Why are ALL gay guys such insecure whores?

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  • roadbikeRob

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    Apr 14, 2020 8:47 PM GMT
    Olympus1991 saidThere are also guys out there that are ''single on purpose''. They want to be alone and not in a relationship because it is suffocating to them.
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    Apr 14, 2020 8:51 PM GMT
    Yeah, that was actually a good comment from olympus
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  • Destinharbor

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    Apr 14, 2020 9:05 PM GMT
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    Destinharbor saidI think I've figured this guy out. He's a virgin and peeing in his pants he wants a guy so bad. And gay, not bi. Listen pookie, don't be afraid. Just find some nice guy who knows what he's doing and lose that virginity. You'll find the sky won't fall, and the devil won't come a-calling. Your body won't be suddenly dirty and you won't be so afraid next time. Time for you to be a man and stop acting like a little girl.


    this coming from a 62 year old guy who is looking for "hookups" icon_lol.gif
    well done bro. you've put the whore in horrifying

    You hate it that people can enjoy life while you sulk and strike out. The reason no one wants you is you're stupid, a liar, judgmental, probably ugly (fake pic), and a miserable person. Oh, and agist.
  • Gutsy

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    Apr 14, 2020 9:06 PM GMT
    I understand your question but I think u need to take a step back and ask yourself whether the ways and places u have been looking for relationships are more likely to be populated by the “whores” you refer to. Which, frankly, is a bit judgey.
    I don’t think there’s one reason I think there’s many and different for each person. Your personal upbringing, religion, tolerance of peer group, innate self/esteem etc etc.
    Maybe the gay bars and online sites aren’t right for YOU and maybe they ARE less likely to result in a committed monogamous relationship. Look elsewhere. Network with friends you value. Maybe other non-sex devoted dating sites or services.Having spent my 1st half in the straight world, I can say there’s just as much infidelity and need to experience as in the gay world; it’s just cloaked in seemingly more respectable closets.

  • Apr 14, 2020 9:49 PM GMT
    Destinharbor said
    DigitalNomadJock said
    Destinharbor saidI think I've figured this guy out. He's a virgin and peeing in his pants he wants a guy so bad. And gay, not bi. Listen pookie, don't be afraid. Just find some nice guy who knows what he's doing and lose that virginity. You'll find the sky won't fall, and the devil won't come a-calling. Your body won't be suddenly dirty and you won't be so afraid next time. Time for you to be a man and stop acting like a little girl.


    this coming from a 62 year old guy who is looking for "hookups" icon_lol.gif
    well done bro. you've put the whore in horrifying

    You hate it that people can enjoy life while you sulk and strike out. The reason no one wants you is you're stupid, a liar, judgmental, probably ugly (fake pic), and a miserable person. Oh, and agist.


    wow. well..... you being this triggered is definitely telling. good luck bro!
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    Apr 15, 2020 4:17 AM GMT
    @OP Simple answer: General socialization+ general biological traits leads to general behavior trends.

    But you're question seems more rhetorical and ideologically driven.

    I'm in a non-monogamous ltr so I'll try to provide some constructive counter- perspective: Firstly there definitely isn't some gay cabal that goes around trying to pressure gays into promiscuity or shame people who don't engage in it. And there definitely isn't a gay cabal intent on glorifying open relationships, infact quite the opposite. I constantly have people (in gay community) challenge the validity of my relationship, constantly project negative characteristics/associations without any basis other than the way my partner and I decide to conduct our relationship. Which is fine, it comes with territory I'm neither bothered nor triggered and tbh I used to think that way. What changed my mind infact was meeting a guy in an open-relationship, and despite the fact that I was kinda judgy at first he was still a very open caring person, who was smart insightful. He genuinely cared about the people around him, it wasn't about whether sex was involved and definitely not about a potential relationship, there was just a very genuine honesty and openness to him that I couldn't help admire and respect. He helped me see different perspectives and I'm glad I did.

