Feb 21, 2017 2:22 AM GMT
Hey guys, been a while since i posted something about dating/relationship. I guess this post is more like a Rant. I spoke with my ex and a couple of friends recently, I have an observation of gay life and culture like this. Most gay men are not really Monogamous-Committed, it seems like gay life is just one big giant party. Look at all the bars/clubs out there. (Plus the White party in Palm Springs/Prides)...etc. I'm not saying that these events are Bad, it's part of the gay culture. I guess I'm saying maybe there are too many choices for gay men (esp. in the LA area anyway), most guys just don't wanna commit. I'm guilty of going to bars, yes and sometimes hooked up with a random cute dude lol. But damn, when am I going to find that good guy to settle down with?? lol, I don't know, I'm just reminiscing about the old settled life with my ex a while back. It seems that countless and many gay men enjoy living single, going to bars, hooking up and the cycle going around all over again. I, over the past 2-3 weeks, literally saw like 4-5 guys on Scruff, OKC, GR out at the bars hooking up while their profiles online say **I want a husband. Lol, And sometimes, guys can be unnecessary rude, flaky and came off as *Weird. I don't know, does anyone else have a better experience than me? Maybe I should just stop going to the gay LA ghetto.