Why are ALL gay guys such insecure whores?


  • May 24, 2020 7:27 AM GMT
    Fitbum4fun said
    DigitalNomadJock said
    venue35 saidThe op is trollin' big time time with this thread. After all these years people are still falling for this shit.


    no im legitimately curious! Why is everyone a whore??


    1. not everyone is a whore.
    2. change your social circle(s).
    3. you are who you surround yourself with.
    4. stop trolling for attention. literally just shut up. no one cares about the pics you stole off google.


    wow u mad bro?
    this coming from someone who has pics of their butt up on their profile to "use"
    yeah. you're the problem
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    May 24, 2020 9:03 AM GMT
    Gay men definitely have problems with keeping their dick or ass in their pants. It does go back to men being men. In heterosexual relationship, other than social norms, women act as a deterrent. Women aren't so eager to jump around and start fucking every hot piece of dick. I would imagine if the heterosexual relationship wasn't such a default paradigm for relationship, where you are supposed to marry and have kinds, men would be behaving the same way if women would let them. You do see this somewhat among straight men with money, good looks, or power. They do sleep around with lot of women because they can! This doesn't mean each and every straight men would have been doing this, but it would still be much more mainstream than being fringe as it is now. You also hear from time to time that there are more straight people in open relationships these days.

    The good thing about being straight is though, you still have lot of options to choose from. Gay population is quite small. So this kind of behaviour does make life hard for people who are looking for some one with bit more control over their dick or ass. I am not sure if people really get satisfaction out of it after a certain age, or it's just a habit that's hard to get rid off. Yes I understand that sexual feelings don't go away completely as you get older, but from my own experience, it's just lot of work and comes with its own set of issues. That itself doesn't make it worthwhile experience for me.

    People here are trying to portray that those gay men are exceptions, but it is the norm. Obviously you being fit, and probably good looking, attract large share of these gay men. You might see bit more exemplified version of this problem.
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    May 24, 2020 11:05 AM GMT
    DigitalNomadJock said
    Fitbum4fun said
    DigitalNomadJock said
    venue35 saidThe op is trollin' big time time with this thread. After all these years people are still falling for this shit.


    no im legitimately curious! Why is everyone a whore??


    1. not everyone is a whore.
    2. change your social circle(s).
    3. you are who you surround yourself with.
    4. stop trolling for attention. literally just shut up. no one cares about the pics you stole off google.


    wow u mad bro?
    this coming from someone who has pics of their butt up on their profile to "use"
    yeah. you're the problem


    What do you mean "you're the problem" ?

    If you don't like how he expresses himself, that's your problem, not his.

    People have advised you to rethink your social circle. You don't like the sleazy guys in gay pubs, fine, it's probably a good idea for you to stay away from those gay pubs. You don't like guys who flaunt their nude pics online, fine, a website that allows and encourages men to upload their own adult content is probably not the best place for you either, though there are plenty of users on this site who don't share sexual content and only disuss their interests in health and fitness. Nobody is forcing you to focus your attention on people you don't like.
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    May 27, 2020 4:10 PM GMT
    I have observed with great interest the gay men who are having lots of sex, in open relationships or have expressed their interest in other sexual activities that most would find edgy, are very defensive and always respond aggressively. Before I get trolled and insulted I will point up that there are occasions when someone has posted a sex negative diatribe which in my opinion gets what it deserves, but most interesting is when the issue is very tactfully addressed and no critique made of others the attack mode is Immediate and vitriolic.

    We can all have our opinions, but if we express them expect them to be challenged. If you just like to read and attack people for expressing a different view and your response is to insult them you need to calm down and get over yourself. Generalisations if made as a hypothesis (a theory to be questioned) is acceptable however sweeping generalisations stated as a fact that applies to everyone in that group/demographic is lazy or deliberately inflammatory. I don't care about what you perceive or assume from past experiences, if you like lots of sex, own it there is nothing wrong with that. Attaching those who don't smacks of insecurity and I would suggest to anyone if that is you don't do a poly or open relationship coz you won't handle it well as they need a level of maturity that an auto attack dog doesn't have

    Overall those men who are less sexually permissive, are out there but they are harder to find as the ones most engaged in the gay scene are statistically far more likely to conform to the Gay normative culture of being supportive of the view that sexual attraction should be separate from very emotional attraction therefore hyper-sexual behaviour is permissible/encouraged and being supportive of open relationships is the norm. You either accept that or keep trying to find the odd few who are rebelling against the norm or you go find the ones who are not exposing themselves to this culture.

  • Jul 29, 2020 8:07 PM GMT
    First WE aren't. For some this is true, while others it is not.

    Second, THEY are equally as promiscuous when the opportunity arises, so to speak.

    Third, men are hardwired and then programed differently by society than women. Give women our hardwiring and program men instead then see what things look like!

    Lastly, hetero or homo, the environment you seeing this thru matters. When a hetero goes to a bar, it's rarely to start a relationship. If they meet someone at work, school, church or an activity then they might be. Just where are you looking to make such an ill perceived judgement against us all?
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    Jul 30, 2020 12:07 AM GMT
    Bubblebum4Fun said
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    venue35 saidThe op is trollin' big time time with this thread. After all these years people are still falling for this shit.


    no im legitimately curious! Why is everyone a whore??


    1. not everyone is a whore.
    2. change your social circle(s).
    3. you are who you surround yourself with.
    4. stop trolling for attention. literally just shut up. no one cares about the pics you stole off google.


    THIS????? Coming from a geek with ONE single picture of "his" face, which I have personally seen on NUMEROUS sites under different names!
    Fucking hypocrite. And a fake and a thief to boot.
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    Jul 30, 2020 3:18 AM GMT
    venue35 is a great..stand up guy. He calls things as he sees them..If he labels trolling..its trolling.
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    Jul 30, 2020 3:31 AM GMT
    Fuck you, you "hidden member" (who I can't see). Pathetic, attention-seeking goof with absolutely NO life. Hasn't your welfare check come yet?
    Don't you have any friends to go out with? PHFT. Sad, motherfucker. Obviously one of the trolls that I called out. Eat shit - you no doubt do anyway.
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    Jul 31, 2020 4:38 AM GMT
    canadabeef saidFuck you, you "hidden member" (who I can't see). Pathetic, attention-seeking goof with absolutely NO life. Hasn't your welfare check come yet?
    Don't you have any friends to go out with? PHFT. Sad, motherfucker. Obviously one of the trolls that I called out. Eat shit - you no doubt do anyway.
    If your gunna rim me..go extra deep..I ran out of toilet paper a few days back....
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    Aug 01, 2020 11:54 PM GMT
    Haven't you thought about that some may not get so lucky so they use every opportunity to enjoy themselves whilst they still can?