    Look the idea that 'being promiscuous means you don't have morals, depth substance, intelligence etc' is emperically and logically wrong. They aren't causally connected so that's an easy idea to argue, however the idea that 'promiscuous people have less worth or that promiscuousity is morally wrong etc' is more of an ideological idea. I don't think anyone can change your mind on this is a single post/conversation.

    Yes there are promiscuous people who are shit human beings and some won't even engage with you unless theres a chance for sex(personally I see similar issues with people who won't even engage with someone unless theres a chance to have an ltr with them). But there's also lots of promiscuous people who are some of the most genuine people you'll ever meet. I hope that you can meet more of those.
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    Apr 15, 2020 4:23 AM GMT
    Also I'm not trying to attack you but I really think it would be a good idea to reevaluate the way you engage with the topic of sti's. Your rhetoric is borderline dehumanizing towards people with sti.We are all still human regardless of whether or not we have stis. A culture of shaming also tends to create an atmosphere where people are less likely to be tested. Also whether you only have sex with someone after 3 dates or after 5mins you can still get stis either way. Anecdotally guys I've met that are "sluts" are alot more responsible about their sexual health and test regularly, whereas guys I've met that don't see themselves as promiscuous or sluts aren't as vigilant and can sometimes be immature about it and in some cases get offended at the mere mention of the topic.

    And hey remember that even with no symptoms there's a good chance of having herpes and not even knowing about it :-)

  • Apr 16, 2020 10:29 PM GMT
    Manifesto said@OP Simple answer: General socialization+ general biological traits leads to general behavior trends.

    But you're question seems more rhetorical and ideologically driven.

    I'm in a non-monogamous ltr so I'll try to provide some constructive counter- perspective: Firstly there definitely isn't some gay cabal that goes around trying to pressure gays into promiscuity or shame people who don't engage in it. And there definitely isn't a gay cabal intent on glorifying open relationships, infact quite the opposite. I constantly have people (in gay community) challenge the validity of my relationship, constantly project negative characteristics/associations without any basis other than the way my partner and I decide to conduct our relationship. Which is fine, it comes with territory I'm neither bothered nor triggered and tbh I used to think that way. What changed my mind infact was meeting a guy in an open-relationship, and despite the fact that I was kinda judgy at first he was still a very open caring person, who was smart insightful. He genuinely cared about the people around him, it wasn't about whether sex was involved and definitely not about a potential relationship, there was just a very genuine honesty and openness to him that I couldn't help admire and respect. He helped me see different perspectives and I'm glad I did.

    Look the idea that 'being promiscuous means you don't have morals, depth substance, intelligence etc' is emperically and logically wrong. They aren't causally connected so that's an easy idea to argue, however the idea that 'promiscuous people have less worth or that promiscuousity is morally wrong etc' is more of an ideological idea. I don't think anyone can change your mind on this is a single post/conversation.

    Yes there are promiscuous people who are shit human beings and some won't even engage with you unless theres a chance for sex(personally I see similar issues with people who won't even engage with someone unless theres a chance to have an ltr with them). But there's also lots of promiscuous people who are some of the most genuine people you'll ever meet. I hope that you can meet more of those.


    for sure I agree. I don't think theres gay people out to get the people who are less promiscuous. I don't think its intentional. It just sucks people are such hookers when there are people out there who are legitimately looking for something serious and you have to wade through all the trash to find it.
    ughh
  • Apparition

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    Apr 17, 2020 4:57 AM GMT
    most partnered gay guys immediately stop leaving the house and become recluses. you never see them. especially in their 30's.
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    Apr 18, 2020 5:02 AM GMT
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    Wow, a new low. Mocking the handicap. SMFH
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    Radd saidI have pondered this for years. My theory is that anytime you tell someone they can't do something or shouldn't do something, the more they will crave that thing and tend to go crazy once they're able to get it. Just think of the proverbial preacher's daughter.....they really do tend to be quite slutty. Although I was brought up in a very strict fundamentalist home, luckily I had someone I was able to mess around with from an early age so I never experienced that restraint from sex.

