Why are ALL gay guys such insecure whores?


  • Apr 12, 2020 4:55 AM GMT
    So I guess I'm sort of new to the whole scene, but why are all gay guys so slutty. Like everyone has slept with everyone and everyone seems to be in an open relationship. Straight guys aren't like this.

    What is up with this? It makes it really hard for those of us who are looking for something real and long term.

    What do you guys think the reason is? is it genetic or is everyone just doing it to fit in.
    Or does being rejected growing up make gay people damaged and desperate for positive attention that they mistake sex for validation?
  • mybud

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    Apr 12, 2020 5:17 AM GMT
    Lack of self confidence and individualism. Instead of being themselves..they mold themselves after those they're attracted too.....they make themselves utter fools to obtain their desire...whoring themselves in the process.

  • Apr 12, 2020 5:23 AM GMT
    mybud saidLack of self confidence and individualism. Instead of being themselves..they mold themselves after those they're attracted too.....they make themselves utter fools to obtain their desire...whoring themselves in the process.


    but are there any actual good ones? it seriously seems like everyone is trashy and diseased.
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    Apr 12, 2020 5:30 AM GMT
    why do you have fake pictures? And why are you such a dumb troll account?
  • mybud

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    Apr 12, 2020 5:33 AM GMT
    DigitalNomadJock said
    mybud saidLack of self confidence and individualism. Instead of being themselves..they mold themselves after those they're attracted too.....they make themselves utter fools to obtain their desire...whoring themselves in the process.


    but are there any actual good ones? it seriously seems like everyone is trashy and diseased.
    I know several that would be easy to love...
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    Apr 12, 2020 8:40 PM GMT
    Since we're comparing gay men's relationships to straight relationships, look at what straight boys get compared to gay boys.

    They get countless examples, representaion, and freedom throughout their lives regarding their desired romance and sexuality. They get 'the talk' with their parents, they get to grow up speaking to their parents about how to navigate being straight, they get to feel normal while sitting in school looking around at everyone and feeling that they're the same as them (sexually), they get to speak openly to anyone about their feelings, they got all the music, movies, dances with the people they want to dance with, and much more experiences of monogamous relationships being encouraged. If they didn't get these things and instead got the lives that we got, they would be just as 'promiscuous'/be in open relationships too.

    Another huge reason why it seems gay men are having open relationships and or being slutty is because we can't have kids together. Having a child between you and your lover is something that can bond two people closer together. Personally, I would prefer the idea of having a baby by my and my lover's body and not by a surrogate...but then I think of what that would take and it's weird...a man carrying a baby... but there's nothing we can do about that...it still sucks!

    The vast majority of gay people have to wait until their 20s and 30s usually to get a boyfriend that they don't have to keep a secret from people and or family. That's why so many gay guys are in open relationships. Not because it's in our blood or something.

  • Apr 13, 2020 2:29 AM GMT
    Guysguysguyss saidSince we're comparing gay men's relationships to straight relationships, look at what straight boys get compared to gay boys.

    They get countless examples, representaion, and freedom throughout their lives regarding their desired romance and sexuality. They get 'the talk' with their parents, they get to grow up speaking to their parents about how to navigate being straight, they get to feel normal while sitting in school looking around at everyone and feeling that they're the same as them (sexually), they get to speak openly to anyone about their feelings, they got all the music, movies, dances with the people they want to dance with, and much more experiences of monogamous relationships being encouraged. If they didn't get these things and instead got the lives that we got, they would be just as 'promiscuous'/be in open relationships too.

    Another huge reason why it seems gay men are having open relationships and or being slutty is because we can't have kids together. Having a child between you and your lover is something that can bond two people closer together. Personally, I would prefer the idea of having a baby by my and my lover's body and not by a surrogate...but then I think of what that would take and it's weird...a man carrying a baby... but there's nothing we can do about that...it still sucks!

    The vast majority of gay people have to wait until their 20s and 30s usually to get a boyfriend that they don't have to keep a secret from people and or family. That's why so many gay guys are in open relationships. Not because it's in our blood or something.


    for sure. but why can't they still be with one person. why is everyone in some sort of alternate arrangement or just plain whores lol. Every time I've tried to go to a gay bar everyone comes at me sexually. Like how about hello, nice to meet you... not just trying to grab my junk or asking if I want to come home with them. Why so thirsty??
  • stemkin

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    Apr 13, 2020 2:31 AM GMT
    Might have something to do with how most gays don't get to explore and date normally during their teenage years like straights do and then try and make up for that later on. Plus, if you enter a community where all of this (cruisy bars, hook ups with strangers, open relationships) are normal, it's not unlikely that you go in that direction too. There are still plenty of monogamous gay couples though!

