Jan 05, 2015 3:35 AM GMT
willular saidtimmm55 saidwillular saidThe bottom (lol) line is, surround yourself with people who have the same ideas of condom use as you.
If you *never* use condoms, then have sex with people who don't use them either.
If you *always* use condoms, then have sex with people who always use them too.
If you sometimes use them, but sometimes don't, then have sex with people who do that too.
People who are heavily staunch one way or another aren't going to suddenly change their mind because of one post on Realjock...so why post with so much heavy intention to do that? This isn't that hard of a concept to grasp. It's not like you're really going to persuade anyone to change their belief system.
There are so many things wrong with your concept!
Again here's the ACON position on What is Safe(r) Sex:
1.The use of Condoms during
casual encounters between men of unknown or discordant serostatus.
2.HIV negative men taking effective pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP).
3.Men living with HIV who only have sex without condoms when they have a sustained undetectable viral load (UVL) and in the absence
of sexually transmissible infections (STIs).
4.Effective use of serosorting between HIV positive men.
5.Effective negotiated safety agreements.
I follow the above EXACTLY.
My point is, that you should interact with people who follow the same guidelines (or whatever you want to call it) as you.
If you follow the stuff above, and you want to have sex with someone who doesn't follow that stuff above, then you shouldn't be having sex with them.
I'm not debating what the definition of "safe sex" is. i'm just saying that if someone doesn't share the same values of sex, then you shouldn't be having sex with them.
In other words, you and the original poster shouldn't be fucking.
You can be sure that's not gonna happen LOL