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    Mar 17, 2015 11:37 PM GMT
    Is it pointless to even try to look for a date on Adam4Adam? I've heard that it's notorious for being a hookup site, but has anyone had luck in finding a decent date off of there?

    EDIT: Every time I post in another section it posts here... can someone move this to the dating/relationship section please?
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    Mar 17, 2015 11:40 PM GMT
    Answer to your first question....yes
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    Mar 17, 2015 11:41 PM GMT
    Erik101 saidAnswer to your first question....yes


    Where's the best place online to look for a date?
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    Mar 17, 2015 11:52 PM GMT
    You serious!? I created an account there like a week ago. Wow, fortunately I haven't upload any pics there.

    For now I think RJ is the most reliable one I have ever seen. But then again, I'm not much of a user of the social medias and apps alike, hahaha.

    I'm just aware of Grindr's notorious name as a hookup app.
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    Mar 17, 2015 11:58 PM GMT
    i think it's what you make it. i met a guy on there that eventually became a really good friend. some guys are there to hookup, some are there for more, most of them are probably somewhere in between. how you present yourself plays a part too.
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    Mar 18, 2015 12:51 AM GMT
    CODY4U saidi think it's what you make it. i met a guy on there that eventually became a really good friend. some guys are there to hookup, some are there for more, most of them are probably somewhere in between. how you present yourself plays a part too.

    I agree. I've met many guys on there that are really nice. Not everyone on there is just looking for a hookup, some are just looking for a nice guy to date. One of many sites, just be clear about what you're looking for. Your profile should indicate you're NOT interested in a hookup.
  • jo2hotbod

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    Mar 18, 2015 2:05 AM GMT
    It's like anything hit or miss, fronds how lucky you are. I found a hot fuck on the site
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    Mar 18, 2015 4:53 PM GMT
    OKCupid, Scruff have spawned good online and real life friends and dates for me. RealJock is a toss up icon_razz.gif

    All others suck

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    Mar 18, 2015 5:58 PM GMT
    Why y'all so puritan? Ugh Americans
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    Mar 19, 2015 2:07 AM GMT
    JockPunkBohemian saidWhy y'all so puritan? Ugh Americans


    Even if you mean this as a joke, it's a poor one and mislabeling. What does being American have to do with anything?

    Sorry but some people don't like being approached in the following ways on sites like A4A:

    "What's your cock size?"
    "Are you looking?"
    "You wanna fuck?"
    "You top or bottom?"
    "Do you play?"
    "DTF?"

    The list goes on.
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    Mar 19, 2015 2:35 AM GMT
    I shall just respond with what a lovely Frenchman told me once

    in France people dont realise they are romantic; it's just the way people are



    in France, sex is not just something you have because you re drunk or have to release a pulsion. It's like a language. I dont know how to explain



    even if you meet someone just for a shag, you make love to him. we say "faire l'amour"



    also we dont say "i come" but "je jouis"
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    Mar 19, 2015 4:50 AM GMT
    jo2hotbod saidIt's like anything hit or miss, fronds how lucky you are. I found a hot fuck on the site



    I suspect u'd find a hot fuck on just about any site icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 19, 2015 3:24 PM GMT
    Well in response to your lovely story, I will just say there's a difference between hearing such a dream and living it. I assure you that in France, they don't live that lovely story your nice Frenchman told you.
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    Nov 08, 2019 5:33 AM GMT
    I've met a few awesome hot local guys on A4A who have
    also become good friends and trusted play buddies.
    I've been a loyal member of that site for almost 10 years
    and I like its features.
    I like how the matching process and private photo access goes,
    that way I can find my compatible buddy and weed out non-types.
    A4A friggin Rocks! icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 19, 2020 11:04 PM GMT
    I've been on adam4adam for a while now , I've but I'll about 2 dozen guys and have chatted swapped pictures.
    Haven't had any one wants tho meet to talk or anything.
    I'm open to all and everyone and willing to meet.

    I think that site sucks
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    Jan 20, 2020 12:13 AM GMT
    Stay the hell away from Plenty Of Fish and OkCupid, they are both a total mess now.

    PoF is becoming flooded with spam users, women imposing as men and sending automated sex messages. It also claims "men" or "women" choices only, NO BI or TRANS gender status ALLOWED, yet a lot of users lie/mess around with it, bi and trans/crossdressers of the worst (obviously a man in womens clothing) appeal. Nearly vommit the last time I was on PoF and one messaged me icon_eek.gificon_sad.gificon_rolleyes.gif :sick

    As for OkCupid..... I'm sorry, how many sexual preferences? talk about the "politically correct" gone wild icon_neutral.gif
  • Gutsy

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    Feb 28, 2020 9:03 PM GMT
    How does A4A work - do you have to log-in to exchange messages(as here) or do they go to your registered email address?
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    Feb 29, 2020 2:56 PM GMT
    Gutsy saidHow does A4A work - do you have to log-in to exchange messages(as here) or do they go to your registered email address?

    Messages are sent and received on A4A.
    If you choose, you can get a notification from A4A, sent to your email address, when you receive a new message at A4A.

    I have had several enjoyable dates through A4A.

    A4A is probably as free/no charge as a site can be, and allows a user to focus on local guys.

    Unfortunately, A4A is now plagued with "bots."

  • Gutsy

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    Mar 01, 2020 2:13 AM GMT
    Joined.
    About 90% of the gentleman are 8.5” thick dicks with 5.5” cockshot photos
    I don’t think this will be for me.
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    Mar 14, 2020 10:08 AM GMT
    Wendigo9 saidStay the hell away from Plenty Of Fish and OkCupid, they are both a total mess now.

    I have never been on OKCupid, but I know 2 gay couples, married, who met their husbands on the site. It works for some.
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    Mar 15, 2020 10:12 PM GMT
    Moonpie69 saidI've been on adam4adam for a while now , I've but I'll about 2 dozen guys and have chatted swapped pictures.
    Haven't had any one wants tho meet to talk or anything.
    I'm open to all and everyone and willing to meet.

    I think that site sucks


    Sounds like timewasters and pic collectors who are not serious about meeting up, but rather endless chat with a view to collecting as many pics of guys they chat to as possible. Nothing more annoying...
  • NJNYCMusc

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    Apr 08, 2020 3:24 AM GMT
    Had lots of interesting conversations on Adam4Adam, but when it came to actually meeting face to face, everyone flaked out. It was a huge waste of my time. Seems to be an epidemic among all the online sites.
  • Gutsy

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    Apr 08, 2020 5:25 AM GMT
    Agree with above; lots of talk lots of dick pix lots of nothing
    Although Covid seems to b the perfect cockblocker...