Define an **Alpha male* type!

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    Mar 15, 2015 12:19 AM GMT
    Asmodeus saidChris Evans



    I think Chris Evans's more like a Pretty boy actor/model type and very metrosexual and gay-friendly. I don't think he's alpha but hey, that's just me. Now, Colin Farrell, Jason Statham or Daniel Craig, any bad-ass actor, is an Alpha Male. icon_cool.gificon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 15, 2015 1:59 AM GMT
    An alpha male is the socially dominant male in a given group. What it takes to be alpha is therefore dependent on the social context and dynamics. Being a social role, alpha males require recognition of their status from other males.

    Therefore, you will find that an alpha male:-
    - exhibits features or qualities of "success" in his social group;
    - has followers or at least male admirers;
    - dominates other men in his presence and social interactions;
    - is probably naturally gifted with leadership and social skills;
    - is probably more likely to be an extravert; and
    - may exhibit sociopathic tendencies (narcissism, risk-taking, agression etc.)
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    Mar 15, 2015 2:28 AM GMT
    Self-assured,Decisive,Mentally strong,Experienced.
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    Mar 15, 2015 3:39 AM GMT
    Alphas are dominant, possessive, and generally provide for their charges. Personal definitions vary, though. Ask, "What kind of alpha" don't assume they use the definition you got here. For one thing, a total alpha (A lion, full mane, and harem) eats the young of their rivals. Don't have to go all the way to Power Assertive rapist (Like Ted Bundy) so only the positive aspects (Whatever they may be to whoever you're courting.)

  • Mar 15, 2015 4:31 AM GMT
    I'm an Alpha male.

    Look you into the eyes of your partner and command ... really.

    Look at their body language. Spread you legs and open your arms. Invite them in.

    This being alpha.

    Tommy

  • NeuralShock

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    Mar 15, 2015 6:06 AM GMT
    They literally do their own thing and don't care. They don't give a rats ass about your approval of their actions. Whether it be them helping their mother carry groceries, attending to a volunteer work at a hospital, hugging and cuddling their daughter... it isn't just "hurr durr I lift things up I put things down GYM TAN LAUNDRY".

    It can also include them helping others if they want to, as in THEY DON'T "ATTEMPT" TO LOOK ALPHA.

    That is the distinction. They literally don't pose around and prance around carefully analysing every movement, word they say, etc ...

    They literally are just the apex of "comfortable with themselves". Physcially, mentally, spiritually... they aren't worried about it- they just are themselves however that may be.

    Like for me I find that a man can be really alpha so long as he is (1) comfortable (2) not putting on an act (3) self-respecting (4) polite and well put-together mentally


    The last thing I find alpha are what mainstream society calls "alpha"... the douchebags walking around so paranoid about coming across as anything other than superhuman that it is just hilarious. The mind-numbing insecurity oozes off of them.

    Then again I have clinical interviewing skills from my past courses so it's easy to detect and then tug their strings the right way and watch them unravel.
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    Mar 15, 2015 6:32 AM GMT
    kangourou saidAn alpha male is the socially dominant male in a given group. What it takes to be alpha is therefore dependent on the social context and dynamics. Being a social role, alpha males require recognition of their status from other males.

    Therefore, you will find that an alpha male:-
    - exhibits features or qualities of "success" in his social group;
    - has followers or at least male admirers;
    - dominates other men in his presence and social interactions;
    - is probably naturally gifted with leadership and social skills;
    - is probably more likely to be an extravert; and
    - may exhibit sociopathic tendencies (narcissism, risk-taking, agression etc.)


    LOL Right On !! icon_cool.gif
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    Mar 15, 2015 6:49 AM GMT
    This thread is weird... a lot of dudes obsessing over their ideal alpha.
  • Beeftastic

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    Mar 15, 2015 9:53 AM GMT
    To the guys that want an Alpha male: You desire something you are far from yourself. Now why the hell do you think you deserve this superior being?

  • ursa_minor

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    Mar 15, 2015 10:39 AM GMT
    JimiB saidGo to a commercial gym. There you will see Alphas, Betas and Epsilons. The vast majority of guys there are Betas. They need to seen. Quite often they are genuinely `attractive. Wearing $90 Affinity tee-shirts, constantly flexing nonexistent lats in the mirror, talking loud, giving unsolicited advice, Betas will do anything to get attention.

