I am not happy still

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    Mar 12, 2015 5:30 PM GMT
    Oh for fuck' s sake. Where's all the support everybody gave the woman trapped in the man's body at Planet Fitness? OP didn't ask to use the white locker room while he still has black skin like that dude did. He just wants to be white for a day. I support you coming out as white, brother.
  • BloodFlame

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    Mar 12, 2015 6:03 PM GMT
    I really do think you should just learn to embrace who you are. Being black really isn't bad when you don't focus on the negative stereotypes or the rejection because not everyone feels that way about us. But then again, based on how much you talk about white men, it sounds like they are the only men you'd ever date, which I'm not saying is wrong but it's very limiting so of course, it's going to take a little longer to find someone.

    But you also have to take into account that you seem miserable and if you're like this offline, then it's no surprise that you get rejected for that. No one wants to be around someone who is self-pity.

    But if you really want to see what it's like being white for a day, I do second the idea Meninlove suggested about the makeup. I remember stumbling upon this video and yeah, it was pretty shocking lol. They are speaking French I believe.



    But really OP, you are fine the way you are and as soon as you realize that, you'll feel better and in turn, may attract the guys you like with your new found positive energy & outlook.
  • Sunny_x9

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    Mar 12, 2015 6:20 PM GMT
    yo friend
    You want me also to become white
    Oops
    no ..! I m fine this way .
    and I don't know why you critisizing yourself
    anyway . take care
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    BloodFlame saidI really do think you should just learn to embrace who you are. Being black really isn't bad when you don't focus on the negative stereotypes or the rejection because not everyone feels that way about us. But then again, based on how much you talk about white men, it sounds like they are the only men you'd ever date, which I'm not saying is wrong but it's very limiting so of course, it's going to take a little longer to find someone.

    But you also have to take into account that you seem miserable and if you're like this offline, then it's no surprise that you get rejected for that. No one wants to be around someone who is self-pity.

    But if you really want to see what it's like being white for a day, I do second the idea Meninlove suggested about the makeup. I remember stumbling upon this video and yeah, it was pretty shocking lol. They are speaking French I believe.



    Yikes. That made me cringe to watch that. Seems wrong somehow. I think the thing that bothers me is that I got the impression they were actually enjoying being White for a day. It seemed like it affected them more than just being a cool makeup project. icon_neutral.gif
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    Mar 12, 2015 6:47 PM GMT
    Wow, my heart goes out to you! Having such a dislike of a vital part of who you are has to be gut wrenching. For what it is worth, you are valuable just as you are whether you know it or not. I do want to tell you friend, seeking advice on such a deep seated issue on a forum like this is not healthy for you. Please seek the help of a professional rather than the opinions of strangers that don't know what someone with such an identity crisis needs and who give you advice filtered through thier own lens of experience. We are all unique, valuable, and worthy of love and respect.

    I wish you health and wellness.

    Not sure where in London you are or your means, but I found this free/lo-cost counciling service in London. Waterloo Counciling http://www.waterloocc.co.uk/Home.aspx
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    Mar 12, 2015 7:04 PM GMT
    still???
    Of course you "still" hate yourself. You refuse to seek any help, no matter how many times other RealJock's have pleaded with you.
    Now you seam to get off on making us look stupid for caring, constantly trolling for new and genuine pity.
    Is this your way of getting the attention from men with kind hearts?
    Do you set back and laugh at their ignorance?
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    Mar 12, 2015 9:27 PM GMT
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    Mar 13, 2015 12:25 AM GMT
    To the OP, I don't think you look bad at all. Don't be so hard on yourself. I'd rather choose a handsome, nice black guy any day over an average, boring dude of another race. But someone who has low confidence and constantly falls into depression and self-loathing.... I'd have a difficult time even being friends.
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    Mar 13, 2015 1:42 AM GMT
    Matthew56 saidI still don't feel happy with myself despite the reassurances I get from people on here I still feel ugly and shit all because I am black. Sometimes I wish I could be white/caucasiod in order to be appreciated more in the gay world. I just feel trapped in a black men's body I don't wanna be black I


    You're very handsome. Consider some professional help.
  • SuntoryTime

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    Mar 13, 2015 3:44 AM GMT
    Radd said
    BloodFlame saidI really do think you should just learn to embrace who you are. Being black really isn't bad when you don't focus on the negative stereotypes or the rejection because not everyone feels that way about us. But then again, based on how much you talk about white men, it sounds like they are the only men you'd ever date, which I'm not saying is wrong but it's very limiting so of course, it's going to take a little longer to find someone.

