Why are ALL gay guys such insecure whores?


  • Apr 13, 2020 9:16 PM GMT
    Destinharbor said
    DigitalNomadJock said
    Destinharbor saidNot all gay guys are but what gives you the right to determine what is acceptable or not? You're cruising gay bars to pick up a guy and are getting offended when he moves faster than your prudish point of view. In my experience gay guys attract similar and I think that's exactly what's happening to you.


    How am i attracting similar when I am looking for a LTR and they are trying to get me to f*ck them lol!
    Thats sort of a ridiculous thing to say

    You're cruising gay bars looking to pick up a guy. Gee, why are all these guys looking to hook up? You need to stop the silly Pollyanna schoolgirl routine. You sound ridiculous. How about trying a gay sports league? Or volunteer group. People form relationships based on similarity of interests and the common connection you choose to display is a pickup bar. And btw, I lived closeted in the straight world for decades and I guarantee straight guys and relationships are no different. So you're afraid of sex? Lots of guys out there are, too. But you probably won't find them trying to pick up guys in a gay bar. And stop with the stupid bitching about open relationships. That can mean anything and mostly means the couple is secure with the other's judgement about where their mutual line is and that they're both observing it.


    your post is ridiculous and makes a lot of stupid assumptions
    I'm not afraid of sex lmao. I love sex. but i don't need to have it with 5 different people in one night. And would be nice to have some conversation first before just f*cking. sorry you're just on the whore train...

    and did a gay sports league. the football league. It was the same thing. everyone was sleeping with everyone and most of them were so girly they could barely play football lol..
    i volunteer all the time. don't meet people there

    And I'm not going to a "pickup bar" lol. I'm going to normal bars not sex bars.
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    Apr 13, 2020 9:27 PM GMT
    well, I already figured out 10 minutes after he started typing on this site he is not the brightest bulb of the bunch

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  • Apr 13, 2020 9:29 PM GMT
    Caledon saidwell, I already figured out 10 minutes after he started typing on this site he is not the brightest bulb of the bunch

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    and you're just mad because im calling out the whores of the group like you
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    Apr 13, 2020 9:41 PM GMT
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  • JDuderrr

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    Apr 13, 2020 9:51 PM GMT
    DigitalNomadJock said

    . . . you're just mad because I'm calling out the whores of the group like you

    Well, "whore" is a pretty strong word. Don't care to have it used to describe my life right now. Parsing what you're saying, you want ME to conform to your standards sexually so that YOU have a better chance of landing your man? We're all at different points in our lives and it's natural that we want different things. Hows about you let me do my thing and you go about a little less judgmentally and do yours?
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    Apr 13, 2020 9:59 PM GMT
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  • Apr 13, 2020 10:06 PM GMT
    JDuderrr saidDigitalNomadJock said

    . . . you're just mad because I'm calling out the whores of the group like you

    Well, "whore" is a pretty strong word. Don't care to have it used to describe my life right now. Parsing what you're saying, you want ME to conform to your standards sexually so that YOU have a better chance of landing your man? We're all at different points in our lives and it's natural that we want different things. Hows about you let me do my thing and you go about a little less judgmentally and do yours?


    Ha. Well i'm not calling anyone anything. If you think i'm talking about you welll......icon_wink.gif

    i'm saying people that sleep with everyone are ruining it for all of us. No one wants to date the village bicycle. If everyone's had a ride, thats sort of gross
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    Apr 13, 2020 10:10 PM GMT
    Maybe this place could be more appropriate to you
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  • Apr 13, 2020 10:20 PM GMT
    Caledon saidMaybe this place could be more appropriate to you
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    you're really making fun of handicapped people! wow. just wow
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    Apr 13, 2020 10:39 PM GMT
    no, just you, mate
    you are calling me directly a whore without knowing absolutely anything about my life or anyones life for that matter.
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  • JDuderrr

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    Apr 13, 2020 10:51 PM GMT
    DigitalNomadJock said

    . . . people that sleep with everyone are ruining it for all of us. No one wants to date the village bicycle. If everyone's had a ride, thats sort of gross

    News Flash, Sherlock: People who sleep with everyone are having way too much fun to worry about the paucity of your love life. And they ain't gonna stop just 'cause you ask 'em to. That's like visiting the zoo during mating season and expecting the monkeys to come out when you throw in some peanuts. As for me, these last couple years I just haven't met a man I didn't like. And the ones that let me, I liked 'em a lot. That's kinda how I know this.
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    Apr 13, 2020 11:04 PM GMT
    It takes time to find the quality you want...a lot of comments here have some valid points when it compares to straight guys and men in general BUT there are other guys that truly get what you're looking for out of the gate....you obviously know who you are and what you want vs. some guys that have to explore and experience and sow their wild oats in order to arrive at their balance.
    Keep your intention there....look at like events, charities, volunteering, sport leagues etc. and you'll find the type of guy you're looking for...someone who is looking for something real, committed and long term.
  • KluckAndPluck

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    Apr 13, 2020 11:15 PM GMT
    Nice to see a topic about GAYS in the ALL THINGS GAY forum, instead of the endless parade of whining from Art Deco about how he is stuck in his apartment and can't use his swimming pool.

