Feb 21, 2009 7:20 PM GMT
Did you ever express your feelings to someone....or was upset.......and that person said that you were being "dramatic"? Even if you are being calm and intelligent with your concerns, they still say it.
Yeah..there are people who go overboard.......but...........
I'm conviinced that when someone says you are being dramatic, it is simply a code word for saying................
"I don't want to talk about it"
"It's all in your head"
and they can't deal with real emotions.
Not only are they dismissing your concerns, and saying that your emotions and feelings are not appreciated. or valid, but also they are discouraging further displays of feelings and communication.
And they are telling you that you are a nag, or insecure.
I say......press the buttons. Ask questions. Get your answers. If a person cares about you, they will answer you. If he/she tell you that you "think too much", then say......."well....you think too little".
Yeah..there are people who go overboard.......but...........
I'm conviinced that when someone says you are being dramatic, it is simply a code word for saying................
"I don't want to talk about it"
"It's all in your head"
and they can't deal with real emotions.
Not only are they dismissing your concerns, and saying that your emotions and feelings are not appreciated. or valid, but also they are discouraging further displays of feelings and communication.
And they are telling you that you are a nag, or insecure.
I say......press the buttons. Ask questions. Get your answers. If a person cares about you, they will answer you. If he/she tell you that you "think too much", then say......."well....you think too little".