Asking someone to wrestle

  • WrestleGuyB

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    May 25, 2019 2:07 PM GMT
    Have you ever asked someone you meet to wrestle? Did you get your wrestling match?
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    May 26, 2019 3:56 AM GMT
    Ya..Ive wrestled meet ups several times..I talk to them over a month or so to insure they're not bat shit crazy...
  • WrestleGuyB

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    May 26, 2019 7:57 AM GMT
    I was meaning a guy you meet in person. Somebody you’ve sized-up as a likely competitor. Maybe your out running errands or at a park, bar wherever... you ask the guy if he would like to wrestle sometime. I find the sites are not great. I’ve been trying a more direct approach to seeking out wrestling matches. Anyone else tried it and had luck?
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    May 26, 2019 12:37 PM GMT
    Have thought about it in those situations many times, but if it's a guy you don't know at all that would be an awkward conversation.
  • WrestleGuyB

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    May 26, 2019 7:43 PM GMT
    Why is it awkward to bring up wrestling? If you’re talking to someone you’ve met, it wouldn’t be strange to see if the guy would like to play tennis, go for a run or shoot some hoops. I think it’s fine to ask a guy if he plays sports and if he might want to wrestle sometime. The wrestling web sites are not that great for picking up wrestling matches as promised. I’m not ashamed that I wrestle for exercise and competition. I sometimes wear a wrestling t-shirt and many times men will ask if I’m a wrestling fan. That can lead to great conversation that are perfect to see if the guy might want to wrestle. Anyone else tried this method for wrestling matches?
  • txwresl

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    Jun 05, 2019 2:16 PM GMT
    I have gotten into conversations in the gym locker room and asked if the other guy played any sports, then he would ask me and I would talk wrestling...couple times got me a match and friendship. I also wear a wrestling t shirt at gym some days and got a few comments intially.

    Good luck!
  • LatinFighter

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    Nov 24, 2019 3:05 PM GMT
    I’ve had a couple of men come up to me at the gym years back. Out of the blue they asked me if I was a wrestler? When I asked why they both said I looked like one. LOL. The conversation went on.from there, and I met them at their place for matches. It was fun. Something unexpected.

  • Nov 28, 2019 2:33 AM GMT
    people pretty much know I wrestle competitively. They tend to just ask the usual questions about it being gay or a turn on. Usually is a discussion I have with them on the various apps or sites. It never really gets to the meetup stage so it isn't an issue for me. But dont be afraid to talk about it if it is something u want to explore. People talk about bottoming and topping within the first 2 seconds so it really isn't that crazy.
  • Buddyguy

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    May 08, 2020 11:32 AM GMT
    Usually just talking about sports of favorite Olympic game, sometimes just happens spontaneously icon_smile.gif