looking for some lucky guy to be my first!!! coming out

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    Nov 05, 2016 3:12 PM GMT
    Never been with a man before, but im ready, just gotta find the right one!!! 28year old virgin
  • Suetonius

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    Nov 05, 2016 4:47 PM GMT
    etch said
    babyboy88 saidNever been with a man before, but im ready, just gotta find the right one!!! 28year old virgin


    Tragic


    He's on the right path - otherwise he would become a 29 year old virgin.
  • roadbikeRob

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    Nov 05, 2016 5:01 PM GMT
    What is wrong with being a virgin in your late twentiesicon_question.gif

    Isn't it safer and healthier to wait for the right guy to come around rather than doing endless one night standsicon_question.gif
  • Destinharbor

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    Nov 05, 2016 5:01 PM GMT
    Good for you, man. Just remember, you're not looking for your one and only. Just a nice guy. Be honest and tell him he's your first. If he's cool he'll make it great.
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    Nov 05, 2016 5:02 PM GMT
    etch said
    babyboy88 said
    Never been with a man before, but im ready, just gotta find the right one!!! 28year old virgin

    Tragic

    And so you're slamming him. Another of your anti-gay downer posts here, meant to demoralize us.

    Well, I say congrats to him! Better late than never. And he appears to be asking for advice. Not asking for your lame-ass comments.
  • Eli_jah

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    Nov 05, 2016 10:36 PM GMT
    etch said
    babyboy88 saidNever been with a man before, but im ready, just gotta find the right one!!! 28year old virgin


    Tragic


    Ignore him. At least you don't have HPV and god knows what else.
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    Nov 05, 2016 10:42 PM GMT
    babyboy88 saidNever been with a man before, but im ready, just gotta find the right one!!! 28year old virgin

    Just don't do what I did and go on Grindr. I found a complete psycho and I'm still dealing with the affects of it. Ask lots of questions. Find someone loving
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    Nov 05, 2016 10:59 PM GMT
    You idiots don't even realize he is a troll
  • FirestormDavi...

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    Nov 06, 2016 3:17 AM GMT
    it was fascinating to see one guy (Rob) give great advice and say that you should wait for the right guy and then right after Destinharbor says some horrible shit..."you're not looking for your one and only"

    you better look for your one an only.

    don't allow the indiscriminate promiscuity that plagues our world interfere with your purity.

    Respect to being pure, man!

    The dude that said it's tragic you're a virgin probably fucks guys he doesn't love.
  • whytehot

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    Nov 06, 2016 4:20 AM GMT
    I can't believe I have to agree with that Trumper roadbikerob for once.

    It's not the end of the world if your first guy isn't the one and only, but sleeping around certainly isn't a pre-requisite like some sluts would want you to believe.
  • Apparition

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    Nov 06, 2016 4:38 AM GMT
    whytehot saidI can't believe I have to agree with that Trumper roadbikerob for once.

    It's not the end of the world if your first guy isn't the one and only, but sleeping around certainly isn't a pre-requisite like some sluts would want you to believe.



    your first being your one and only is a HUGE statistical improbability, that is not a judgement, that is just reality.
  • NOLAman13

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    Nov 06, 2016 5:01 AM GMT
    Just protect yourself and take PReP.
  • aThugsLife

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    Nov 06, 2016 6:07 AM GMT
    So, who's the lucky guy? :-P
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    Nov 06, 2016 6:52 AM GMT
    roadbikeRob saidWhat is wrong with being a virgin in your late twentiesicon_question.gif

    Isn't it safer and healthier to wait for the right guy to come around rather than doing endless one night standsicon_question.gif


    +1
  • khatmk

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    Nov 06, 2016 3:51 PM GMT
    sounds like the lottery icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif

    congrats on coming out by the way, wish you the best!
  • Destinharbor

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    Nov 06, 2016 6:06 PM GMT
    polfsky said
    roadbikeRob saidWhat is wrong with being a virgin in your late twentiesicon_question.gif

    Isn't it safer and healthier to wait for the right guy to come around rather than doing endless one night standsicon_question.gif


    +1

    I met my forever on a one night stand. Actually, it was a one week-end stand. If you wait for the "right" guy to come around, you develop a long list of requirements and expectations and that is why the "right" guy never comes around and you end up a bitter virgin. Or bitter, disappointed, and cynical, and alone bitching about promiscuity. You apparently think so, but sex is not some dirty thing to be avoided. And it's also something that you get better at through learning. But the best reason to date around with a mature attitude towards sex is because that is how you get surprised by some really nice guy and fall in love. And chemistry matters more than you want to think. Chemistry can't be intellectualized.
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    Nov 06, 2016 8:25 PM GMT
    Destinharbor said
    polfsky said
    roadbikeRob saidWhat is wrong with being a virgin in your late twentiesicon_question.gif

    Isn't it safer and healthier to wait for the right guy to come around rather than doing endless one night standsicon_question.gif


    +1

    I met my forever on a one night stand. Actually, it was a one week-end stand. If you wait for the "right" guy to come around, you develop a long list of requirements and expectations and that is why the "right" guy never comes around and you end up a bitter virgin. Or bitter, disappointed, and cynical, and alone bitching about promiscuity. You apparently think so, but sex is not some dirty thing to be avoided. And it's also something that you get better at through learning. But the best reason to date around with a mature attitude towards sex] is because that is how you get surprised by some really nice guy and fall in love. And chemistry matters more than you want to think. Chemistry can't be intellectualized.


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    Nov 06, 2016 8:30 PM GMT
    art_deco said
    etch said
    babyboy88 said
    Never been with a man before, but im ready, just gotta find the right one!!! 28year old virgin

    Tragic

    And so you're slamming him. Another of your anti-gay downer posts here, meant to demoralize us.

    Well, I say congrats to him! Better late than never. And he appears to be asking for advice. Not asking for your lame-ass comments.


    I think Etch is out to prove he is a troll sometimes, let's just hope he doesn't meet a guy who is like the version of him he describes so vividly on RJ
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    Nov 06, 2016 10:24 PM GMT
    Destinharbor said
    You apparently think so, but sex is not some dirty thing to be avoided. And it's also something that you get better at through learning.


    If I had a nickel for every time some "sex positive" village bicycle tries to guilt someone into sleeping around by accusing them of thinking that sex is a bad thing. Duh, no one ever thinks that. Marriage is awesome too but if you had 20 and they were all in Vegas.... icon_lol.gif
  • rvmj_05

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    Nov 12, 2016 10:47 AM GMT
    i wonder when will b my first and to whom?? if i havent been a hard to get and conservative person i would have been no longer a virgin anymore.. to those hypocrites who criticize virgins, well recall the past when u were still virgins!!