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    Feb 22, 2017 3:06 PM GMT
    i'm a middle eastren gay guy from saudi arabia and being gay or even declaring gay within my country is so dangerous and might lead to a death penalty where i usually come from beheading i had to run away from home and my family disowned me for beig a gay honeslty going back there is not really a good idea staying in a such country is like living in the dark ages and i'm so freaking afraid and scared of getting cought by family or seen by any of them i'm happy of what i did by escaping and getting the hell out but really what hurts me the most is my family is no longer consider me their son or beleive they had a boy oneday and if someone asked about me they might reply that we no longer have a son or we never had one or our son is dead i'm freaking out so much you guys i really need your opinions regarding my problem i live in the united states now and no longer planning to go back in the sake of getting cougt by the authorities over there thanks for reading my post i appreciate it
  • ChocoMike

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    Feb 22, 2017 7:00 PM GMT
    Your situation is the unfortunate result of bigotry. I think of bigotry as someone accepting the teachings of a religion blindly. Your family is unable to think through the implications of rejecting their own son because homosexuality is a breach of the standards set by their religion. If the truth be known, you have not changed at all from the time they accepted you until after they discovered your real sexual orientation. How a family can reject their own son just because of his God given human sexual orientation is a sad situation. I feel for you because I know how important my family is to me. While my family did not want to learn of my sexual orientation, if truth be known, once they learned of it, they embraced me as lovingly as ever. This was/is very important to me, as it gives me support for my self esteem. I believe if I were in your position, I would send them a heart felt explanation of how disappointed you are that they cannot support you emotionally. I would give them examples of how sexual orientation is genetically derived and not environmentally. I.e. that homosexuality is not a choice. I send out to you my hope that you will eventually help them to understand how wrong their reactions have been. They should be so proud to be family members of such a perfect looking man and, by all indications, that perfection is both on the exterior and the interior. Do not give up.
  • Buddha

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    Feb 22, 2017 7:11 PM GMT
    My parents are muslim and didn't really handle me coming out that well, but they've gotten around to it a bit more. My mom still accept it that much and still asks me when I visit home, but all in all it's okay; they still very much so want me in their lives and sometimes ask how my boyfriend is (mostly my dad and sister though).

    If one's parents choose to completely exile you out of their lives, I'm pretty sure it's their biggest loss. If they approach you, then fine, you can consider talking to them. Otherwise, it'll be their loss and their biggest regret on their deathbed.
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    Feb 22, 2017 7:29 PM GMT
    Unzipped1 saidI would say return to your home country and fight the hatred openly. You will feel so much more honor in fighting your oppressors than running away.

    Go home and make us all proud.


    The most idiotic post you have written on this site (and they include a lot of crap). The writings of a disgusting Ahole. Telling the OP he should go home and be killed. Why don't you offer to send him a burial shroud to take with him - you could have it adorned with pink triangles and pretty stars.

    The OP should start a new life, move on, and do his best to forget his family. He is dead to them, so they are no longer family. Maybe see a therapist if thoughts are too depressing.
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    Feb 22, 2017 7:32 PM GMT
    Unzipped1 saidI would say return to your home country and fight the hatred openly. You will feel so much more honor in fighting your oppressors than running away.

    Go home and make us all proud.



    As if we needed any more proof that this queen is just a troll. It's sad that a grown man can be so lonely and desperate for attention that he would advice someone to basically commit suicide. And all for attention.
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    Feb 22, 2017 7:43 PM GMT


    Unzipped1 said
    Puppenjunge said
    Unzipped1 saidI would say return to your home country and fight the hatred openly. You will feel so much more honor in fighting your oppressors than running away.

    Go home and make us all proud.


    The most idiotic post you have written on this site (and they include a lot of crap). The writings of a disgusting Ahole. Telling the OP he should go home and be killed. Why don't you offer to send him a burial shroud to take with him - you could have it adorned with pink triangles and pretty stars.

    The OP should start a new life, move on, and do his best to forget his family. He is dead to them, so they are no longer family. Maybe see a therapist if thoughts are too depressing.


    One should never turn their back on their native land. Why would he be killed for standing up for his rights and existence in his homeland.

    The natives of the US fought to defend their home and land, and even though they may have lost, their heritage was not destroyed. So if the op wants to be truly free and happy, he must face the hatred and take it on full force, so that others may follow suit, and defend their rights as well.


    man were talking about saudi arabia google it and read if there are any gay rights over there u it will direct towards the death sentence its a religious thing man over there
  • bro4bro

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    Feb 22, 2017 8:26 PM GMT
    ^ OK cupcake, why don't you go with him?

    I'm sure you could "educate and enlighten" the people over there just as you do here.
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    Feb 22, 2017 9:20 PM GMT
    bro4bro said^ OK cupcake, why don't you go with him?

    I'm sure you could "educate and enlighten" the people over there just as you do here.


