No person or group can make you hate or love yourself. Your hatred is coming from within, and for this very reason no one can help you with this but yourself.
Really? As much as I agree OP needs to fix his self-esteem issues, I have seen you expressing your opinion about how unattractive black guys are for you. You've even gone to length to explain the kind of facial features which make a black person unattractive. You should be the last person to say that no one can make you feel unattractive. Guys like you are in abundance making people unworthy and unattractive. This kind of advice coming out of your mouth sounds so fake.
Lots of people have called Radd out on this. He alternates between outright provoking crazies like Pazzy and Inque and giving them advice - like an abusive parent - hence it's clear the latter is insincere. It's like he wants them to keep ruining the image of black people.
Between his profile that says he's less attracted to blacks and asians, and his detailed posts about "features" on blacks and Asians, it's pretty easy to know what he really
wants to say. For an old white guy who isn't interested in minorities, he sure posts a hell of a lot on race threads. I guess at that age, trying to perpetuate every bit of white privilege helps lol.