Avg. Guy date a muscle guy?

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    Dec 23, 2018 5:09 AM GMT
    Is it possible for an average guy to date a bodybuilder? Are the guys like that who are more open minded? I like muscle guys and wonder if there are any sweet ones out there to date
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    Dec 23, 2018 6:27 AM GMT
    This just never gets old! icon_lol.gif
  • vanquishedang...

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    Dec 23, 2018 8:40 AM GMT
    Yes and no. I am open but I really want someone with the same interests as me. If you want to date a muscled guy then you need to put in the work. The reason is, they are often muscled because they are into muscles. Also because of that, they find those of common interest and they work out together.

    Generally, if one is muscled and dates a non-muscled, he usually does not stay muscled because he gets pulled from his focus on his body to do other things in the relationship.

    That said before I got heavy into my workouts I did date a bodybuilder, but as many are, he was arrogant and it did not last long, he was hot though.

    If you want to date a guy that puts work into himself, you need to put work into your self.
  • Fairyland

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    Dec 23, 2018 2:44 PM GMT
    Depends on what you have to bring to the table. In your case, if you want to date someone out of your league, then you got to have one thing: MONEY!'


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  • bro4bro

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    Dec 23, 2018 4:06 PM GMT
    Is it possible? Yes.

    Is it likely? Dream on.

    For an explanation, see this:

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Little_Red_Hen

    The Little Red Hen is an old folk tale of the fable type. The story is applied in teaching children the virtues of work ethic and personal initiative.

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    Dec 23, 2018 10:31 PM GMT
    I used to be a "twink" (I honestly find that word unapealing) and I sometimes got attention from hella build men. So I think they are most likely going to be into a guy like themselves bodywise, or the opposite. Yeah, it will just be very rare for a body builder to be into an average guy, unless you're just at the right place at the right time to be able to show a side of yourself that he might fall in love with.
  • Element1313

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    Dec 24, 2018 3:01 AM GMT
    In the “it’s not my fault” era attitudes like this are promoted. You are not likely to get along with a guy that knows that fitness is a life style decision not something that just happens.
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    Jan 05, 2019 9:43 AM GMT
    Yes it is possible and I’m one of those average guys. BUT - I will admit that my situation was a rare occurrence and doesn’t happen as frequent as one would hope.

    Oh, and that bodybuilder I dated, it lasted two weeks. He had a lot of emotional issues. But the sex was awesome! icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 11, 2019 11:39 AM GMT
    Erik101 saidYes it is possible and I’m one of those average guys. BUT - I will admit that my situation was a rare occurrence and doesn’t happen as frequent as one would hope.

    Oh, and that bodybuilder I dated, it lasted two weeks. He had a lot of emotional issues. But the sex was awesome! icon_wink.gif

    Lucky you! Whatever guy I find who falls into such categories always turn out to be average to bad in sex. Most of the time it's "average" guys with whom I had the best sex. My theory is the best looking guys with good bodies don't need to put much effort because they already attract so many guys.
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    Jan 13, 2019 7:20 PM GMT
    Queerdenker saidMy theory is the best looking guys with good bodies don't need to put much effort because they already attract so many guys.


    I don't put much effort when I slum.
  • Slickdog21

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    Jan 13, 2019 7:48 PM GMT
    cyborg said
    Queerdenker saidMy theory is the best looking guys with good bodies don't need to put much effort because they already attract so many guys.


    I don't put much effort when I slum.


    +1

    Why work hard to impress somebody who's already impressed by you being out of their league?
    Lolz.
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    Jan 21, 2019 1:01 PM GMT
    cyborg said
    Queerdenker saidMy theory is the best looking guys with good bodies don't need to put much effort because they already attract so many guys.


    I don't put much effort when I slum.

    Yeah, I got that much! If the point of having sex is only to stroke your ego, then sure, go ahead.
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    Jan 21, 2019 2:05 PM GMT
    Queerdenker said
    Yeah, I got that much! If the point of having sex is only to stroke your ego, then sure, go ahead.


    EVERYBODY performs worse when they have sex with someone they’re not that into. You would know that if you had anyone to slum with.
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    Jan 21, 2019 8:10 PM GMT
    cyborg said
    Queerdenker said
    Yeah, I got that much! If the point of having sex is only to stroke your ego, then sure, go ahead.


    EVERYBODY performs worse when they have sex with someone they’re not that into. You would know that if you had anyone to slum with.

    I try my best to not hook up just for the sex of getting off. If I find that I am not that into some guy, I will most probably tell the guy, irrespective of whether that guys things I am a jerk or not. It's the same while dating.
    I do appreciate same from other people. I think I am past that age where I would just have sex with someone just for the sake of it. Actually, even when I was bit younger, sex wasn't just about ejaculating.
  • catman112

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    Jan 21, 2019 8:49 PM GMT
    Queerdenker said
    cyborg said
    Queerdenker said
    Yeah, I got that much! If the point of having sex is only to stroke your ego, then sure, go ahead.


    EVERYBODY performs worse when they have sex with someone they’re not that into. You would know that if you had anyone to slum with.

    I try my best to not hook up just for the sex of getting off. If I find that I am not that into some guy, I will most probably tell the guy, irrespective of whether that guys things I am a jerk or not. It's the same while dating.
    I do appreciate same from other people. I think I am past that age where I would just have sex with someone just for the sake of it. Actually, even when I was bit younger, sex wasn't just about ejaculating.



    You are right,
  • JDuderrr

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    Feb 01, 2019 11:55 AM GMT
    If you want a muscle guy, take an interest in getting a good gym workout, become a regular and put in an earnest effort. I'm a hard-gainer ectomorph, don't have a whole lot to show for all my work and effort over the many years but I get an easy, natural recognition, respect and friendship from every muscle guy in there. Likewise, I feel the same way about every man who's in there because he aspires to be more than he is right now, and that's regardless of his current build. A muscle guy is gonna' admire any man who's set himself on the journey. It's actually not so much about the destination. If you don't understand his sweat and drive and ambition in the gym through your own experience there and you just wanna' hump on the result, a successful relationship is a lot less likely.