Art_Deco said..........In his shower I found this strange hosed device, attached to the shower head. It ended in a thin 6-inch wand with multiple holes for the water. I naively wondered what it was for. Finally it dawned on me - DUH! A water douche! Making me suspect my host was a power bottom. Anyone who douched with that thing was just using tap water, no solutions at all.
Needless to say I wrangled to get into bed with him, rather than use his guest bedroom. And no real surprise, he turned out to be the best bottom I've ever had in my life. He seemed well-acclimated to douching with shower water alone. To paraphrase: "By their toys ye shall know them."
Please pardon me for going slightly off topic, but man YOU were in a great place at a great time
seeing such a great hint (the hosed device
) about what turned out to be a great night with a great guy!
I wish I were that keen and lucky
whenever I was in limbo trying to guess if a guy whom I admire is "playful".
And now, Back on topic... I've been douching "regularly" (at least 2x per week) for the past 30 years, just taking 2 or 3
gentle squirts of water up my ass while showering.
During the 30 year span I've been a lot less sexually active, by choice; but even so, I haven't experienced
any health problems from douching.
Fast forward to the summer of 2013, I met an older top guy thru A4A and I've been his regular bareback bottom since then.
I visit him once every couple years or so, and we're fine with that arrangement. Whenever I visit him I take a few days prior
to prepare myself by douching no more than 4x per day while I'm in the shower.
And on the day prior to meeting him I douche, and then I fast for 24hrs or until after I have visited him.
For as long as he and I have known each other I prefer to give him the full on 100% access to my body as he would like to enjoy,
and then I finish him off with a lubed handjob.
I'm not into frequent hookups, therefore whenever I happen to meet other guys for NSA fun I prefer to just JO and frot with them.
I don't practice anal sex by normal frequency standards, only when I want it (and I rarely want it) and I have my regular top guy for it.
But, knock on wood, now that I'm in my mid 50s I should do more research about douching and pay careful attention to
how I douche so that I do not encounter any health problems.
I enjoy the clean feeling I get from douching. My body feels like a dead weight was lifted from me, and I feel stress-free after I douche.
I douche to enjoy the benefits of cleanliness rather than just "for the fk of it". lol