Whats with gays denying the existence of bisexuals?

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    Jan 16, 2015 1:37 AM GMT
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    Then there is the fear of the idea of a bisexual man choosing a woman over them. This can be very devastating to many gay men because of the lack of sexual partners and the commonheld idea that love is hard to find in the gay community. A bisexual man choosing a woman can be seen as him 'rejecting' his gay side and therefore the gay men who may want to be with him. In a way this is interesting because many gay men will avoid a bisexual man with a wife or girlfriend but have no apprehension about getting with a man with a husband or boyfriend. This is because a large portion of gay men do not respect gay relationships because they have been taught not to respect gay men and therefore they do not respect themselves.


    I really, really don't understand this at all. For me, the idea of a guy leaving me for a guy or a guy leaving me for a girl makes no difference what so ever.


    It makes perfect sense to me. I can compete with any guy but if a guy wants tits and pussy I don't stand a chance.


    but if a guy wants specific features that you don't particularly possess, but other men do, then you don't stand a chance either.


    But even still it's easier to rationalize being left for someone of the same gender than being left for a completely different lifestyle.


    When people get rejected, they always look to rationalize the experience. Saying, "oh well it was because he was secretly straight or bisexual and wanted some girl, that's the sole and only reason why he left me" is not the correct attitude to take. Sometimes, in rejection, folks need to take a hard look at themselves.

    I'm not saying that you specifically or ANYONE specifically on this board needs to do this. I'm not "hating" on anyone or whatever. But for me personally, I just don't see any difference for a guy leaving me for a guy or a guy leaving me for a girl. he left me. that's the only thing that matters.
  • being_human

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    Jan 16, 2015 12:03 PM GMT
    smartmoney saidI don't deny bisexuals, or unicorns and compassionate conservatives. I also believe in jesus, freedom of speech and easter bunnies. Oh and Santa. I believe in Santa too. Asian tops, I also believe they exist.

    I believe your sarcasm is the definition of your pathetic views.
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    Gays dislike the bisexual behaviour but they still WANT bisexuals.

    You never see bisexuals having any trouble getting guys (unless they're unattractive of course).

    There is a big difference in how bisexuals are 'disliked' and how [insert some minority races] are disliked: In the first case gays take pride saying they hate us, but they obviously want us, they just hate they might lose us with a woman - In the second case its all the opposite, they reject these racial group but say they don't.

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    Jan 17, 2015 5:59 AM GMT
    I don't understand how someone can be bi. Dick and pussy are completely different. How can you like both?
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    Jan 17, 2015 7:47 AM GMT
    wesv saidI don't understand how someone can be bi. Dick and pussy are completely different. How can you like both?


    Lots of heterosexual men can't understand why you are gay. How can you not like pussy?
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    Jan 17, 2015 9:50 AM GMT
    I believe they exist, I just don't acknowledge their existence.
    They don't matter.

    Easy.
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    Jan 17, 2015 9:52 AM GMT
    David3K saidGays dislike the bisexual behaviour but they still WANT bisexuals.

    You never see bisexuals having any trouble getting guys (unless they're unattractive of course).

    There is a big difference in how bisexuals are 'disliked' and how [insert some minority races] are disliked: In the first case gays take pride saying they hate us, but they obviously want us, they just hate they might lose us with a woman - In the second case its all the opposite, they reject these racial group but say they don't.

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    lol Gays don't want bi guys, where on Earth do you get your info from? lol
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    David3K saidGays dislike the bisexual behaviour but they still WANT bisexuals.

    You never see bisexuals having any trouble getting guys (unless they're unattractive of course).

    There is a big difference in how bisexuals are 'disliked' and how [insert some minority races] are disliked: In the first case gays take pride saying they hate us, but they obviously want us, they just hate they might lose us with a woman - In the second case its all the opposite, they reject these racial group but say they don't.

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    lol Gays don't want bi guys, where on Earth do you get your info from? lol


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    I don't think its so much that gays deny the existence of bisexuals. It's more so that some of us don't want you in the community.