    Well, your personality is a powerful cock-blocker so it almost certainly hasn't been up to you


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    Apr 19, 2020 4:21 AM GMT
    This thread is like the old days of this site with questions, thoughtful answers, petty bickering and funny GIFs.
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    Apr 19, 2020 9:56 AM GMT
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    A warning should be provided prior to posting puke-inducing mug shots.
    Some of us may have dined recently.

    Well. You just confirmed that you are the lowest life-form that slinks and oozes a trail across the earth.
    Yes, I am battling a skin disorder. Your mockery doesn't diminish me, it makes you look like the slimy creep we all know you to be.
    I have nothing to be ashamed of. You do. You ought to be ashamed of being a corrupted, pus-oozing plaything of Satan. But you can't be ashamed of it because Satan-lovers never are. They revel in their filth.
    So put up your pictures of the monkey shit you love to eat and that one of your momma that you're always pushing. Trust me, I don't give a fuck. I wouldn't even recommend you get help for your deep sickness. You're too far gone. All that's left for you is a graveside funeral which no one will attend.
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    Apr 19, 2020 11:30 AM GMT
    Beauty comes from the inside. Any adult knows that, and discounts external appearance in judging someone. And never uses real, or imagined cosmetic flaws to slander someone.

    FormerShark is a lovely person. And yet he & I used to feud on this site like no others. I’m proud to say our battles were epic!

    But he called a halt, so we did. Became friends. We went to restaurants together, the 3 of us including my guy, even to a gay men’s chorus performance. Shark went shopping with me for a Christmas gift for my guy.

    (Remember the Town Center, and the madhouse Apple Store there? But also having quiet drinks at a little bar, maybe Xxxxx allowed me a gin martini? And did we have lunch at the Neiman-Marcus restaurant, that we usually do when there, or did I merely want to?)

    Yeah, FormerShark is a lovely guy. And really not bad in appearance, either, despite what the trolls here might say to derail a discussion. When the facts go against you, go ad hominem!

  • Apr 21, 2020 7:36 AM GMT
    Apparition saidmost partnered gay guys immediately stop leaving the house and become recluses. you never see them. especially in their 30's.

    exactly. so how do you find them?? all you can find out at bars and restaurants are the insecure cunts.
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    Apr 21, 2020 8:49 AM GMT
    Although your headline rubs off as more of an attack, I do read between the lines here, and it's actually a question of human behaviour. Keep in mind though, even straight relationships have this scenario too, just a simple question of what are you "really" looking for?

    Yes, we can all agree that sex feels good, but to quote GreenDay's song Longview "when masturbations lost it's fun, you're f*@&'n lonely".... so where do you go from there? Another "blow-and-go" like every STD covered bisexual does? or is there any kind of connection to make after?

    I follow this because, the closer I get to being age 30, I find myself wanting an actual relationship : I haven't felt any "real" love since the one I lost in early 2017, and sex with anyone else just doesn't feel the same to me.

    I guess to try and answer your question, is that almost everyone confuses love with lust, the idea of love (only in the moment) but can't find any meaning to it. You picked a hard question, yet someone had to say it sometime.
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    Apr 21, 2020 10:41 AM GMT
    FarMoreSkank saidPsychotic Skank turd

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    “Repulsive, ignorant, self-important, foul-mouthed, unhinged, and probably hell-bound, but Skank makes up for it by crapping out bitchy-schoolgirl personal attack turds, thought by leftists to be towering intellectual achievements.”
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    Apr 21, 2020 10:52 AM GMT
    Fart_Echo saidBeauty comes from the inside. Any adult knows that, and discounts external appearance in judging someone. And never uses real, or imagined cosmetic flaws to slander someone.

    FarMoreSkank is a lovely person. And yet he & I used to feud on this site like no others. I’m proud to say our battles were epic!

    But he called a halt, so we did. Became friends. We went to restaurants together, the 3 of us including my guy, even to a gay men’s chorus performance. Shark went shopping with me for a Christmas gift for my guy.