    But you also have to take into account that you seem miserable and if you're like this offline, then it's no surprise that you get rejected for that. No one wants to be around someone who is self-pity.

    But if you really want to see what it's like being white for a day, I do second the idea Meninlove suggested about the makeup. I remember stumbling upon this video and yeah, it was pretty shocking lol. They are speaking French I believe.



    Yikes. That made me cringe to watch that. Seems wrong somehow. I think the thing that bothers me is that I got the impression they were actually enjoying being White for a day. It seemed like it affected them more than just being a cool makeup project. icon_neutral.gif


    It's probably because they'll be able to get a job and no one will accuse them of receiving it because of affirmative action. Very exciting indeed.
  • Matthew56

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    Mar 13, 2015 4:03 PM GMT
    [quote][cite]DryMoan said[/cite]I know I'm a hidden profile right now so most of what I say will mean zip to people.
    Firstly why do you want to be white?
    Do you feel that being white will therefore allow you to attract more white men?
    I ask because if that were the case, there are plenty of white guys who are into black men so it really has nothing to do about being white as opposed to just finding a nice guy.

    Honestly though I feel like if you spent half as much energy at being a positive person as you do constantly wanting to be white, you might've found a nice guy by now.
    Like honestly what is it you think you're achieving by constantly complaining about how you're black?

    Do you think someone will out of the blue offer you a life changing surgery/medication to turn you white?
    I feel like you are using this whole wanting to be white thing as way of saying that you feel that white gay men are racist for not being into you.

    Seriously though, you constantly whining about wishing you were white heavily wreaks of desperation that even if a nice white guy would be into you, seeing this would make you look really unattractive in his eyes because of your personality and not because of your looks.
    I've even seen on a few threads a white guy call you attractive but somehow you seem to miss it.

    You're dealt with the hand you're given in life so you can start playing, or just whine and moan about your hand and completely miss the game entirely (by "game" I mean "life" and by "playing" I mean "living" lol just to be clear).

    I'm not attacking you or anything so I'm sorry if it comes across that way, it's just that life's too short to waste time on things you can't actually change and time isn't a resource you get back.
    Spend it wisely because you can only spend each moment once and then it's gone.[/quote

    Yes pretty much if I was white my situation would be better
  • Matthew56

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    Mar 13, 2015 4:10 PM GMT
    pazzy saidthe intelligence level in here has to be low if folks by now can't recognize that they're being trolled.

    and honestly, i think that these threads are only exposed folks racism unintentionally where they're basically cosigning the op's message about blacks being inferior as they're basically saying... "yeah, it's true what you're saying but be happy". bet you folks would be ready to shit on him if he had any level of self confidence as a black man because let's face it, folks don't want gay black men to be confident or happy with who they are in the gay community. let a gay black man be cocky and act like he's the shit in here and watch folks get mad and ban him with the quickness like "how dare you be confident?" they want him to be all bowing down to his gay white peers basically opening the door and all humbling themselves to the point where they come off weak and afraid. let a gay black man say that he doesn't find white guys attractive or "no whites" and folks would be pissed because he isn't "following the plan". the whole "honor the totem pole system with the white guys being at the top and the blacks being at the bottom". they're like "you're supposed to be attracted to me because i'm white and you're black". icon_lol.gif some gay white dude can disrespect the shit out of them and they will be all cool with that shit or crying about how come that dude doesn't want them. icon_lol.gif i refuse to play into the bullshit that's going on. i'm proud that i'm black and my culture. i'm not going to kiss anybody's ass or play into that shit either because i see way too much of that shit going on. i'm not going to allow anybody to say that i'm inferior because of my skin color or that i should feel bad about myself which is what i notice seems to be perfectly acceptable on this forum where you have racist ass trolls saying all sorts of n-words towards black posters and everybody acting like it's okay and acceptable. fuck that shit. there needs to be more stand up and confident gay black men who aren't willing to kiss ass or be accepting of the bullshit.


    me personally, i don't have any preferences in terms of race when it comes to dating or sex BUT i like to sit back and watch how folks around me like to pull their bullshit, thinking they're slick. racism is a real big issue in the gay community and the folks that usually pull the race card are usually the white guys. i just refuse to play into the bullshit and am going to do whatever i feel like. not going to play the "homo thug" or be someone's "mandingo" lover, reenacting "thugzilla" having unprotected sex, wearing doorags, jordans having sex on a couch with plastic covering and shit. naw... i'm too educated about history, racism and stereotypes to play into that shit.


