b9115 saidI feel like I come off as unapproachable being in a gay bar/club. I don't know if it's neves or the small hope that another guy will make the first move to come up and talk.


Gay bars are loud and full of gay guys. It's not a good place to meet quality people. I'm kinda conscious and shy in bars too. It seems like i want the gogo boys and none of the guys at the bar are my type. #Gayboyproblem.