    He should start with the ISIS/DAESH army . They need the most educating on this subject. Maybe we could take up a collection to buy his fare through Turkey into Mosul.
  • calime61

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    Feb 22, 2017 9:24 PM GMT
    Try me, I may move to Saudi arabia so I can save money and escape everything and live my sexuality and my life like I wanted to be
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    Feb 22, 2017 9:25 PM GMT
    Unzipped1 said
    Puppenjunge said
    Unzipped1 saidI would say return to your home country and fight the hatred openly. You will feel so much more honor in fighting your oppressors than running away.

    Go home and make us all proud.


    The most idiotic post you have written on this site (and they include a lot of crap). The writings of a disgusting Ahole. Telling the OP he should go home and be killed. Why don't you offer to send him a burial shroud to take with him - you could have it adorned with pink triangles and pretty stars.

    The OP should start a new life, move on, and do his best to forget his family. He is dead to them, so they are no longer family. Maybe see a therapist if thoughts are too depressing.



    One should never turn their back on their native land. Why would he be killed for standing up for his rights and existence in his homeland.

    The natives of the US fought to defend their home and land, and even though they may have lost, their heritage was not destroyed. So if the op wants to be truly free and happy, he must face the hatred and take it on full force, so that others may follow suit, and defend their rights as well.



    Now you're living up to your name, Unhinged. How long has it been since they discharged you from the mental hospital? Sounds like you could do with more treatment.
  • calime61

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    Feb 22, 2017 9:34 PM GMT
    Unzipped1 saidI would say return to your home country and fight the hatred openly. You will feel so much more honor in fighting your oppressors than running away.

    Go home and make us all proud.

    He will be dead before you even realise you made this comment
    you have no ideas what people are into in the middle east, this is not Israel neither leabanon which are seen as the most tolerant states in the middle east
    this is Saudi arabia, it's like most of the americans are jews and ultra orthodox jews (have nothing against the jews) in american has implemented jewish religious law so every one is afraid.
  • Suetonius

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    Feb 22, 2017 10:55 PM GMT
    Unzipped1 said
    calime61 said
    Unzipped1 saidI would say return to your home country and fight the hatred openly. You will feel so much more honor in fighting your oppressors than running away.

    Go home and make us all proud.

    He will be dead before you even realise you made this comment
    you have no ideas what people are into in the middle east, this is not Israel neither leabanon which are seen as the most tolerant states in the middle east
    this is Saudi arabia, it's like most of the americans are jews and ultra orthodox jews (have nothing against the jews) in american has implemented jewish religious law so every one is afraid.


    Fear is what is holding many back. Sometimes you just have to take a chance. You may never know the outcome if you never try.

    I am sure there are people in Saudi Arabia who would listen with an open heart and mind.


    Gawd - yet another crazy guy to put on ignore.
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    Feb 22, 2017 11:07 PM GMT
    ArabianDude said

    Unzipped1 said
    Puppenjunge said
    Unzipped1 saidI would say return to your home country and fight the hatred openly. You will feel so much more honor in fighting your oppressors than running away.

    Go home and make us all proud.


    The most idiotic post you have written on this site (and they include a lot of crap). The writings of a disgusting Ahole. Telling the OP he should go home and be killed. Why don't you offer to send him a burial shroud to take with him - you could have it adorned with pink triangles and pretty stars.

    The OP should start a new life, move on, and do his best to forget his family. He is dead to them, so they are no longer family. Maybe see a therapist if thoughts are too depressing.


    One should never turn their back on their native land. Why would he be killed for standing up for his rights and existence in his homeland.

    The natives of the US fought to defend their home and land, and even though they may have lost, their heritage was not destroyed. So if the op wants to be truly free and happy, he must face the hatred and take it on full force, so that others may follow suit, and defend their rights as well.


    man were talking about saudi arabia google it and read if there are any gay rights over there u it will direct towards the death sentence its a religious thing man over there



    Take my advice.....IGNORE and BLOCK that crazy fucker. He is mentally ill and will say anything for attention (even negative attention.)
  • calime61

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    Feb 23, 2017 4:13 PM GMT
    Unzipped1 said
    calime61 said
    Unzipped1 saidI would say return to your home country and fight the hatred openly. You will feel so much more honor in fighting your oppressors than running away.

    Go home and make us all proud.

    He will be dead before you even realise you made this comment
    you have no ideas what people are into in the middle east, this is not Israel neither leabanon which are seen as the most tolerant states in the middle east
    this is Saudi arabia, it's like most of the americans are jews and ultra orthodox jews (have nothing against the jews) in american has implemented jewish religious law so every one is afraid.


    Fear is what is holding many back. Sometimes you just have to take a chance. You may never know the outcome if you never try.

    I am sure there are people in Saudi Arabia who would listen with an open heart and mind.