    This is how I feel it may sound like a broken record but the gay world has truly made me hate myself and skin colour
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    That vid just goes to prove that black men in whiteface look like Bill Maher, which should kill any inclination OP might have towards being white:

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    Matthew56 said
    pazzy saidthe intelligence level in here has to be low if folks by now can't recognize that they're being trolled.

    and honestly, i think that these threads are only exposed folks racism unintentionally where they're basically cosigning the op's message about blacks being inferior as they're basically saying... "yeah, it's true what you're saying but be happy". bet you folks would be ready to shit on him if he had any level of self confidence as a black man because let's face it, folks don't want gay black men to be confident or happy with who they are in the gay community. let a gay black man be cocky and act like he's the shit in here and watch folks get mad and ban him with the quickness like "how dare you be confident?" they want him to be all bowing down to his gay white peers basically opening the door and all humbling themselves to the point where they come off weak and afraid. let a gay black man say that he doesn't find white guys attractive or "no whites" and folks would be pissed because he isn't "following the plan". the whole "honor the totem pole system with the white guys being at the top and the blacks being at the bottom". they're like "you're supposed to be attracted to me because i'm white and you're black". icon_lol.gif some gay white dude can disrespect the shit out of them and they will be all cool with that shit or crying about how come that dude doesn't want them. icon_lol.gif i refuse to play into the bullshit that's going on. i'm proud that i'm black and my culture. i'm not going to kiss anybody's ass or play into that shit either because i see way too much of that shit going on. i'm not going to allow anybody to say that i'm inferior because of my skin color or that i should feel bad about myself which is what i notice seems to be perfectly acceptable on this forum where you have racist ass trolls saying all sorts of n-words towards black posters and everybody acting like it's okay and acceptable. fuck that shit. there needs to be more stand up and confident gay black men who aren't willing to kiss ass or be accepting of the bullshit.


    me personally, i don't have any preferences in terms of race when it comes to dating or sex BUT i like to sit back and watch how folks around me like to pull their bullshit, thinking they're slick. racism is a real big issue in the gay community and the folks that usually pull the race card are usually the white guys. i just refuse to play into the bullshit and am going to do whatever i feel like. not going to play the "homo thug" or be someone's "mandingo" lover, reenacting "thugzilla" having unprotected sex, wearing doorags, jordans having sex on a couch with plastic covering and shit. naw... i'm too educated about history, racism and stereotypes to play into that shit.


    ".....the gay world has truly made me hate myself and skin colour"


    No person or group can make you hate or love yourself. Your hatred is coming from within, and for this very reason no one can help you with this but yourself.
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    Mar 15, 2015 7:44 AM GMT
    Radd said
    Matthew56 said
    pazzy saidthe intelligence level in here has to be low if folks by now can't recognize that they're being trolled.

    and honestly, i think that these threads are only exposed folks racism unintentionally where they're basically cosigning the op's message about blacks being inferior as they're basically saying... "yeah, it's true what you're saying but be happy". bet you folks would be ready to shit on him if he had any level of self confidence as a black man because let's face it, folks don't want gay black men to be confident or happy with who they are in the gay community. let a gay black man be cocky and act like he's the shit in here and watch folks get mad and ban him with the quickness like "how dare you be confident?" they want him to be all bowing down to his gay white peers basically opening the door and all humbling themselves to the point where they come off weak and afraid. let a gay black man say that he doesn't find white guys attractive or "no whites" and folks would be pissed because he isn't "following the plan". the whole "honor the totem pole system with the white guys being at the top and the blacks being at the bottom". they're like "you're supposed to be attracted to me because i'm white and you're black". icon_lol.gif some gay white dude can disrespect the shit out of them and they will be all cool with that shit or crying about how come that dude doesn't want them. icon_lol.gif i refuse to play into the bullshit that's going on. i'm proud that i'm black and my culture. i'm not going to kiss anybody's ass or play into that shit either because i see way too much of that shit going on. i'm not going to allow anybody to say that i'm inferior because of my skin color or that i should feel bad about myself which is what i notice seems to be perfectly acceptable on this forum where you have racist ass trolls saying all sorts of n-words towards black posters and everybody acting like it's okay and acceptable. fuck that shit. there needs to be more stand up and confident gay black men who aren't willing to kiss ass or be accepting of the bullshit.


    me personally, i don't have any preferences in terms of race when it comes to dating or sex BUT i like to sit back and watch how folks around me like to pull their bullshit, thinking they're slick. racism is a real big issue in the gay community and the folks that usually pull the race card are usually the white guys. i just refuse to play into the bullshit and am going to do whatever i feel like. not going to play the "homo thug" or be someone's "mandingo" lover, reenacting "thugzilla" having unprotected sex, wearing doorags, jordans having sex on a couch with plastic covering and shit. naw... i'm too educated about history, racism and stereotypes to play into that shit.