    Take it this way. Bisexuals exist in the gay community. The gay community is one's body. Bisexuals are like cancer. They're a part of the body but as a threat.

    All they ever do is provoke us. They colloquially call themselves gay and then do heterosexual things like make out with the opposite sex and bring up the topic of the opposite sex to gays and lesbians. Do they not know what gay means? If they truly do, they wouldn't identify themselves as a part of the gay community. It's almost like they advertise heterosexuality to homosexuals. You even see it on this site. Some even have pictures of their girlfriends or wives. Do we want the sight of females here? No.
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    wesv saidI don't think its so much that gays deny the existence of bisexuals. It's more so that some of us don't want you in the community.

    Take it this way. Bisexuals exist in the gay community. The gay community is one's body. Bisexuals are like cancer. They're a part of the body but as a threat.

    All they ever do is provoke us. They colloquially call themselves gay and then do heterosexual things like make out with the opposite sex and bring up the topic of the opposite sex to gays and lesbians. Do they not know what gay means? If they truly do, they wouldn't identify themselves as a part of the gay community. It's almost like they advertise heterosexuality to homosexuals. You even see it on this site. Some even have pictures of their girlfriends or wives. Do we want the sight of females here? No.


    I agree. If bisexual men want to date men date other bisexual men. Gay men by and large shouldn't have to subjected to a bunch of confused people who are just going to end up with the opposite gender either way.

    I use bi men the same way they use us. For sex and then cut them off.
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    Jan 17, 2015 4:16 PM GMT

    I fully acknowledge and accept bisexuals in our community. They do have certain major things in common with both gays and lesbians one which is the natural attraction to their own sex. It is just that they are also naturally attracted to members of the opposite sex as well. I don't know if this is true or not but I somewhat remember it being stated in professional, scientific circles that the large majority of humans are bisexual.icon_confused.gif
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    wesv saidI don't think its so much that gays deny the existence of bisexuals. It's more so that some of us don't want you in the community.

    Take it this way. Bisexuals exist in the gay community. The gay community is one's body. Bisexuals are like cancer. They're a part of the body but as a threat.

    All they ever do is provoke us. They colloquially call themselves gay and then do heterosexual things like make out with the opposite sex and bring up the topic of the opposite sex to gays and lesbians. Do they not know what gay means? If they truly do, they wouldn't identify themselves as a part of the gay community. It's almost like they advertise heterosexuality to homosexuals. You even see it on this site. Some even have pictures of their girlfriends or wives. Do we want the sight of females here? No.


    I agree. If bisexual men want to date men date other bisexual men. Gay men by and large shouldn't have to subjected to a bunch of confused people who are just going to end up with the opposite gender either way.

    I use bi men the same way they use us. For sex and then cut them off.


    These are both very, very interesting perspectives. I am gay, but I have had different experiences with bi guys. 2 follow up questions:

    1. If a bi guy is around his gay friends you'd rather he be more sensitive to and try to relate to his gay side? If so, what would that entail?
    2. Is your experience that bi guys mainly use gay guys for sex but don't try to really connect?
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    wesv saidI don't think its so much that gays deny the existence of bisexuals. It's more so that some of us don't want you in the community.

    Take it this way. Bisexuals exist in the gay community. The gay community is one's body. Bisexuals are like cancer. They're a part of the body but as a threat.

    All they ever do is provoke us. They colloquially call themselves gay and then do heterosexual things like make out with the opposite sex and bring up the topic of the opposite sex to gays and lesbians. Do they not know what gay means? If they truly do, they wouldn't identify themselves as a part of the gay community. It's almost like they advertise heterosexuality to homosexuals. You even see it on this site. Some even have pictures of their girlfriends or wives. Do we want the sight of females here? No.


    I agree. If bisexual men want to date men date other bisexual men. Gay men by and large shouldn't have to subjected to a bunch of confused people who are just going to end up with the opposite gender either way.

    I use bi men the same way they use us. For sex and then cut them off.