  • Apr 13, 2020 2:43 AM GMT
    stemkin saidMight have something to do with how most gays don't get to explore and date normally during their teenage years like straights do and then try and make up for that later on. Plus, if you enter a community where all of this (cruisy bars, hook ups with strangers, open relationships) are normal, it's not unlikely that you go in that direction too. There are still plenty of monogamous gay couples though!


    there are? I've never met any!
  • stemkin

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    Apr 13, 2020 2:44 AM GMT
    I've been one for the past 6 years and I've met quite a few along the way
  • jocked_and_lo...

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    Apr 13, 2020 2:52 AM GMT
    Because straight people are SOOOO pristine!

    Do a search for swingers and wife swapping and you'll see how many straights are nowhere near monogamous.



    Where are the man swapping shows and videos for gay couples?

    We don't have any of those.

  • Apr 13, 2020 2:55 AM GMT
    jocked_and_loaded saidBecause straight people are SOOOO pristine!

    Do a search for swingers and wife swapping and you'll see how many straights are nowhere near monogamous.



    Where are the man swapping shows and videos for gay couples?

    We don't have any of those.


    Yeah but thats the thing.. Gays don't have them because its considered "normal" and you're weird and boring if you're not into being a ho.
    the reason they do a show about it with straight people is because its on the fringe and not normal. If they did a show about it that was gay the gays would say "yawn, nothing special here. thats everyone" haha
  • CuriousJockAZ

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    Apr 13, 2020 4:15 AM GMT
    DigitalNomadJock saidSo I guess I'm sort of new to the whole scene, but why are all gay guys so slutty. Like everyone has slept with everyone and everyone seems to be in an open relationship.

    What is up with this? It makes it really hard for those of us who are looking for something real and long term.

    What do you guys think the reason is? is it genetic or is everyone just doing it to fit in.
    Or does being rejected growing up make gay people damaged and desperate for positive attention that they mistake sex for validation?



    You sound like a moron. You're generalizing ALL gays as if they are ALL the same. NEWSFLASH -- GAYS are as diverse as any other group. All guys are NOT slutty....ALL guys have not slept with everyone else...and ALL guys are not in "open relationships". You sound horribly disconnected...or dense...or unworldly...or maybe just immature. GROW UP!
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    Apr 13, 2020 4:37 AM GMT
    I have pondered this for years. My theory is that anytime you tell someone they can't do something or shouldn't do something, the more they will crave that thing and tend to go crazy once they're able to get it. Just think of the proverbial preacher's daughter.....they really do tend to be quite slutty. Although I was brought up in a very strict fundamentalist home, luckily I had someone I was able to mess around with from an early age so I never experienced that restraint from sex.
  • Adiony93

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    Apr 13, 2020 4:51 AM GMT
    [quote][cite]DigitalNomadJock said[/cite]So I guess I'm sort of new to the whole scene, but why are all gay guys so slutty. Like everyone has slept with everyone and everyone seems to be in an open relationship.

    What is up with this? It makes it really hard for those of us who are looking for something real and long term.

    What do you guys think the reason is? is it genetic or is everyone just doing it to fit in.
    Or does being rejected growing up make gay people damaged and desperate for positive attention that they mistake sex for validation?

    I honestly think not everyone is the same but the people that do it is because they are not capable of having a mature steady relationship . There are some gay guys that are decently looking for something stable. In my case I wish I could have the opportunity to find someone steady but unfortunately this will not happen !
    Most of the guys I have meet the first thing they want is sex . I don’t mind that but every time I meet someone new is always happen .
    It’s just my opinion and hope it helps
    Regards
    Andy
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    Apr 13, 2020 5:10 AM GMT
    Just makes me wonder who are really the ''insecure whores '' here whining about how other people should be. Nobody is forcing you or anyone to date anyone, don't like them, find someone you like. It is sad when you need to whine to rest of the world how other people should be, especially when they do not affect you in any way, just because you have same sexuality does not mean they owe you something or have anything to do with you, so , yeah, who are the '' insecure whores'' ?
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    Apr 13, 2020 5:17 AM GMT
    Caledon saidJust makes me wonder who are really the ''insecure whores '' here whining about how other people should be. Nobody is forcing you or anyone to date anyone, don't like them, find someone you like. It is sad when you need to whine to rest of the world how other people should be, especially when they do not affect you in any way, just because you have same sexuality does not mean they owe you something or have anything to do with you, so , yeah, who are the '' insecure whores'' ?