    ".....the gay world has truly made me hate myself and skin colour"


    No person or group can make you hate or love yourself. Your hatred is coming from within, and for this very reason no one can help you with this but yourself.

    Really? As much as I agree OP needs to fix his self-esteem issues, I have seen you expressing your opinion about how unattractive black guys are for you. You've even gone to length to explain the kind of facial features which make a black person unattractive. You should be the last person to say that no one can make you feel unattractive. Guys like you are in abundance making people unworthy and unattractive. This kind of advice coming out of your mouth sounds so fake.
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    Mar 15, 2015 8:48 AM GMT
    I like white guys and black guys, but then again I am a minority (Russian and native american). There is some good advice on here, but my advice is kind of different from suffering from low self-esteem in the past; so it's more pessimistic in nature, but then again pessimistic can be the same as realistic. I think you are definitely playing too much into the expectations of a very materialistic culture, and so judge yourself by the same standards. It seems like we are relentlessly being fed this bs that you need to be in a relationship to be happy thanks to all these romance movies and pop culture. That you need good looks, money, and power to be happy. That may be true to an extent, but true happiness is from the things money can't buy, the things that fuel our spirit and give us higher and true meaning like following our dreams.

    I found that when I was being too self-conscious and worried about how I looked it just brought depression and anxiety to me. When I started not giving a shit how I looked I felt better, even now days I don't look into the mirror that much unless to see if there's a snot in my mustache or to trim my beard. I realized there were some guys who liked me for how I looked and my thinking as myself as attractive or unattractive was irrelevant. I try to think of myself as something more than just how I look and realize I'm an entity who is conscious and has something more to offer than my physical image, I have my art and music and family/friends that are part of me as well
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    Mar 15, 2015 9:33 AM GMT
    "Married and board, single and lonely, no happiness nowhere" --Chris Rock. Congrats you just joined the human race where nobody is ever happy icon_lol.gif.
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    Mar 15, 2015 1:38 PM GMT
    __morphic__ said
    Radd said
    Matthew56 said
    pazzy saidthe intelligence level in here has to be low if folks by now can't recognize that they're being trolled.

    and honestly, i think that these threads are only exposed folks racism unintentionally where they're basically cosigning the op's message about blacks being inferior as they're basically saying... "yeah, it's true what you're saying but be happy". bet you folks would be ready to shit on him if he had any level of self confidence as a black man because let's face it, folks don't want gay black men to be confident or happy with who they are in the gay community. let a gay black man be cocky and act like he's the shit in here and watch folks get mad and ban him with the quickness like "how dare you be confident?" they want him to be all bowing down to his gay white peers basically opening the door and all humbling themselves to the point where they come off weak and afraid. let a gay black man say that he doesn't find white guys attractive or "no whites" and folks would be pissed because he isn't "following the plan". the whole "honor the totem pole system with the white guys being at the top and the blacks being at the bottom". they're like "you're supposed to be attracted to me because i'm white and you're black". icon_lol.gif some gay white dude can disrespect the shit out of them and they will be all cool with that shit or crying about how come that dude doesn't want them. icon_lol.gif i refuse to play into the bullshit that's going on. i'm proud that i'm black and my culture. i'm not going to kiss anybody's ass or play into that shit either because i see way too much of that shit going on. i'm not going to allow anybody to say that i'm inferior because of my skin color or that i should feel bad about myself which is what i notice seems to be perfectly acceptable on this forum where you have racist ass trolls saying all sorts of n-words towards black posters and everybody acting like it's okay and acceptable. fuck that shit. there needs to be more stand up and confident gay black men who aren't willing to kiss ass or be accepting of the bullshit.


    me personally, i don't have any preferences in terms of race when it comes to dating or sex BUT i like to sit back and watch how folks around me like to pull their bullshit, thinking they're slick. racism is a real big issue in the gay community and the folks that usually pull the race card are usually the white guys. i just refuse to play into the bullshit and am going to do whatever i feel like. not going to play the "homo thug" or be someone's "mandingo" lover, reenacting "thugzilla" having unprotected sex, wearing doorags, jordans having sex on a couch with plastic covering and shit. naw... i'm too educated about history, racism and stereotypes to play into that shit.