    These are both very, very interesting perspectives. I am gay, but I have had different experiences with bi guys. 2 follow up questions:

    1. If a bi guy is around his gay friends you'd rather he be more sensitive to and try to relate to his gay side? If so, what would that entail?
    2. Is your experience that bi guys mainly use gay guys for sex but don't try to really connect?
    If its easier to discuss via email, feel free.


    1. Yes because straight up unless I ask I don't wanna hear about women and most gay men hang around other gay men for the safety of being around others who feel the same way they do about men. Very few wanna compare women with anyone. I have bisexual friends and sometimes if we are out in a place where there's a lot of both genders we'll rate the men but the women I'll just ask him what he likes.

    2. Pretty much. I know a few who are different but they are far and few between. And honestly some guys say they're 'bi' only to stand out but legit aren't or maybe aren't as much as they say. I have a bi friend who said he's open to dating a guy but it would have to be an open relationship and he himself would have to be allowed to have as many women as he wanted on the side. But when I asked if his boyfriend was allowed to play around too he told me no. I asked why and he said "I should be all the man he needs". I then said well what if he's vers and since you refuse to top he wants to find a guy who will so HE'S fulfilled. My friend then said "then we should break up and he should find someone who is sexually compatible with him" I felt like this was kind of selfish.
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    Jan 17, 2015 5:23 PM GMT
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    Then there is the fear of the idea of a bisexual man choosing a woman over them. This can be very devastating to many gay men because of the lack of sexual partners and the commonheld idea that love is hard to find in the gay community. A bisexual man choosing a woman can be seen as him 'rejecting' his gay side and therefore the gay men who may want to be with him. In a way this is interesting because many gay men will avoid a bisexual man with a wife or girlfriend but have no apprehension about getting with a man with a husband or boyfriend. This is because a large portion of gay men do not respect gay relationships because they have been taught not to respect gay men and therefore they do not respect themselves.


    I really, really don't understand this at all. For me, the idea of a guy leaving me for a guy or a guy leaving me for a girl makes no difference what so ever.


    It makes perfect sense to me. I can compete with any guy but if a guy wants tits and pussy I don't stand a chance.


    but if a guy wants specific features that you don't particularly possess, but other men do, then you don't stand a chance either.


    Yes I know what you're saying but if I'm competing against another guy I know I have some kind of chance. Even if the guy is younger, fitter or whatever, I'm pretty confident in my ability to attract and keep a guy. But with a female there is zero chance.
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    Jan 17, 2015 6:47 PM GMT
    A complete denial of research.. and being uneducated and as bad as some straights..Sexuality is not one way or another and has never been..I have a very strong desire for men ...but put a Beautiful Woman in my bed to sleep with me at night ...and most likely I'll fuck her..
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    David3K saidGays dislike the bisexual behaviour

    There is a big difference in how bisexuals are 'disliked' and how [insert some minority races] are disliked: In the first case gays take pride saying they hate us, but they obviously want us, they just hate they might lose us with a woman - In the second case its all the opposite, they reject these racial group but say they don't.

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    I don't want someone because they are BI. Some guys like the aura and the chase of getting a straight guy. (silly to me, but I don't care).

    What I want has nothing to do with a stated sexuality. As soon as they define themselves it's a turn off. I've seen guys who "market" themselves as straight or BI. Some are really BI or straight, but more often it's a ploy of attainability. Oh the trill of 'turning' a guy!!! (sarcasm). They are often 'straight' or 'bi' in a Gay bar. But what is the likelihood they are 'gay' or 'bi' in a Straight Bar?

    It's crass sexual marketing.

    We've all seen celebs who do 'Gay-on-the-installment-plan' with BI being a temporary oasis. I've never been surprised when later they are (!!!!) GAY!

