Gutsiest pickup attempt

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    Feb 21, 2015 10:36 AM GMT
    TheBaise saidMet a hot daddy at a dance club in NYC and went home with him. As we got to his place, I thought / holy fuck, I've been here before! Went inside and I knew for a fact I'd been there before / about a year or two earlier. Looked harder at the guy, but I swear I didn't recognize / or remember him. I kinda wondered if he'd remembered me? He gave no indication. Jeez, so there we were going at it in his bedroom / kinda like re-reading a book you'd once enjoyed. Funny how slutty we sometime are / doing so many hook ups that we forget a guy's face / but remember his apartment.


    I had a similar experience. I met a guy in Home Depot once, started talking about how to handle a plumbing problem, realized we were interested and we ended up going to his apt and that was it. We met a few times, but then he stopped calling me or responding and I didn't see him again. Fast forward a year later, I meet a guy online and I go to his place, notice it is an apt building I've been to before. Then I realize it's the same apt, same furniture, etc. but the guy looks totally different. As we talked he told me he had lived with a boyfriend of many years until a few months before. This second guy travelled for business and he found out his bf was cheating with other guys in their apt when he was gone. So they broke up. I had no idea the first guy had had a bf! He had no idea I was one of the tricks.
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    Feb 21, 2015 9:03 PM GMT
    Suetonius said
    I had a similar experience once. In the eighties, went home with a nice guy I met on Thanksgiving evening in a Castro Street bar. An artist who lived in a live/work loft. Had a great time - terribly sweet man, good-looking and sexy. Was also out and cruising Castro bars on Christmas night a month later. Ran into the same guy - he didn't recognize me. Went back to his place again, and again we had a wonderful time. After we were at his place, I had to convince him that I had been there with him before (Unlike Baise, I did recognize this guy before I went home with him, but kept it to myself). If I ran into him a few months later, we would have done it again, and I am convinced he wouldn't have recognized me then either. Didn't get his full name. Never saw him again. Considering when we met, I imagine he was one of those lost to AIDS.

    It has happened to me more than once when same guy with whom I once hooked-up would show interest online without having any clue about the fact that we have met earlier. I am good with faces. So I remember if I ever hooked up with someone. I think the guys who don't remember you, have sex quite often with different guys. For them, it's hard to remember so many faces.
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    Feb 21, 2015 9:33 PM GMT
    That's why you need "iTrick Hookup-Management Software." Sadly, the developer seems to have discontinued it some years ago...

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    Feb 21, 2015 10:27 PM GMT
    Failed opportunity: I was at the Sturgis, South Dakota annual motorcycle rally in August. Around 500,000 bikers, and I was tenting in a campground. I heard that a group of gay bikers was in another campground.

    I parked my bike on the main street, shopping under one of the hundreds of vendors tents, looking at stuff (And did buy a small sticker I put on my bike, that read: "Drink till he's cute", same as the sign in my favorite gay bar in Minneapolis).

    I saw this guy shopping alone, in black leather jacket, chaps and boots, as I was. He was so hot! And my gaydar pegged. But I didn't know how to approach him. The odds in Sturgis were against me, although I knew other gays were there.

    I shadowed him around the tables, trying to make eye contact. But he was focused on the stuff, the lapel pins, sew-on patches, T-shirts, all kinds of little crap, his head hardly looking up. And maybe he had spied me peripherally, and was deliberately avoiding my glance. Maybe he had a BF back at his campground, or a GF instead, or just wasn't impressed with my own looks.

    I was pretending to shop, checking stuff myself, but when I looked back up he was gone. I rushed out onto the crowded sidewalk, looking for him, but I couldn't find him. I kept my eyes open for him in the next days, but never saw him again. Well, you've got several hundred thousand people there, all doing different things over several square miles.

    I still regret my timidity, and my lack of having a plan to approach him. Sometimes being gutsy and taking a risk is what's needed, even if that sometimes fails, too. But doing nothing will almost always fail. icon_sad.gif
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    Mar 02, 2015 5:04 AM GMT
    strongbull saidThis was also a number of years ago. I pulled into a commuter lot after work one hot summer evening to change into a T-shirt and shorts in the car before going out. I parked between two cars and took off my dress shirt and pants and was reaching for my shorts when I realized there was a state cop in an unmarked cop car on the passenger side. He was staring intently at me. I was so startled I jumped and my knee hit the steering wheel. Our eyes met and he smiled at me and made a little twitch with his eyebrows. I pulled on my shorts and then looked over and he was still staring at me. So I rolled down the window and he did the same. I said "I guess I put on a show for you." He said, "Yes you did." So throwing all caution to the wind I said "Did you like it?". He gave me a big smile and said, " Yes I did." I was really surprised by how this was going and kind of lost my cool and actually didn't know what to say then, lol. He took out a pen, wrote something on a piece of paper and handed it to me - it was his number. Then he started up the car, said "Call me", and pulled out. Definitely glad I made that stop!


    This is the hottest story. It is my fantasy. Did you ever meet up with the cop?
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    Mar 02, 2015 3:07 PM GMT
    mindgarden saidThat's why you need "iTrick Hookup-Management Software." Sadly, the developer seems to have discontinued it some years ago...

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    LMAO, hilarious.
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    Mar 03, 2015 3:45 AM GMT
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    strongbull saidThis was also a number of years ago. I pulled into a commuter lot after work one hot summer evening to change into a T-shirt and shorts in the car before going out. I parked between two cars and took off my dress shirt and pants and was reaching for my shorts when I realized there was a state cop in an unmarked cop car on the passenger side. He was staring intently at me. I was so startled I jumped and my knee hit the steering wheel. Our eyes met and he smiled at me and made a little twitch with his eyebrows. I pulled on my shorts and then looked over and he was still staring at me. So I rolled down the window and he did the same. I said "I guess I put on a show for you." He said, "Yes you did." So throwing all caution to the wind I said "Did you like it?". He gave me a big smile and said, " Yes I did." I was really surprised by how this was going and kind of lost my cool and actually didn't know what to say then, lol. He took out a pen, wrote something on a piece of paper and handed it to me - it was his number. Then he started up the car, said "Call me", and pulled out. Definitely glad I made that stop!


    This is the hottest story. It is my fantasy. Did you ever meet up with the cop?


    Yes I did. We saw each other on and off for about a year. We ended up more as FWB. He was really into the benefits part, LOL. He was a really tough looking guy and was intimidating, but in reality he was a real pussycat, with me anyway. But he was separated from a wife and things were getting ugly so we stopped.
  • Jeepguy2

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    Mar 03, 2015 5:56 AM GMT
    Wyndahoi saidI've had patients flirt with me. Nothing overtly come on exactly. But flirt for sure. But it's unethical to date a patient.


    If you were my doctor I would be flirting with you.