    ".....the gay world has truly made me hate myself and skin colour"


    No person or group can make you hate or love yourself. Your hatred is coming from within, and for this very reason no one can help you with this but yourself.

    Really? As much as I agree OP needs to fix his self-esteem issues, I have seen you expressing your opinion about how unattractive black guys are for you. You've even gone to length to explain the kind of facial features which make a black person unattractive. You should be the last person to say that no one can make you feel unattractive. Guys like you are in abundance making people unworthy and unattractive. This kind of advice coming out of your mouth sounds so fake.


    If you're going to quote me, fucking QUOTE me. I don't appreciate you taking my words and twisting them like you just did. I NEVER said I wasn't attracted to Black guys because of their facial features. EVER. I gave an EXAMPLE of why some guys might not be attracted to Black guys in general. I also gave examples of Asian features that people might not be into, thus giving them a valid reason not to be into that particular race. You need to quote where I said what you claim I said or apologize.
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    Mar 15, 2015 2:40 PM GMT
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    But seriously, this is not something that I think a message board can help with very much. Personally, I think you need counseling.

    You base your happiness on what exactly? Happiness/contentment comes from within.

    Really, what you also might want to do is try some good Insight Meditation to give yourself a break from your negative thoughts.

    Take care!

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    If you're going to quote me, fucking QUOTE me. I don't appreciate you taking my words and twisting them like you just did. I NEVER said I wasn't attracted to Black guys because of their facial features. EVER. I gave an EXAMPLE of why some guys might not be attracted to Black guys in general. I also gave examples of Asian features that people might not be into, thus giving them a valid reason not to be into that particular race. You need to quote where I said what you claim I said or apologize.

    No, I am not going to quote it. I wrote the interpretation of words you ACCEPT you wrote. If you are going to beat around the bush, then so be it. I am going to write how I perceived your words. You should also attach an EXPLANATION of what you are trying to say when you write something because it seems what you mean to say and how people percieve it aren't the same. I am not alone as you can see from other thread. I don't believe in making threads attacking a single guy or I could even hold a poll here asking people what opinion they have about your attraction towards BLACK guys.

    SuntoryTime said
    Radd saidBig dick or not, he's not exactly handsome. Zero comments on that link which says a lot.


    No guy of his ancestry is attractive to you so your opinion should be taken for granted. icon_cool.gif
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    If you're going to quote me, fucking QUOTE me. I don't appreciate you taking my words and twisting them like you just did. I NEVER said I wasn't attracted to Black guys because of their facial features. EVER. I gave an EXAMPLE of why some guys might not be attracted to Black guys in general. I also gave examples of Asian features that people might not be into, thus giving them a valid reason not to be into that particular race. You need to quote where I said what you claim I said or apologize.

    No, I am not going to quote it. I wrote the interpretation of words you ACCEPT you wrote. If you are going to beat around the bush, then so be it. I am going to write how I perceived your words. You should also attach an EXPLANATION of what you are trying to say when you write something because it seems what you mean to say and how people percieve it aren't the same. I am not alone as you can see from other thread. I don't believe in making threads attacking a single guy or I could even hold a poll here asking people what opinion they have about your attraction towards BLACK guys.


    So you're saying you're an idiot then? Because that's how I'm "interpreting" your words. See how stupid you sound? You don't get to "interpret" my words for me. Learn to READ and COMPREHEND instead of "interpreting you stupid prick.

    And it's not my problem if there are other hypersensitive queens on this site. If I hated Black guys like you claim, I wouldn't have wasted so many hours of my life trying to help this man. You truly are idiotic if you can't see that.
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    Radd said

    If you're going to quote me, fucking QUOTE me. I don't appreciate you taking my words and twisting them like you just did. I NEVER said I wasn't attracted to Black guys because of their facial features. EVER. I gave an EXAMPLE of why some guys might not be attracted to Black guys in general. I also gave examples of Asian features that people might not be into, thus giving them a valid reason not to be into that particular race. You need to quote where I said what you claim I said or apologize.

    No, I am not going to quote it. I wrote the interpretation of words you ACCEPT you wrote. If you are going to beat around the bush, then so be it. I am going to write how I perceived your words. You should also attach an EXPLANATION of what you are trying to say when you write something because it seems what you mean to say and how people percieve it aren't the same. I am not alone as you can see from other thread. I don't believe in making threads attacking a single guy or I could even hold a poll here asking people what opinion they have about your attraction towards BLACK guys.


