Moaning is on my top ten list of turn ons. I make a lot of noise and I want to know if the other guy is enjoying it. Talking dirty is hot, just don't be dumb about it. Say it feels good or hot or tight or whatever. Say things like that is right, cuss, and yelling out what to do like; don't stop or grab this or grab that or shove it here or there. Because let's face it, how are we going to know what to do if your not telling us?
You can have the whole sit down conversation and that is actually kind of hot, but sometimes, many times actually there isn't really time for that. I love it when a guy says do this and I do it and he moans and body tenses up and his facial expressions are so hot and you can tell he's in to it. Your man should be lost in it if your doing it right and if he's not, yeah use "amatuer" porn and sites like this to ask other people. One thing I do that helps is kegle, strengthen that muscle up and then when he is in you hold his dick tight. If feels amazing for you and then to him you feel so tight he can't stand it.