Are there big top jocks who want to date with small bottom skinny ones? Or I am dreaming? :(

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    May 05, 2020 2:46 AM GMT
    Jocks/muscular men, would you date a skinny?
    I'm Skinny (110 lbs) I usually hook up with big jocks men but difficult to get a date with them... I've been also body shamed a lot in date apps. Is possible? Are here top jocks that would like to chat and date bottom skinny ones?
  • Destinharbor

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    May 05, 2020 7:53 PM GMT
    Opposites can attract but honestly, most guys are attracted to someone like themselves. And most Big Top Jocks are dedicated to their gym routine. It is a big part of their lives. They want someone who is into that. I understand the metabolism thing but you look pretty fit. Are you into the gym? And you might reconsider your quest for love. Try being in a quest for fun. Give him a reason to fall in love. You may fall in lust with a certain physical type but you fall in love with a whole person.
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    May 05, 2020 9:04 PM GMT
    Destinharbor saidOpposites can attract but honestly, most guys are attracted to someone like themselves. And most Big Top Jocks are dedicated to their gym routine. It is a big part of their lives. They want someone who is into that. I understand the metabolism thing but you look pretty fit. Are you into the gym? And you might reconsider your quest for love. Try being in a quest for fun. Give him a reason to fall in love. You may fall in lust with a certain physical type but you fall in love with a whole person.


    Thanks for your reply and for sharing your thoughts. I work out with my kettlebell mostly every day to tone my skinny body. I don't want to be a jock. I know, but the online date is all about physical ;/ and I get body-shamed for being too skinny. I'm also attracted to tall slim/ lean guys too.

    Just wondering if in this date website are jocks into skinny guys (who are bottoms icon_razz.gif )

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  • Destinharbor

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    May 05, 2020 10:22 PM GMT
    You should try pushing weights (in a gym) and taking protein. Lots of it. You might be surprised. Kettleballs are good for multiple muscle/range of motion/functional training but to grow muscle size, you need to isolate and push heavy. Plus, the gym is where your target demographic hangs out. If nothing else you get great eye candy.
  • Fritter

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    May 07, 2020 4:42 AM GMT
    I find you attractive if that's any consolation. I may be a big bulky guy who like muscle, but I find the ripped look sexy too.
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    May 07, 2020 4:50 PM GMT
    Fritter saidI find you attractive if that's any consolation. I may be a big bulky guy who like a muscle, but I find the ripped look sexy too.


    Thanks ;) you are good looking and you have a hot muscle body ;P your boyfriend/husband is lucky to have you.
  • Italian69ny

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    May 11, 2020 11:05 AM GMT
    SkinnyBottomNYC saidJocks/muscular men, would you date a skinny?
    I'm Skinny (110 lbs) I usually hook up with big jocks men but difficult to get a date with them... I've been also body shamed a lot in date apps. Is possible? Are here top jocks that would like to chat and date bottom skinny ones?


    I’m not a jock, but I’d date you. I think you are gorgeous
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    May 11, 2020 3:02 PM GMT
    When it comes to size difference, I enjoy being the smaller one, I have always loved men bigger than me. It's not a matter of "who's the butch/fem?" but I'm a man who loves big masculine men.