  • Apr 13, 2020 11:15 PM GMT
    JDuderrr saidDigitalNomadJock said

    . . . people that sleep with everyone are ruining it for all of us. No one wants to date the village bicycle. If everyone's had a ride, thats sort of gross

    News Flash, Sherlock: People who sleep with everyone are having way too much fun to worry about the paucity of your love life. And they ain't gonna stop just 'cause you ask 'em to. That's like visiting the zoo during mating season and expecting the monkeys to come out when you throw in some peanuts. As for me, these last couple years I just haven't met a man I didn't like. And the ones that let me, I liked 'em a lot. That's kinda how I know this.


    well i hope you guys don't get too many diseases. spreading them to everyone else is not really cool

  • Apr 13, 2020 11:16 PM GMT
    MuscleSage saidIt takes time to find the quality you want...a lot of comments here have some valid points when it compares to straight guys and men in general BUT there are other guys that truly get what you're looking for out of the gate....you obviously know who you are and what you want vs. some guys that have to explore and experience and sow their wild oats in order to arrive at their balance.
    Keep your intention there....look at like events, charities, volunteering, sport leagues etc. and you'll find the type of guy you're looking for...someone who is looking for something real, committed and long term.


    thank you. Something substantial and good advice rather than just stupid people bashing and posting stupid memes like 13 year old girls. no wonder gay people have a bad name when this is what you're met with when you want an actual relationship
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    Apr 13, 2020 11:18 PM GMT
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  • Destinharbor

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    Apr 13, 2020 11:26 PM GMT
    I think I've figured this guy out. He's a virgin and peeing in his pants he wants a guy so bad. And gay, not bi. Listen pookie, don't be afraid. Just find some nice guy who knows what he's doing and lose that virginity. You'll find the sky won't fall, and the devil won't come a-calling. Your body won't be suddenly dirty and you won't be so afraid next time. Time for you to be a man and stop acting like a little girl.
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    Apr 14, 2020 5:12 AM GMT
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    Radd saidI have pondered this for years. My theory is that anytime you tell someone they can't do something or shouldn't do something, the more they will crave that thing and tend to go crazy once they're able to get it. Just think of the proverbial preacher's daughter.....they really do tend to be quite slutty. Although I was brought up in a very strict fundamentalist home, luckily I had someone I was able to mess around with from an early age so I never experienced that restraint from sex.

    Well, your personality is a powerful cock-blocker so it almost certainly hasn't been up to you



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    Apr 14, 2020 5:48 AM GMT
    Wear a bracelet, necklace, or earring with something rainbow on it that doesn't scream too loud. That should let people know.

  • Apr 14, 2020 5:55 AM GMT
    Destinharbor saidI think I've figured this guy out. He's a virgin and peeing in his pants he wants a guy so bad. And gay, not bi. Listen pookie, don't be afraid. Just find some nice guy who knows what he's doing and lose that virginity. You'll find the sky won't fall, and the devil won't come a-calling. Your body won't be suddenly dirty and you won't be so afraid next time. Time for you to be a man and stop acting like a little girl.


    this coming from a 62 year old guy who is looking for "hookups" icon_lol.gif
    well done bro. you've put the whore in horrifying
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    Apr 14, 2020 6:35 AM GMT
    DigitalNomadJock said
    jocked_and_loaded saidBecause straight people are SOOOO pristine!

    Do a search for swingers and wife swapping and you'll see how many straights are nowhere near monogamous.



    Where are the man swapping shows and videos for gay couples?

    We don't have any of those.


    Yeah but thats the thing.. Gays don't have them because its considered "normal" and you're weird and boring if you're not into being a ho.
    the reason they do a show about it with straight people is because its on the fringe and not normal. If they did a show about it that was gay the gays would say "yawn, nothing special here. thats everyone" haha


    That's your experience, I'm guessing. I know of a few men in gay relationships and most of them are in monogamous relationships. I can only think of one couple I know that is open.

    I don't view men in open relationships as "insecure whores." Honest open relationships are a hell of a lot better than lying cheating people who go behind their partners' backs.
  • Offset

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    Apr 14, 2020 8:04 AM GMT
    I have no fucking clue, but yes, I have noticed the abundance of how whoreish gay/bi guys are as of late.

    I blame perhaps sexual repression, bathhouses, hook up apps, and badly produced gay porn which might have something to do with it.

    Just don't worry about it. If that's not your thing, don't waste your time, because guys like that aren't going to magically stop.

    So don't worry about guys like that. Do your own thing.
  • Olympus1991

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    Apr 14, 2020 4:07 PM GMT
    There are also guys out there that are ''single on purpose''. They want to be alone and not in a relationship because it is suffocating to them.
  • CuriousJockAZ

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    Apr 14, 2020 4:30 PM GMT
    DigitalNomadJock said

    your post is ridiculous and makes a lot of stupid assumptions




    You mean like your original post in this thread?

    Pot. Meet. Kettle.

  • Apr 14, 2020 6:24 PM GMT
    CuriousJockAZ said
    DigitalNomadJock said

    your post is ridiculous and makes a lot of stupid assumptions




    You mean like your original post in this thread?

    Pot. Meet. Kettle.


    haha. well played. but my post doesn't make assumptions... if you read it I am asking for opinions why, not assuming... genetic, trying to fit in, growing up without acceptance...
    not one person has answered everyone is just butt hurt thinking it was directed at them lol