Feb 26, 2009 3:21 PM GMT
This is related to the thread I post earlier "Gay domestic violence". If you are in a relationship, where do you draw the line between loving somebody and taking control of somebody life. I suppose if you are in a relationship with someone it just natural for you to share you life with them. However it is your right to determined how you other half spend his money, his checkbook transaction and how he spend his times .
I for one, need my own space and sometimes have a need to be alone. I prefer to travel alone and sometimes sleep alone. One of the reason I broke up with my ex is because I insist to have my own space and times alone. He dont appreciated it when I go shopping by myself, travel alone and the have fact I insist we split expenses between us. He latter on find another fellow , who willing to do that and leave me. Is he being to possesive or I am being to selfish?
I for one, need my own space and sometimes have a need to be alone. I prefer to travel alone and sometimes sleep alone. One of the reason I broke up with my ex is because I insist to have my own space and times alone. He dont appreciated it when I go shopping by myself, travel alone and the have fact I insist we split expenses between us. He latter on find another fellow , who willing to do that and leave me. Is he being to possesive or I am being to selfish?