    Of course it affects him. Gay men have a very limited dating pool as it is, and when the majority of them are complete, undatable cum-dumpsters, it makes the whole dating process extremely frustrating.
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    Apr 13, 2020 5:26 AM GMT
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    Caledon saidJust makes me wonder who are really the ''insecure whores '' here whining about how other people should be. Nobody is forcing you or anyone to date anyone, don't like them, find someone you like. It is sad when you need to whine to rest of the world how other people should be, especially when they do not affect you in any way, just because you have same sexuality does not mean they owe you something or have anything to do with you, so , yeah, who are the '' insecure whores'' ?


    Of course it affects him. Gay men have a very limited dating pool as it is, and when the majority of them are complete, undatable cum-dumpsters, it makes the whole dating process extremely frustrating.

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    Whining about dating life will not change it, just makes you look like '' insecure whore '' And no gay men are affecting anyone unless they are forcing you to date them, no need to whine about it just because things are not happening your way. You cannot change circumstances, but you can change your attitude to them. Kapish?

  • Apr 13, 2020 5:43 AM GMT
    Caledon saidJust makes me wonder who are really the ''insecure whores '' here whining about how other people should be. Nobody is forcing you or anyone to date anyone, don't like them, find someone you like. It is sad when you need to whine to rest of the world how other people should be, especially when they do not affect you in any way, just because you have same sexuality does not mean they owe you something or have anything to do with you, so , yeah, who are the '' insecure whores'' ?


    Looks like I struck a nerve huh? Its ok that you're one of the insecure whores... But for the ones who aren't looking to go to orgies and sex parties every weekend, and needing antibiotics for the std's monthly, that's what I was asking. Clearly you are unable to answer..
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    Apr 13, 2020 5:47 AM GMT
    Caledon said
    Radd said
    Caledon saidJust makes me wonder who are really the ''insecure whores '' here whining about how other people should be. Nobody is forcing you or anyone to date anyone, don't like them, find someone you like. It is sad when you need to whine to rest of the world how other people should be, especially when they do not affect you in any way, just because you have same sexuality does not mean they owe you something or have anything to do with you, so , yeah, who are the '' insecure whores'' ?


    Of course it affects him. Gay men have a very limited dating pool as it is, and when the majority of them are complete, undatable cum-dumpsters, it makes the whole dating process extremely frustrating.

    tumblr_memfws7ivK1rx67z0.gif

    Whining about dating life will not change it, just makes you look like '' insecure whore '' And no gay men are affecting anyone unless they are forcing you to date them, no need to whine about it just because things are not happening your way. You cannot change circumstances, but you can change your attitude to them. Kapish?



    Do you always get so triggered by the opinions of total strangers? You seem quite defensive. Pretty obvious why.
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    Apr 13, 2020 5:48 AM GMT
    Radd said
    Caledon said
    Radd said
    Caledon saidJust makes me wonder who are really the ''insecure whores '' here whining about how other people should be. Nobody is forcing you or anyone to date anyone, don't like them, find someone you like. It is sad when you need to whine to rest of the world how other people should be, especially when they do not affect you in any way, just because you have same sexuality does not mean they owe you something or have anything to do with you, so , yeah, who are the '' insecure whores'' ?


    Of course it affects him. Gay men have a very limited dating pool as it is, and when the majority of them are complete, undatable cum-dumpsters, it makes the whole dating process extremely frustrating.

    tumblr_memfws7ivK1rx67z0.gif

    Whining about dating life will not change it, just makes you look like '' insecure whore '' And no gay men are affecting anyone unless they are forcing you to date them, no need to whine about it just because things are not happening your way. You cannot change circumstances, but you can change your attitude to them. Kapish?



    Do you always get so triggered by the opinions of total strangers? You seem quite defensive. Pretty obvious why.


    why? Tell me why , please. icon_lol.gif And I don't think I am triggered, I don't think it is right to call people degrading names and place them together, there is no need to spit your insecure, foul negativity, I am talking in general when I say ''your'' otherwise you might get triggered.

  • Apr 13, 2020 6:08 AM GMT
    Caledon said
    Radd said
    Caledon said
    Radd said
    Caledon saidJust makes me wonder who are really the ''insecure whores '' here whining about how other people should be. Nobody is forcing you or anyone to date anyone, don't like them, find someone you like. It is sad when you need to whine to rest of the world how other people should be, especially when they do not affect you in any way, just because you have same sexuality does not mean they owe you something or have anything to do with you, so , yeah, who are the '' insecure whores'' ?