    I'm sure there are real bi-guys. But David's "but they still WANT (his emphasis) bisexuals. You never see bisexuals having any trouble getting guys (ummm, if your bi, how does that work with WOMEN? Are you equally concerned?) (unless they're unattractive of course) (of course unattractive people don't get laid, but you did....therefore you must be ATTRACTIVE!) ." it's about being wanted, being attractive and increasing the odds. Notice there isn't any passion about either sex. It's just about David.
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    Jan 18, 2015 1:43 AM GMT
    I think it's real.tbh i might be bisexual.I guess people don't like it because its like being neutral in a war.If you don't pick a side,their other sides will assume your an "enemy"and treat you like such.
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    David3K saidGays dislike the bisexual behaviour

    There is a big difference in how bisexuals are 'disliked' and how [insert some minority races] are disliked: In the first case gays take pride saying they hate us, but they obviously want us, they just hate they might lose us with a woman - In the second case its all the opposite, they reject these racial group but say they don't.

    icon_idea.gif


    I don't want someone because they are BI. Some guys like the aura and the chase of getting a straight guy. (silly to me, but I don't care).

    What I want has nothing to do with a stated sexuality. As soon as they define themselves it's a turn off. I've seen guys who "market" themselves as straight or BI. Some are really BI or straight, but more often it's a ploy of attainability. Oh the trill of 'turning' a guy!!! (sarcasm). They are often 'straight' or 'bi' in a Gay bar. But what is the likelihood they are 'gay' or 'bi' in a Straight Bar?

    It's crass sexual marketing.

    We've all seen celebs who do 'Gay-on-the-installment-plan' with BI being a temporary oasis. I've never been surprised when later they are (!!!!) GAY!

    I'm sure there are real bi-guys. But David's "but they still WANT (his emphasis) bisexuals. You never see bisexuals having any trouble getting guys (ummm, if your bi, how does that work with WOMEN? Are you equally concerned?) (unless they're unattractive of course) (of course unattractive people don't get laid, but you did....therefore you must be ATTRACTIVE!) ." it's about being wanted, being attractive and increasing the odds. Notice there isn't any passion about either sex. It's just about David.


    And then your bald girlfriend says I have bad comprehension skills! How can you read a simple line and turn it into some crazy analyzes where in the end its all about me? I wasn't talking about me, it was a general idea.
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    wesv saidI don't think its so much that gays deny the existence of bisexuals. It's more so that some of us don't want you in the community.

    Take it this way. Bisexuals exist in the gay community. The gay community is one's body. Bisexuals are like cancer. They're a part of the body but as a threat.

    All they ever do is provoke us. They colloquially call themselves gay and then do heterosexual things like make out with the opposite sex and bring up the topic of the opposite sex to gays and lesbians. Do they not know what gay means? If they truly do, they wouldn't identify themselves as a part of the gay community. It's almost like they advertise heterosexuality to homosexuals. You even see it on this site. Some even have pictures of their girlfriends or wives. Do we want the sight of females here? No.


    Your comments are very intolerant. The vast majority of readers here disagree with your remarks.

    We all stand together as Glbtq.....what does the b. Stand for?


    The B stands for something that doesn't belong in the gay community. The concept of LGBT is idiotic. Seriously? We gays and lesbians (homosexuals) are lumped together with another orientation and gender identity? We might as well amend the term to LGBTJ because Jews were oppressed for centuries. We might as well coin LGBTJLH because left handedness was oppressed by the church.

    And I just have to share this personal experience. I was out in high school. I didn't do that "I think I'm bisexual deal." Most people who knew didn't really care. Among who made an issue out of it would say things like "why can't you at least try to like girls?" "You should at least be bi." Oh yeah so my orientation is a choice. I chose not to like girls. You bisexuals got nothing to worry about. At least you like the pussy, so wipe your tears.
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    Jan 18, 2015 7:01 PM GMT
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    David3K saidGays dislike the bisexual behaviour

    There is a big difference in how bisexuals are 'disliked' and how [insert some minority races] are disliked: In the first case gays take pride saying they hate us, but they obviously want us, they just hate they might lose us with a woman - In the second case its all the opposite, they reject these racial group but say they don't.

    icon_idea.gif


    I don't want someone because they are BI. Some guys like the aura and the chase of getting a straight guy. (silly to me, but I don't care).

