Mar 05, 2009 3:22 AM GMT
I travel a lot and when I am out of town i often think about random hook ups. When I am home I am mostly against the idea. Anyone else have the same issue? Do you go for it when out of town?
Whats up with an interest in random hook ups when out of town, but grossed out by it when you are home?
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Mar 05, 2009 3:35 AM GMTCause all 80% gay people care about is sex and don't care how they get it
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Mar 05, 2009 3:57 AM GMTno chance of fatal attraction on the road....
its gross regardless. -
Mar 05, 2009 4:03 AM GMTcause it's cool to do a local when you're not. . . but when you're at home it's just a bunch of other townies who you have no interest in. . . there's no exotic appeal. -
Mar 05, 2009 4:05 AM GMTCause sluts run out of new guys at some point.
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Mar 05, 2009 4:07 AM GMTWell call me a slut
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Mar 05, 2009 4:54 AM GMTEver heard the phrase, "Don't shit where you eat?"
Some don't want their family and friends to think they're the big ol' sluts that they really are. -
Mar 05, 2009 5:06 AM GMTNot that I hook up out of town often - please, it could be more often.
But, I have the perspective that I'm looking for someone to be a partner and there are guys out there who want the same thing. When you are out-of-town its less likely that you are planning to connect with your future steady date - so these guys are just for fun.
Also, towns are small, even when they are big. If you sleep around, its not long before everyone in your target demographic has slept with you or knows someone who has.
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Mar 05, 2009 6:22 AM GMTWell I don't get out of town much and I have not hooked up when out of town, but if I had to venture a guess, I would say its the oldest thing in the book, a biologically rooted desire to conquer fresh fish and spread your seed to new territories. Nothing like conquering new ground. -
Mar 05, 2009 6:34 AM GMTRandom hook ups freak me out period. At home it's because everyone's slept with everyone else so you pretty much know where they've all been. That's scary. Out of town it's the fact that I don't know where they've been that worries me. -
Mar 05, 2009 6:41 AM GMTfresh meat that is funny guy
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Mar 05, 2009 6:49 AM GMTI once read an article that said the average married man when on a business trip goes to the airport store on the way to the plane and buys porn, and thinks about cheating, and does or does not, it was a big percentage, I did not believe it, but I used to manage luxury 5 star hotels and noticed over the years the enormous amount of porn that the housekeepers brought out of the rooms at checkout. The housekeeping managers would also find many of these rooms with condoms booze and such. THen I travel frequently , and I always buy a wall street to read on the plane and I am a people watcher , a I have noticed many a man in all airports , good looking, clean cut men, buying porn, so then I would have to agree with the high percentages that do, buy porn at least, but then what explains all the condoms in the rooms as well??? food for thought
now back to the issue at hand, I have the same thought about hook ups as you, and the idea sounds adventurous until you start the process and then say what am I doing. I think I would rather hook up with a hot stranger on the street, well that you bumped into on the street i should say or in the lobby, at least you have seen each other for a moment or two and that says a lot more than a pic profile. -
Mar 05, 2009 6:51 AM GMTwell i did not even think of the hootchie slut thing, probably because I do not go out in the city i live in , do not like the local scene, but I think we all think that the grass is greener sort of thing, as the other guy said , fresh meat, but then we all know the grass is never greener and the meat usually aint fresh, but still could be tasty, lol, -
Mar 05, 2009 7:32 AM GMTwootwoot saidcause it's cool to do a local when you're not. . . but when you're at home it's just a bunch of other townies who you have no interest in. . . there's no exotic appeal.
TITCR!
Plus, no strings attached..its just casual. You come, you go. But when its local, chances of future awkward encounters are high.
And no one wants to be labeled the neihgborhood slut, -
Mar 05, 2009 7:43 AM GMTHypocrisy is what I write it off to. Plus in your hometown you don't want the reputation of being a manhole to come back to bite you in the ass -
Mar 05, 2009 8:00 AM GMTauryn beat me to it: don't shit where you eat. -
Mar 05, 2009 1:00 PM GMTMy friends and I have 2 rules.
Don't sleep with Airline Personnel, i.e. flight attendants, pilots.
Don't piss in your own pond. -
Mar 05, 2009 1:12 PM GMTAnother consideration: When you're at home, you have lots of other things to take up your time. When you're on the road, you often have spare time in the evenings. -
Mar 05, 2009 2:02 PM GMTscottycdn saidno chance of fatal attraction on the road....
its gross regardless.
Years ago there was shy and not totally attractive fellow whom I knew slightly from the bars. Out on a business trip, he took a fellow back to his hotel room and the guy strangled him to death with the phone cord (that's how long ago this was). Poor Charlie. I felt so bad. Probably that psychopath showed him some attention that he rarely got which made him easy prey. -
Mar 05, 2009 2:16 PM GMTwhat about sex on a first date? -
Mar 05, 2009 2:20 PM GMTwootwoot saidcause it's cool to do a local when you're not. . . but when you're at home it's just a bunch of other townies who you have no interest in. . . there's no exotic appeal.
yes sensai. -
Mar 05, 2009 2:25 PM GMTcuz at home if you do hook-ups, the word will get around that you are just a whore that everybody has had. -
Mar 05, 2009 5:49 PM GMTIt's called tasting the local flavor...
Nah, I wouldn't get why hook up outta twn is enjoyable, but in town is deplorable? Perhaps your just tired of the same ol' same ol' you come across in your city?
But hey thanks for spreadin the love, mate
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Mar 05, 2009 5:50 PM GMTcharlitos saidwhat about sex on a first date?
uh... better to ask - sex again and a second date? -
Mar 05, 2009 6:21 PM GMTA whore is a whore is a whore no matter where you are. What's so wrong with that?
