Apr 13, 2020 9:16 PM GMT
Destinharbor saidDigitalNomadJock saidDestinharbor saidNot all gay guys are but what gives you the right to determine what is acceptable or not? You're cruising gay bars to pick up a guy and are getting offended when he moves faster than your prudish point of view. In my experience gay guys attract similar and I think that's exactly what's happening to you.
How am i attracting similar when I am looking for a LTR and they are trying to get me to f*ck them lol!
Thats sort of a ridiculous thing to say
You're cruising gay bars looking to pick up a guy. Gee, why are all these guys looking to hook up? You need to stop the silly Pollyanna schoolgirl routine. You sound ridiculous. How about trying a gay sports league? Or volunteer group. People form relationships based on similarity of interests and the common connection you choose to display is a pickup bar. And btw, I lived closeted in the straight world for decades and I guarantee straight guys and relationships are no different. So you're afraid of sex? Lots of guys out there are, too. But you probably won't find them trying to pick up guys in a gay bar. And stop with the stupid bitching about open relationships. That can mean anything and mostly means the couple is secure with the other's judgement about where their mutual line is and that they're both observing it.
your post is ridiculous and makes a lot of stupid assumptions
I'm not afraid of sex lmao. I love sex. but i don't need to have it with 5 different people in one night. And would be nice to have some conversation first before just f*cking. sorry you're just on the whore train...
and did a gay sports league. the football league. It was the same thing. everyone was sleeping with everyone and most of them were so girly they could barely play football lol..
i volunteer all the time. don't meet people there
And I'm not going to a "pickup bar" lol. I'm going to normal bars not sex bars.