    What I want has nothing to do with a stated sexuality. As soon as they define themselves it's a turn off. I've seen guys who "market" themselves as straight or BI. Some are really BI or straight, but more often it's a ploy of attainability. Oh the trill of 'turning' a guy!!! (sarcasm). They are often 'straight' or 'bi' in a Gay bar. But what is the likelihood they are 'gay' or 'bi' in a Straight Bar?

    It's crass sexual marketing.

    We've all seen celebs who do 'Gay-on-the-installment-plan' with BI being a temporary oasis. I've never been surprised when later they are (!!!!) GAY!

    I'm sure there are real bi-guys. But David's "but they still WANT (his emphasis) bisexuals. You never see bisexuals having any trouble getting guys (ummm, if your bi, how does that work with WOMEN? Are you equally concerned?) (unless they're unattractive of course) (of course unattractive people don't get laid, but you did....therefore you must be ATTRACTIVE!) ." it's about being wanted, being attractive and increasing the odds. Notice there isn't any passion about either sex. It's just about David.


    And then your bald girlfriend says I have bad comprehension skills! How can you read a simple line and turn it into some crazy analyzes where in the end its all about me? I wasn't talking about me, it was a general idea.


    David, it's always about YOU. You and your opinions.
    You're so transparent. You're a poser, you desperately want to be in control....trying to be a troll/bully. You want to be man, and want men.
    You say: BIs don't have any trouble getting guys, unless they are attractive?

    That is so easy to decipher!

    You're only BI in the context of getting men (women are secondary, if at all) whatever feeds you insecure ego of "attractiveness".
    The antithesis is if you were Gay and "normal" looking you wouldn't get laid. Which is the reality here.
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    Jan 18, 2015 7:37 PM GMT
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    wesv saidI don't think its so much that gays deny the existence of bisexuals. It's more so that some of us don't want you in the community.

    Take it this way. Bisexuals exist in the gay community. The gay community is one's body. Bisexuals are like cancer. They're a part of the body but as a threat.

    All they ever do is provoke us. They colloquially call themselves gay and then do heterosexual things like make out with the opposite sex and bring up the topic of the opposite sex to gays and lesbians. Do they not know what gay means? If they truly do, they wouldn't identify themselves as a part of the gay community. It's almost like they advertise heterosexuality to homosexuals. You even see it on this site. Some even have pictures of their girlfriends or wives. Do we want the sight of females here? No.


    Your comments are very intolerant. The vast majority of readers here disagree with your remarks.

    We all stand together as Glbtq.....what does the b. Stand for?


    The B stands for something that doesn't belong in the gay community. The concept of LGBT is idiotic. Seriously? We gays and lesbians (homosexuals) are lumped together with another orientation and gender identity? We might as well amend the term to LGBTJ because Jews were oppressed for centuries. We might as well coin LGBTJLH because left handedness was oppressed by the church.

    And I just have to share this personal experience. I was out in high school. I didn't do that "I think I'm bisexual deal." Most people who knew didn't really care. Among who made an issue out of it would say things like "why can't you at least try to like girls?" "You should at least be bi." Oh yeah so my orientation is a choice. I chose not to like girls. You bisexuals got nothing to worry about. At least you like the pussy, so wipe your tears.


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    wesv saidI don't think its so much that gays deny the existence of bisexuals. It's more so that some of us don't want you in the community.

    Take it this way. Bisexuals exist in the gay community. The gay community is one's body. Bisexuals are like cancer. They're a part of the body but as a threat.

    All they ever do is provoke us. They colloquially call themselves gay and then do heterosexual things like make out with the opposite sex and bring up the topic of the opposite sex to gays and lesbians. Do they not know what gay means? If they truly do, they wouldn't identify themselves as a part of the gay community. It's almost like they advertise heterosexuality to homosexuals. You even see it on this site. Some even have pictures of their girlfriends or wives. Do we want the sight of females here? No.


