Straight fling thing

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    Feb 07, 2015 12:48 AM GMT
    So have you guys ever experienced that a straight guy was flirting with you? I´m not talking about straight guy messing with the gay guy, like pretending to want hook up while his straight friends are standing around drunk and laughing, but a straight guy casually throwing hints. There is this guy that I been talking to at a some food nights at a friends house. I first realized something odd when we were talking about skinny jeans and he openly said that he thought that I probably looked good in skinny jeans, then when he had to leave he shook my hand and gave me a wink . Not vey impressive I know, but it was one of those moments. I just came home from another food night with him. He asked if i would put on hot-pants if he asked. We were sitting at the dinner table and there was no macho heads to laugh if it was supposed to be a joke, most of the people at the gathering are LARP´s. He has a girlfriend and i´m not hoping and dreaming for him to dump her and declare his undying love for me. She can have eternity with him, I just want a taste, he has a good head on his shoulders and not a wuss like most of the guys I have been dating. My dilemma is: I have always felt that as a gay man you should respect non gays preferences, so if we pretend that he was actually flirting with me, I acted ubergay divaísh and "oblivious" so I could divert from his questions. I know that some of you are probably thinking that I´m deluding myself, but for argument sake: if you had a chance at the forbidden fruit, shouldn't you take it? He already made the choice to be a douche to his girlfriend, so why not with you?
  • Suetonius

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    Feb 07, 2015 1:07 AM GMT
    Maybe he is not entirely "straight." Sometimes straight guys your age flirt with gay men - just for fun, and because they are curious. And some "straight" guys your age have been known to try sex with another guy, just to "experiment." Young scandinavians are reputed to be open to experimental sex - you should know if that's true. If you really want to "taste" him, as it were, and he is not being open about any desires to experiment, to find out if it is possible, go out with him and make sure he has a few drinks to loosen his inhibitions, and be prepared to take him back to your place where you can give him a massage. If he's open to the idea, it will probably work, and the result will be more than just a massage. If he's not, nothing lost by trying.
  • Destinharbor

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    Feb 07, 2015 5:09 AM GMT
    Great suggestion^^^^. Go for it! Have some fun! Take a chance.
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    Feb 07, 2015 5:18 AM GMT
    His GF is his problem. Not yours.

    If you like the dude, put the works on, and have NSA fun. Who is there to stop you?

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    Feb 07, 2015 7:34 AM GMT
    Maybe he's bi-curious? icon_confused.gif

    Watch out though. He may just be teasing you. Or if you are attracted to him, you may read into things that aren't really there at all.

    I once fell for a straight friend and thought he liked me. I found out the hard way that I was wrong. It was truly a miserable time of my life. icon_sad.gif