    (Remember the Town Center, and the madhouse Apple Store there? But also having quiet drinks at a little bar, maybe Xxxxx allowed me a gin martini? And did we have lunch at the Neiman-Marcus restaurant, that we usually do when there, or did I merely want to?)

    Yeah, FarMoreSkank is a lovely guy. And really not bad in appearance, either, despite what the trolls here might say to derail a discussion. When the facts go against you, go ad hominem!

    As shown in this topic, and many others, Skank craps out bitchy personal attack turds and flings them at conservative RJ members.
    If we respond in kind, Fart_Echo defends Skank, accusing conservatives of personal attacks.
    This is another notable contribution to RJ's mental institution ambiance.
    Skank + Fart = Skank Fart.
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    Apr 21, 2020 1:01 PM GMT
    To say All, is rather harsh.
    What about the bisexuals?
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    Apr 21, 2020 1:09 PM GMT
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    Radd said
    FarMoreSkank said
    Radd saidI have pondered this for years. My theory is that anytime you tell someone they can't do something or shouldn't do something, the more they will crave that thing and tend to go crazy once they're able to get it. Just think of the proverbial preacher's daughter.....they really do tend to be quite slutty. Although I was brought up in a very strict fundamentalist home, luckily I had someone I was able to mess around with from an early age so I never experienced that restraint from sex.

    Well, your personality is a powerful cock-blocker so it almost certainly hasn't been up to you


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    He's simply to ugly, to be gay.
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    Apr 21, 2020 1:57 PM GMT
    Why Are All Gay Guys Such Insecure Whores?

    ALL gay guys? Sorry. I was a slut when I first came out. Kinda proud of my mid-40s prowess, when many gays are considered over the hill. But a whore? I never once took money, my dear.

    And regarding being insecure, nobody could be MORE secure than me, or our many gay friends. We’ve all had professional careers, some still active. We know who we are and what we are. Insecurity doesn’t factor into it.

    Now go pedal your lame theory somewhere else, honey.

    Addendum: On rereading this I’ve been too harsh, if the OP is “new to this”. As I once was. I’m just sorry he’s had experiences that have led him to erroneous conclusions. No, we’re not all whores. Oversexed, perhaps, but what man, gay or straight, isn’t? icon_wink.gif

    And in the gay world, where it’s man on man, 2 sets of male hormones both raging with no fear of a pregnancy, yeah, it can get pretty wild.

    That’s why I wrote above “sluts”, easy sex. But whores? Not exactly. Although there are rent bois, mostly to serve the old and closeted. Nobody of our acquaintance falls into any of those categories.
  • FormerShark

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    Apr 21, 2020 2:22 PM GMT
    Funny. The drooling Australian special ed---oh hell, why beat around the bush---retard and the slug oozing through the world on Its own trail of slime while posting pictures of the monkey faeces it longs to eat: these two repulsive creatures think they're wounding me to the quick with their scorn and hatred.
    What they do not get is (and I'm going to say it real slow because they're both idiots):
    BEING HATED BY YOU TWO IS A BADGE OF HONOR.
    So keep it up, pigs. I don't care.
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    Apr 21, 2020 2:31 PM GMT
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    BEING HATED BY YOU TWO IS A BADGE OF HONOR.
    So keep it up, pigs. I don't care.

    Have they been hassling you? I don’t usually even read their crap, not worth my time. Except sometimes the Aussie moron’s incoherent lunacy needs correction. It’d the former college professor in me.

    Damn thing is that I LIKE Australians, both online and everyone of them I’ve ever met in person. Most Americans do, they’re a great nation & people. I won’t allow this one rotten aberration to spoil the barrel.
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    Apr 21, 2020 10:57 PM GMT
    FarMoreSkank saidPsychotic Skank turd

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    “Repulsive, ignorant, self-important, foul-mouthed, unhinged, and probably hell-bound, but Skank makes up for it by crapping out bitchy-schoolgirl personal attack turds, thought by leftists to be towering intellectual achievements.”