    Your comments are very intolerant. The vast majority of readers here disagree with your remarks.

    We all stand together as Glbtq.....what does the b. Stand for?


    The B stands for something that doesn't belong in the gay community. The concept of LGBT is idiotic. Seriously? We gays and lesbians (homosexuals) are lumped together with another orientation and gender identity? We might as well amend the term to LGBTJ because Jews were oppressed for centuries. We might as well coin LGBTJLH because left handedness was oppressed by the church.

    And I just have to share this personal experience. I was out in high school. I didn't do that "I think I'm bisexual deal." Most people who knew didn't really care. Among who made an issue out of it would say things like "why can't you at least try to like girls?" "You should at least be bi." Oh yeah so my orientation is a choice. I chose not to like girls. You bisexuals got nothing to worry about. At least you like the pussy, so wipe your tears.


    realest post ever


    I personally have no issues with bi individuals. I have dated them and had zero worries about Women being a threat or other Men for that matter. If a Dude feels He can do better than Me and will be happier elsewhere - I wish Him well, no harm done. My serious relationships have not been based on plumbing, although other than a basic appreciation of a beautiful Woman ( whose company is always a blast) I have no physical or emotional attraction.

    The B is in LGBT because bi individuals are discriminated against because of sexual orientation and identity - something they have no control over.

    Religion IS actually a choice, so the Jewish analogy doesn't apply.

    There are many issues and potential threats within and outside Our Community, but I have a hard time believing that the relatively small percentage of bi People are leading the pack.

    The list of negative traits/behaviors the OP listed earlier are in fact thoroughly reprehensible and mostly unforgivable...but many could easily be applied to ANYone of ANY Orientation/Identity. The problem with blanket statements is they tend to ultimately just smother EVERYONE.
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    wellwell saidOP,

    if you figure that out, please let me know right-away; because, I've wondered too.

    But more than that, maybe you can figure out:
    Why do gays have such seething-hatred for us? (Don't even bother disagreeing; it's that obvious!)

    Is it nothing more than jealousy?

    Is it the lunacy that makes a gay think he's been "dumped"; just because, all of a sudden there is some chick in-the-picture?

    I haven't a clue what Ppl see in resorting to hatred!
    ...It only harms the hater.


    I don't hate anybody, except haters! I feel more pity than hate even then. I've known some cool BI men and women.

    Question though, how do you self-identify in a social setting? Are you BI in a Gay Bar, are you Straight in a Straight Bar?

    There is a difference between self-preservation (Sturges Biker bar) and opportunism. LOL
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    Jan 19, 2015 12:59 AM GMT
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    David3K saidGays dislike the bisexual behaviour

    There is a big difference in how bisexuals are 'disliked' and how [insert some minority races] are disliked: In the first case gays take pride saying they hate us, but they obviously want us, they just hate they might lose us with a woman - In the second case its all the opposite, they reject these racial group but say they don't.

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    I don't want someone because they are BI. Some guys like the aura and the chase of getting a straight guy. (silly to me, but I don't care).

    What I want has nothing to do with a stated sexuality. As soon as they define themselves it's a turn off. I've seen guys who "market" themselves as straight or BI. Some are really BI or straight, but more often it's a ploy of attainability. Oh the trill of 'turning' a guy!!! (sarcasm). They are often 'straight' or 'bi' in a Gay bar. But what is the likelihood they are 'gay' or 'bi' in a Straight Bar?

    It's crass sexual marketing.

    We've all seen celebs who do 'Gay-on-the-installment-plan' with BI being a temporary oasis. I've never been surprised when later they are (!!!!) GAY!

    I'm sure there are real bi-guys. But David's "but they still WANT (his emphasis) bisexuals. You never see bisexuals having any trouble getting guys (ummm, if your bi, how does that work with WOMEN? Are you equally concerned?) (unless they're unattractive of course) (of course unattractive people don't get laid, but you did....therefore you must be ATTRACTIVE!) ." it's about being wanted, being attractive and increasing the odds. Notice there isn't any passion about either sex. It's just about David.


