Bottoming, how/when got into it?

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    Nov 05, 2019 10:12 AM GMT
    Hi guys,

    For the bottoms (or versatiles) here: when did you know for sure you were into bottoming? Did you only enjoy it after some (many?) tries? Or was it fun from the first time (once past initial discomfort or unease)?

    Myself, have a versatile psychology of sorts. I'm aroused also by the idea of being fucked, apart from enjoying being top much, and the touch of a penis to my anus and the entering is hot, but then once in me I feel basically nothing and get the idea 'get over with it' :-/
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    Nov 05, 2019 11:58 AM GMT
    Hmm.. thought I was gonna forever be a top when I got started... I was topping girls... topped a few guys... was BIG into giving and getting head...

    ... all up until I met the first vers top that I let convince me to btm the first time when I was 20. He was great... not too big nor too small... and knew enough about breaking virgins to go slow and do it right. it was amazing.

    2nd guy i btm'd for, tho, was a jackass and topped JUST to hurt. I got a tear, and swore for years that i'd never btm again... until i found another right guy and it went great. I've been way more discerning since, and never had a bad experience.
  • Jeepguy2

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    Nov 09, 2019 5:33 PM GMT
    When a urologist I had to go to at age 17 due to kidney problems shoved his finger up my ass to give me a prostate exam.
  • Johnnypop49

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    Nov 28, 2019 9:03 AM GMT
    I mostly top and I’m a bit envious of bottoms, how they take a cock and get pure joy from it. Like you, I like the look and feel of a cock around my hole but once it goes in its never as good as the fantasy of bottoming. I basically can’t take a pounding like some guys and I’ve never felt pure joy like I’ve seen on faces when I’m topping someone. Makes me ask, is it worth all the prepping and what’s the secret. I do want to be a better bottom. Ill keep trying, hoping a man can find that secret spot of joy I know is inside me. Keeping hope alive!!!
  • DY10169

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    Dec 08, 2019 9:52 AM GMT
    I remember always being curious and using toys b4 I ever really bottom. So my 1st time felt amazing and when I cam well being dick down it was the best! From then on I knew I was a true bottom! It's the only way I true get off!
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    Dec 08, 2019 3:49 PM GMT
    I think bottoms have an urge to be fucked as much as we have to fuck. They're already half way there knowing they're about to be fucked. Also what were your tops like? Did they poke at you for a while or did they fuck you? And how much attention did they give to the rest of your body when they were fucking you. Sexual pleauser is mental, you just feel it physically. Some of us like the idea of being fucked but we are completely incapable of being brought down to that level by another man so the sexual pleasure ( that rush you feel ) never happens.
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    Dec 11, 2019 8:39 AM GMT
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    Mkay90 saidI think bottoms have an urge to be fucked as much as we have to fuck. They're already half way there knowing they're about to be fucked. Also what were your tops like? Did they poke at you for a while or did they fuck you? And how much attention did they give to the rest of your body when they were fucking you. Sexual pleauser is mental, you just feel it physically. Some of us like the idea of being fucked but we are completely incapable of being brought down to that level by another man so the sexual pleasure ( that rush you feel ) never happens.
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    Dec 11, 2019 8:19 PM GMT
    Mkay90 saidI think bottoms have an urge to be fucked as much as we have to fuck. They're already half way there knowing they're about to be fucked. Also what were your tops like? Did they poke at you for a while or did they fuck you? And how much attention did they give to the rest of your body when they were fucking you. Sexual pleauser is mental, you just feel it physically. Some of us like the idea of being fucked but we are completely incapable of being brought down to that level by another man so the sexual pleasure ( that rush you feel ) never happens.

    So for me it eliminates the need to perform, so guess that's part of being a bottom. Best fuckbuddy got right to it, but he did use toys on me, vibrator, dildo, etc. Also knew I loved my nuts getting manhandled. I get what you're saying about the thought of it. Sometimes the idea of being the object of desire is as much of a turn on as getting fucked. I mean, there's your dick and balls just hanging there while the other guy takes you. MMMMMM
  • Bubblebum4Fun

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    Dec 17, 2019 3:37 AM GMT
    Johnnypop49 saidI mostly top and I’m a bit envious of bottoms, how they take a cock and get pure joy from it. Like you, I like the look and feel of a cock around my hole but once it goes in its never as good as the fantasy of bottoming. I basically can’t take a pounding like some guys and I’ve never felt pure joy like I’ve seen on faces when I’m topping someone. Makes me ask, is it worth all the prepping and what’s the secret. I do want to be a better bottom. Ill keep trying, hoping a man can find that secret spot of joy I know is inside me. Keeping hope alive!!!


    its all in the mindset! yes the foreplay is amazing but as a bottom id say the most satisfying part is when my top is inside me and i get to see the pleasure i am giving him by his facial expressions!
  • seductive

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    Dec 25, 2019 10:14 AM GMT
    It would take me forever to get into "how" I got into bottoming, but I was very young and the moment I felt a tongue attacking my ass, I knew right then, I would be submissive. My first time, I got lucky and had a gentle man that was much much older than me. It took a few weeks of prepping before I was able to let him enter me.
  • barefootlover

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    Dec 25, 2019 11:27 AM GMT
    I was always just a top, but had a versatile bf once that wanted to top me. We were camping together and while we were taking a shower together, he said, "Can I please fuck you?. I told him I am an anal virgin. He said all the more better. lol I said, "ok, if you take it easy. lol He lubed his fingers and finger fucked me and then slipped a condom on lubed himself good and slowly penetrated me, letting me get use to his dick in me. I loved the sensation of having his dick in me and he said my ass felt fucking awesome. I said, "what you waiting for?" lol He fucked me hard then and he milked me good before finishing himself. That's how I also became versatile.
  • takashi

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    Jan 03, 2020 5:49 AM GMT
    Physically, I am small and thin, 5'3", 125 lbs. with a tiny penis
    When I was young I knew my body was no good for women.
    I would look at myself, my body in the mirror and see a girl's body
    Slim, round, soft, almost hairless
    I would despair about going to gym at school
    I was so scared that other boys would find me out, looking at their bodies
    Then a man basically showed me the way
    He showed me how he wanted to be pleased
    And he used me, I was amazed by the way he took me
    I knew nothing about being a bottom
    But that was what I was, my very being
    I feel most alive when a man is taking me, penetrating deep inside me
    Really this forum is my place to express my 'bottomness'
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    Jan 13, 2020 10:04 AM GMT
    Easy , I knew I was bottom first time had sex