    Of course it affects him. Gay men have a very limited dating pool as it is, and when the majority of them are complete, undatable cum-dumpsters, it makes the whole dating process extremely frustrating.

    tumblr_memfws7ivK1rx67z0.gif

    Whining about dating life will not change it, just makes you look like '' insecure whore '' And no gay men are affecting anyone unless they are forcing you to date them, no need to whine about it just because things are not happening your way. You cannot change circumstances, but you can change your attitude to them. Kapish?



    Do you always get so triggered by the opinions of total strangers? You seem quite defensive. Pretty obvious why.


    why? Tell me why , please. icon_lol.gif And I don't think I am triggered, I don't think it is right to call people degrading names and place them together, there is no need to spit your insecure, foul negativity, I am talking in general when I say ''your'' otherwise you might get triggered.


    U mad bro? icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 13, 2020 6:20 AM GMT
    DigitalNomadJock said
    Caledon said
    Radd said
    Caledon said
    Radd said
    Caledon saidJust makes me wonder who are really the ''insecure whores '' here whining about how other people should be. Nobody is forcing you or anyone to date anyone, don't like them, find someone you like. It is sad when you need to whine to rest of the world how other people should be, especially when they do not affect you in any way, just because you have same sexuality does not mean they owe you something or have anything to do with you, so , yeah, who are the '' insecure whores'' ?


    Of course it affects him. Gay men have a very limited dating pool as it is, and when the majority of them are complete, undatable cum-dumpsters, it makes the whole dating process extremely frustrating.

    tumblr_memfws7ivK1rx67z0.gif

    Whining about dating life will not change it, just makes you look like '' insecure whore '' And no gay men are affecting anyone unless they are forcing you to date them, no need to whine about it just because things are not happening your way. You cannot change circumstances, but you can change your attitude to them. Kapish?



    Do you always get so triggered by the opinions of total strangers? You seem quite defensive. Pretty obvious why.


    why? Tell me why , please. icon_lol.gif And I don't think I am triggered, I don't think it is right to call people degrading names and place them together, there is no need to spit your insecure, foul negativity, I am talking in general when I say ''your'' otherwise you might get triggered.


    U mad bro? icon_lol.gif


    Yes, I am mad
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  • Apr 13, 2020 6:31 AM GMT
    Radd said
    Caledon saidJust makes me wonder who are really the ''insecure whores '' here whining about how other people should be. Nobody is forcing you or anyone to date anyone, don't like them, find someone you like. It is sad when you need to whine to rest of the world how other people should be, especially when they do not affect you in any way, just because you have same sexuality does not mean they owe you something or have anything to do with you, so , yeah, who are the '' insecure whores'' ?


    Of course it affects him. Gay men have a very limited dating pool as it is, and when the majority of them are complete, undatable cum-dumpsters, it makes the whole dating process extremely frustrating.


    exactly. Thank you. Of course it affects us when the sluts set the culture. And act like you're crazy when you don't want to go to the sex party. lmao

  • Apr 13, 2020 6:35 AM GMT
    Caledon said
    DigitalNomadJock said
    Caledon said
    Radd said
    Caledon said
    Radd said
    Caledon saidJust makes me wonder who are really the ''insecure whores '' here whining about how other people should be. Nobody is forcing you or anyone to date anyone, don't like them, find someone you like. It is sad when you need to whine to rest of the world how other people should be, especially when they do not affect you in any way, just because you have same sexuality does not mean they owe you something or have anything to do with you, so , yeah, who are the '' insecure whores'' ?


    Of course it affects him. Gay men have a very limited dating pool as it is, and when the majority of them are complete, undatable cum-dumpsters, it makes the whole dating process extremely frustrating.

    tumblr_memfws7ivK1rx67z0.gif

    Whining about dating life will not change it, just makes you look like '' insecure whore '' And no gay men are affecting anyone unless they are forcing you to date them, no need to whine about it just because things are not happening your way. You cannot change circumstances, but you can change your attitude to them. Kapish?



    Do you always get so triggered by the opinions of total strangers? You seem quite defensive. Pretty obvious why.


    why? Tell me why , please. icon_lol.gif And I don't think I am triggered, I don't think it is right to call people degrading names and place them together, there is no need to spit your insecure, foul negativity, I am talking in general when I say ''your'' otherwise you might get triggered.


    U mad bro? icon_lol.gif


    Yes, I am mad
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    but all joking aside, I'm seriously curious... you think gay guys aren't insecure sluts? like it doesn't bother you that priority 1 is how many guys they can fuck in a night or how many holes they can get screwed in? you're not worried that gives you a bad name being gay? or you really don't care?