    And then your bald girlfriend says I have bad comprehension skills! How can you read a simple line and turn it into some crazy analyzes where in the end its all about me? I wasn't talking about me, it was a general idea.


    David, it's always about YOU. You and your opinions.
    You're so transparent. You're a poser, you desperately want to be in control....trying to be a troll/bully. You want to be man, and want men.
    You say: BIs don't have any trouble getting guys, unless they are attractive?

    That is so easy to decipher!

    You're only BI in the context of getting men (women are secondary, if at all) whatever feeds you insecure ego of "attractiveness".
    The antithesis is if you were Gay and "normal" looking you wouldn't get laid. Which is the reality here.

    What the FUCK are you talking about? Now, honest I dont even get what youre trying to say. I havent said anything about me. I didn't say Im attractive or not, (attractiveness is subjective anyways). You are just finding more excuses to throw more shit on me. For once read a reply and try to see the real meaning of it and not what your brain wants to believe.

    PS: And I said unless they are unactractive. Which is only logic: a man wont have any problems as long as hes attractive, gay bi, straight, it wont matter. Now bis in the gay world will get guys unless theyre really unatractive, because gays want bi, even they say they dont.
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    Jan 19, 2015 1:47 AM GMT
    David3K said
    timmm55 said
    David3K said
    timmm55 said
    David3K saidGays dislike the bisexual behaviour

    There is a big difference in how bisexuals are 'disliked' and how [insert some minority races] are disliked: In the first case gays take pride saying they hate us, but they obviously want us, they just hate they might lose us with a woman - In the second case its all the opposite, they reject these racial group but say they don't.

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    I don't want someone because they are BI. Some guys like the aura and the chase of getting a straight guy. (silly to me, but I don't care).

    What I want has nothing to do with a stated sexuality. As soon as they define themselves it's a turn off. I've seen guys who "market" themselves as straight or BI. Some are really BI or straight, but more often it's a ploy of attainability. Oh the trill of 'turning' a guy!!! (sarcasm). They are often 'straight' or 'bi' in a Gay bar. But what is the likelihood they are 'gay' or 'bi' in a Straight Bar?

    It's crass sexual marketing.

    We've all seen celebs who do 'Gay-on-the-installment-plan' with BI being a temporary oasis. I've never been surprised when later they are (!!!!) GAY!

    I'm sure there are real bi-guys. But David's "but they still WANT (his emphasis) bisexuals. You never see bisexuals having any trouble getting guys (ummm, if your bi, how does that work with WOMEN? Are you equally concerned?) (unless they're unattractive of course) (of course unattractive people don't get laid, but you did....therefore you must be ATTRACTIVE!) ." it's about being wanted, being attractive and increasing the odds. Notice there isn't any passion about either sex. It's just about David.


    And then your bald girlfriend says I have bad comprehension skills! How can you read a simple line and turn it into some crazy analyzes where in the end its all about me? I wasn't talking about me, it was a general idea.


    David, it's always about YOU. You and your opinions.
    You're so transparent. You're a poser, you desperately want to be in control....trying to be a troll/bully. You want to be man, and want men.
    You say: BIs don't have any trouble getting guys, unless they are attractive?

    That is so easy to decipher!

    You're only BI in the context of getting men (women are secondary, if at all) whatever feeds you insecure ego of "attractiveness".
    The antithesis is if you were Gay and "normal" looking you wouldn't get laid. Which is the reality here.

    What the FUCK are you talking about? Now, honest I dont even get what youre trying to say. I havent said anything about me. I didn't say Im attractive or not, (attractiveness is subjective anyways). You are just finding more excuses to throw more shit on me. For once read a reply and try to see the real meaning of it and not what your brain wants to believe.

    PS: And I said unless they are unactractive. Which is only logic: a man wont have any problems as long as hes attractive, gay bi, straight, it wont matter. Now bis in the gay world will get guys unless theyre really unatractive, because gays want bi, even they say they dont.


    A psychiatrist would have a field day with you!