    Smaller in number and sometimes smaller in size, Epsilons appear almost timid, retreating. Though they are gym regulars, they appear to be perpetual newbies.

    Now, look over there. Not there. Over there. There. Yes, there. That's the Alpha. He appears to be in a Zen state. Focused. Programmed. Alone. Typically bigger in size, the Alpha always appears powerful. The Alpha. Now, be brave. Go over to him and ask him for his advice. You will be surprised be the gentleness of his voice, the kindness of his gaze and the completeness of his answer. You feel so safe and so protected in his presence. Though you feel awestruck by his power you don't feel intimidated by him. What manner of man is this? He's an Alpha.


    I think I just orgasmed from reading this text ;)
  • jaxsurfer

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    Mar 15, 2015 1:02 PM GMT
    An alpha male has nothing to do with being straight acting and has nothing to do with being an asshole, it's funny how the term intimidates certain people lol. Someone has to be a leader, that doesn't mean it's a bad thing, and that they always get their way, because they don't.
  • coolarmydude

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    Mar 15, 2015 1:24 PM GMT
    <---------Omega male

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    Mar 15, 2015 1:27 PM GMT
    LAXWill10 said
    Asmodeus saidChris Evans



    I think Chris Evans's more like a Pretty boy actor/model type and very metrosexual and gay-friendly. I don't think he's alpha but hey, that's just me. Now, Colin Farrell, Jason Statham or Daniel Craig, any bad-ass actor, is an Alpha Male. icon_cool.gificon_biggrin.gif


    Although they might actually be alpha males, don't gauge an actor's personal traits by the characters they act.
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    Mar 15, 2015 1:56 PM GMT
    monet saidAlpha male: (n) a dude who comes over and fucks you in the ass and then wipes his dick off on your duvet cover.


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  • Apparition

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    Mar 15, 2015 3:22 PM GMT
    Picture a bull dyke in a man.



    Shake hands with an astronaut, you just met one.
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    Mar 15, 2015 4:05 PM GMT
    THE ALPHA MALEicon_rolleyes.gif
    hahhhaaa...that's any memeber on real-joke
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    Mar 15, 2015 7:06 PM GMT
    Alpha's ALWAYS piss direct into the toilet water to make as much sound as possible, for as long as possible. They never pee quietly or aim for the porcelain, they want other men to hear their strong piss stream.
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    Mar 15, 2015 8:17 PM GMT
    rugbyscrum saidAlpha's ALWAYS piss direct into the toilet water to make as much sound as possible, for as long as possible. They never pee quietly or aim for the porcelain, they want other men to hear their strong piss stream.


    LOL, or they can be very drunk and not aiming the target urinal directly?? LOL
  • DadFights

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    Mar 15, 2015 9:09 PM GMT
    Jim B. said it all, an Alpha takes care of himself, is a leader if his partner wants that, but can put himself in any role. He is a MAN, smart, kind and ready to help his friends or anyone if asked. We used to call this being a gentleman, something a lot of young guys don't know how to be.
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    Mar 15, 2015 10:04 PM GMT
    woodfordr saidConfident.
    Decisive.
    Dominant.



    This. Know what you want and say it. Exactly the opposite of what many guys do.
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    Mar 16, 2015 8:32 AM GMT
    GameOver saidThis thread is weird... a lot of dudes obsessing over their ideal alpha.

    yeah. Also, I see so many members which I have never seen before commenting on the forums.
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    Mar 16, 2015 11:49 AM GMT
    He is the one that gets to deposit the most semen, that's what it's all about.
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    Mar 16, 2015 1:44 PM GMT
    Aren't 'Alpha Males' basically dominant men ?
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    Mar 16, 2015 2:35 PM GMT
    You can read all the definition you'll need on my Linkedin profile. To post it here would be redundant and just bragging.
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    Mar 16, 2015 4:40 PM GMT
    waccamatt said
    CODY4U said^^is this abundance of 'gay alpha males' the reason why so many profiles on gay sites have to put a request for masculinity in writing?


    No, they do that because they're losers who feel they have to immediately discard guys who are more feminine. It's called internalized homophobia.


    that's rather harsh and judgmental. you just called most gay men losers too. maybe you're the one struggling with internalized homophobia.