    So you're saying you're an idiot then? Because that's how I'm "interpreting" your words. See how stupid you sound? You don't get to "interpret" my words for me. Learn to READ and COMPREHEND instead of "interpreting you stupid prick.

    And it's not my problem if there are other hypersensitive queens on this site. If I hated Black guys like you claim, I wouldn't have wasted so many hours of my life trying to help this man. You truly are idiotic if you can't see that.

    No. I am saying you are a hypocrite. My interpretation aligns with many others here. It's only you who seem to believe that you are being misinterpreted. As you see it's just not me. Yeah, as always other hypersensitive queens are the problem. Do you even listen to yourself? You accuse pazzy of the same thing and here you are saying other guys are the problem. If pointing out your hypocrisy is idiocy, so be it.
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    Radd said
    __morphic__ said
    Radd said

    If you're going to quote me, fucking QUOTE me. I don't appreciate you taking my words and twisting them like you just did. I NEVER said I wasn't attracted to Black guys because of their facial features. EVER. I gave an EXAMPLE of why some guys might not be attracted to Black guys in general. I also gave examples of Asian features that people might not be into, thus giving them a valid reason not to be into that particular race. You need to quote where I said what you claim I said or apologize.

    No, I am not going to quote it. I wrote the interpretation of words you ACCEPT you wrote. If you are going to beat around the bush, then so be it. I am going to write how I perceived your words. You should also attach an EXPLANATION of what you are trying to say when you write something because it seems what you mean to say and how people percieve it aren't the same. I am not alone as you can see from other thread. I don't believe in making threads attacking a single guy or I could even hold a poll here asking people what opinion they have about your attraction towards BLACK guys.


    So you're saying you're an idiot then? Because that's how I'm "interpreting" your words. See how stupid you sound? You don't get to "interpret" my words for me. Learn to READ and COMPREHEND instead of "interpreting you stupid prick.

    And it's not my problem if there are other hypersensitive queens on this site. If I hated Black guys like you claim, I wouldn't have wasted so many hours of my life trying to help this man. You truly are idiotic if you can't see that.

    No. I am saying you are a hypocrite. My interpretation aligns with many others here. It's only you who seem to believe that you are being misinterpreted. As you see it's just not me. Yeah, as always other hypersensitive queens are the problem. Do you even listen to yourself? You accuse pazzy of the same thing and here you are saying other guys are the problem. If pointing out your hypocrisy is idiocy, so be it.


    There is zero hypocrisy with me. And you know I'm not a hypocrite because you refuse to quote me.....just your "interpretations" of what I said. Right. You're just not bright enough to understand that I don't choose "sides" like most people do. I take each situation or person independently, and people like you just can't seem to wrap your little brains around that. I'm a Liberal yet I support gun ownership. I'm a Liberal but do not believe in unlimited welfare handouts. I support equality for Blacks, Whites, Gays and every human being under the sun, but when I criticise one of these groups, the narrow minded idiots like yourself scream "RACIST!" Whenever I say something that doesn't align with one side or the other, you get all frustrated because you can't put me in a neat little box or category. It's okay though, I'm used to dealing with small minded people like yourself.

    And nice going aligning yourself with Pazzy, the most respected member of the site! icon_lol.gif
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    Mar 16, 2015 12:02 AM GMT
    __morphic__ said
    Radd said
    No person or group can make you hate or love yourself. Your hatred is coming from within, and for this very reason no one can help you with this but yourself.

    Really? As much as I agree OP needs to fix his self-esteem issues, I have seen you expressing your opinion about how unattractive black guys are for you. You've even gone to length to explain the kind of facial features which make a black person unattractive. You should be the last person to say that no one can make you feel unattractive. Guys like you are in abundance making people unworthy and unattractive. This kind of advice coming out of your mouth sounds so fake.



    Lots of people have called Radd out on this. He alternates between outright provoking crazies like Pazzy and Inque and giving them advice - like an abusive parent - hence it's clear the latter is insincere. It's like he wants them to keep ruining the image of black people.

    Between his profile that says he's less attracted to blacks and asians, and his detailed posts about "features" on blacks and Asians, it's pretty easy to know what he really wants to say. For an old white guy who isn't interested in minorities, he sure posts a hell of a lot on race threads. I guess at that age, trying to perpetuate every bit of white privilege helps lol.
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    Mar 16, 2015 3:19 AM GMT
    That's how I've always understood his motivations. And he's far from the only one, among the many senior members.