    I agree that people need to step up so they make a change but it's homosexuality is the least thing people and government in saudi arabia may tolerate, it's up for the saudis to make a move to a democrtatic changment so they make a space to gays to speak up.
    Each country has its own ideology and you can not make the same movement with the same way toward democracy in all countries, you need to move depending on their envirmnent
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    Feb 23, 2017 11:22 PM GMT
    Unzipped1 said
    calime61 said
    Unzipped1 said
    calime61 said
    Unzipped1 saidI would say return to your home country and fight the hatred openly. You will feel so much more honor in fighting your oppressors than running away.

    Go home and make us all proud.

    He will be dead before you even realise you made this comment
    you have no ideas what people are into in the middle east, this is not Israel neither leabanon which are seen as the most tolerant states in the middle east
    this is Saudi arabia, it's like most of the americans are jews and ultra orthodox jews (have nothing against the jews) in american has implemented jewish religious law so every one is afraid.


    Fear is what is holding many back. Sometimes you just have to take a chance. You may never know the outcome if you never try.

    I am sure there are people in Saudi Arabia who would listen with an open heart and mind.

    I agree that people need to step up so they make a change but it's homosexuality is the least thing people and government in saudi arabia may tolerate, it's up for the saudis to make a move to a democrtatic changment so they make a space to gays to speak up.
    Each country has its own ideology and you can not make the same movement with the same way toward democracy in all countries, you need to move depending on their envirmnent


    Well hopefully one day they will make strides to becoming more democratic and a more free thinking society as a whole.

    But I hope they don't pattern their democracy after the US because it seems that the US democracy is highly flawed and needs a overhaul and reconstruction of its on.

    I just feel that deep down that if indiviuals within the Middle East don't start taking drastic indiviual stands then nothing will ever start the flame of change.

    The biblical tale of Esther is a prime example of how one person can create change. She did it by hiding who she was and once she earned the trust of a nation, she revealed true herself. I know that that there are closeted gay leaders in every country and it just takes one who wins the trust of many to change things.



    Why don't you go over there and show us how it's done? Be sure and have someone take videos of you in the process.
  • ClassicDbn

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    Feb 26, 2017 6:42 PM GMT
    Unzipped1 said
    ArabianDude said

    Unzipped1 said
    Puppenjunge said
    Unzipped1 saidI would say return to your home country and fight the hatred openly. You will feel so much more honor in fighting your oppressors than running away.

    Go home and make us all proud.


    The most idiotic post you have written on this site (and they include a lot of crap). The writings of a disgusting Ahole. Telling the OP he should go home and be killed. Why don't you offer to send him a burial shroud to take with him - you could have it adorned with pink triangles and pretty stars.

    The OP should start a new life, move on, and do his best to forget his family. He is dead to them, so they are no longer family. Maybe see a therapist if thoughts are too depressing.


    One should never turn their back on their native land. Why would he be killed for standing up for his rights and existence in his homeland.

    The natives of the US fought to defend their home and land, and even though they may have lost, their heritage was not destroyed. So if the op wants to be truly free and happy, he must face the hatred and take it on full force, so that others may follow suit, and defend their rights as well.


    man were talking about saudi arabia google it and read if there are any gay rights over there u it will direct towards the death sentence its a religious thing man over there


    I understand this. I just feel that nothing will ever change if someone doesn't step up and make the first move in changing things. No fight was ever won, if it had never begun.


    Perhaps you should go over there and make a stand?
  • Suetonius

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    Feb 26, 2017 7:08 PM GMT
    ClassicDbn said
    Unzipped1 said
    ArabianDude said

    Unzipped1 said
    Puppenjunge said
    Unzipped1 saidI would say return to your home country and fight the hatred openly. You will feel so much more honor in fighting your oppressors than running away.

    Go home and make us all proud.


    The most idiotic post you have written on this site (and they include a lot of crap). The writings of a disgusting Ahole. Telling the OP he should go home and be killed. Why don't you offer to send him a burial shroud to take with him - you could have it adorned with pink triangles and pretty stars.

    The OP should start a new life, move on, and do his best to forget his family. He is dead to them, so they are no longer family. Maybe see a therapist if thoughts are too depressing.


    One should never turn their back on their native land. Why would he be killed for standing up for his rights and existence in his homeland.

    The natives of the US fought to defend their home and land, and even though they may have lost, their heritage was not destroyed. So if the op wants to be truly free and happy, he must face the hatred and take it on full force, so that others may follow suit, and defend their rights as well.


    man were talking about saudi arabia google it and read if there are any gay rights over there u it will direct towards the death sentence its a religious thing man over there


    I understand this. I just feel that nothing will ever change if someone doesn't step up and make the first move in changing things. No fight was ever won, if it had never begun.


    Perhaps you should go over there and make a stand?


    It seems he couldn't go there, because he is an internet troll without any physical form.