Daddies and their Boys

  • YborDad

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    Feb 08, 2019 12:12 PM GMT
    After being in a 30 year relationship with my husband, who was 15 years older, after he passed in 2017 I suddenly found myself as a "Daddy". My first two boyfriends were in their 20's. Since then I have raised the bar a bit. But, I was basically submissive to my husband, and now I am more dominant to all guys I meet, including my current boyfriend. However, I dabble back to the occasional 21 year old because their cocks are so damn hard, and they so want their Daddy's cock. I am 56yo with a really good build, and have enjoyed the younger men immensely. How many of you guys have experienced these role reversals? It took me a while to handle it, but I am becoming quite the dom now.
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    Feb 08, 2019 9:02 PM GMT
    I've been with my fiancé for almost half my life, and if he was to pass before me. I'd never date again.
    I certainly don't need a boyfriend for validation.
  • TombRaider

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    Feb 09, 2019 2:28 AM GMT
    two_meninlove saidI've been with my fiancé for almost half my life, and if he was to pass before me. I'd never date again.
    I certainly don't need a boyfriend for validation.



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    Feb 09, 2019 8:13 AM GMT
    TombRaider said
    two_meninlove saidI've been with my fiancé for almost half my life, and if he was to pass before me. I'd never date again.
    I certainly don't need a boyfriend for validation.



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    How can you possibly know what you would want 30 years in the future, if you were suddenly single again?

    As for me, if I were widowed around 60, I might not want another relationship, but I might enjoy hard sex with an occasional young man.
  • splooje

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    Feb 09, 2019 8:37 AM GMT
    ^^Well you better save up lots of $$$ then icon_lol.gif
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    Feb 09, 2019 2:13 PM GMT
    ^^ Well, for the elderly, occasional spurts of generosity can be admirable.icon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    Feb 09, 2019 10:45 PM GMT
    Puppenjunge said
    TombRaider said
    two_meninlove saidI've been with my fiancé for almost half my life, and if he was to pass before me. I'd never date again.
    I certainly don't need a boyfriend for validation.



    <3


    How can you possibly know what you would want 30 years in the future, if you were suddenly single again?

    As for me, if I were widowed around 60, I might not want another relationship, but I might enjoy hard sex with an occasional young man.

    Two different things.

    But I had an amazing sex life before this relationship, and feel absolutely contented in life, I've no need to relive my youth. Or need a boyfriend for validation, as others seem to do. Also there's something creepy about 60+ year old men still doing gay bars and clubs, and I'm a virgin when it come to, online hook-ups.
    Thus I'm confident If I found myself a widow, I wouldn't be seeking a younger, or older boyfriend.
  • wild_sky360

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    Feb 10, 2019 6:43 AM GMT
    I'm not discouraging you at all, enjoy, but be prepared for heartache if you aggressively pursue younger guys. What you had with your man was a unique relationship and I'm sorry for your loss. Instead of trying to recreate a very intimate dynamic that existed between just you two, just treasure it in your memory. It is a rare thing to keep in your own heart. I speak from experience. Be a friend and mentor to the young men who are attracted to you. Maybe one could be the you in that relationship, but don't lay that on them. They're mostly just exploring. Celebrate and enjoy that if it's mutual. I do. Open to more, but with skeptical caution.
  • jocked_and_lo...

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    Feb 11, 2019 1:37 AM GMT
    OP makes the claim that he's fifty-six but in his profile it says he's fifty-two.

    What is up with that?

    I am in agreement with two_meninlove. I've only been in a relationship for five years. My partner is sixteen years older than I am. If he were to pass before me I don't think I would pursue another relationship. I'm blessed to have had one solid relationship in my life.

    Even in my late forties I am not interested in guys half my age. They hit me up on apps that I use all the time. Some as young as eighteen. icon_rolleyes.gif

    I don't even like watching porn with young twenty-one year old college types. I'm sexually attracted to men in their forties and up.

  • jnick91776

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    Feb 12, 2019 8:55 AM GMT
    Can someone explain to me what is a daddy / son relationship
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    Feb 12, 2019 8:58 AM GMT
    Fagnetic_Spermeability saidOP makes the claim that he's fifty-six but in his profile it says he's fifty-two.

    What is up with that?

    I am in agreement with two_meninlove. I've only been in a relationship for five years. My partner is sixteen years older than I am. If he were to pass before me I don't think I would pursue another relationship. I'm blessed to have had one solid relationship in my life.

    Even in my late forties I am not interested in guys half my age. They hit me up on apps that I use all the time. Some as young as eighteen. icon_rolleyes.gif

    I don't even like watching porn with young twenty-one year old college types. I'm sexually attracted to men in their forties and up.



    I get a strong sense, your relationship will grow, as mine has.
    By the time I was Thirty, I'd given up on taking young pretty boys seriously.
    Yep< I was one of those guys who just about always, took home the best looking, in the bar or club.
    Thus also attracting contempt from those who's spotted them before I'd arrived at the club/bar, and as soon as they seen me without a shirt, it was game over.
    That was until I had a few year break from dating, and all things gay. Due to going bush and Woking as a lumber jack, while I healed from what I seen and survived living though the Gay Plague Era, to heal.
    During this time of healing, my priorities changed, and weeks before I moved back to the city, the man who's been by my side for almost 30 years, walked into my life, and never left, or went back to America to live. No I'll never date again!
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    Apr 03, 2019 8:10 PM GMT
    gsytch saidAfter being in a 30 year relationship with my husband, who was 15 years older, after he passed in 2017 I suddenly found myself as a "Daddy". My first two boyfriends were in their 20's. Since then I have raised the bar a bit. But, I was basically submissive to my husband, and now I am more dominant to all guys I meet, including my current boyfriend. However, I dabble back to the occasional 21 year old because their cocks are so damn hard, and they so want their Daddy's cock. I am 56yo with a really good build, and have enjoyed the younger men immensely. How many of you guys have experienced these role reversals? It took me a while to handle it, but I am becoming quite the dom now.


    I love older men and date with older men i think they have something what i can't find in younger
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    Apr 08, 2019 6:39 AM GMT
    Thanks to Facebook feed, there is now at least one daddy I would do - this 22 year old father of a 6 year old lol:

    Cole Labrant
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