rejection" and just go for whatever you want. When I get old, I hope I'll finally do the things I otherwise have to drink myself senseless to do now. Like jumping into a pond. Or talking to people.


    Lol that would explain why I've seen so many random older guys just start grabbing young guys asses in the clubs, including my own. icon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_razz.gificon_razz.gificon_eek.gif
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    Dec 23, 2014 7:58 AM GMT
    The situation is similar in Australia except there are less minorities (small African Australian population) with more older white men going after younger Asian.

    In my experience from conversing with a few older white men, many actually didn't find Asians attractive when they were younger and only started to expand their options in their fourties or later.

    Some came out of long term relationships and found that many other white men their age or younger were not interested in them. And the asians they chat to seem friendlier and less arrogant, so they started dating asians and then they never go back to dating white.

    Others were attracted to Asians when they were younger and continue to do so. Interestingly, I haven't really met any older white man who is open to any color. A lot of them actually prefer Asians over other minorities and many do not see dating Indians as an option.

    Obviously, if you are an older white man and have seen interracial couples of different generations, either from the streets or from your actual social group, you will tend to think you have a better chance of dating a younger minority.

    I actually can't tell if a younger white guy is dating an older white guy if they aren't showing any PDA because most of the time, the older white guy could easily pass off as his dad.
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    Dec 23, 2014 2:55 PM GMT
    LAXWill10 said
    helloandgoodbi saidold white men don't assume young minorities will be attracted to them, they are attracted to young minorities and hope you will be attracted to them


    # I'm an older guy and want to be a sugga daddy complex... icon_wink.gificon_redface.gif


    Personally I have no interest in guys half my age, expect as eye candy. I love to look at a beautiful fit young man, but prefer beautiful fit closer to my own age.
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    Jan 11, 2015 8:09 PM GMT
    LAXWill10 said
    Buddha saidMy personal hope is that the older you get, the less you give a shit about "fear of rejection" and just go for whatever you want. When I get old, I hope I'll finally do the things I otherwise have to drink myself senseless to do now. Like jumping into a pond. Or talking to people.


    Lol that would explain why I've seen so many random older guys just start grabbing young guys asses in the clubs, including my own. icon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_razz.gificon_razz.gificon_eek.gif


    Talk about desperation.
  • NeuralShock

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    Jan 11, 2015 8:31 PM GMT
    Honestly I've gotten along the best with guys in their 30s, not speaking sexually. But like they seem far more mature and realistic than most guys at my age (early 20s). Also I better add I resent the thought of having them pay for things for me, I hate it. I like my independence and despise the thought of being thought of as a golddigger.

    I actually find them much more attractive than guys my own age... Unfortunately since I am young most of them tend to generalize me to being stupid/only good for sex.

    Which is unfortunate, really. Part of me cannot wait till I am 30 cause the guys seem to at that age have calmed down.
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    Jan 11, 2015 8:56 PM GMT
    There's something about an older guy that makes me weak, could be any race, I just feel safe lol
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    Jan 11, 2015 9:09 PM GMT
    Why do old white men assume young minorities will be attracted to them?

    Because there are enough young minorities that are looking for them. It's simple supply and demand. The supply is low (AIDS decimated their ranks) and demand is high (A shit load of young minorities and non minorities are looking for a meal ticket).

    Question: Do not old minority gay men do the same thing - seek younger? Or is it only old white men who are the evil bane of the gay world?
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    Jan 11, 2015 9:36 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidI just hope my marriage lasts forever and I die first. I don't want to be a lonesome old white man.icon_cry.gif


    I'm actually surprised you haven't killed yourself already. You hate being White so much and combined with your ageism, your future looks pretty bleak.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jan 11, 2015 9:43 PM GMT
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