Some Guys on here are really cruel

  • KyleStephenso...

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    Aug 07, 2020 8:21 PM GMT
    I seen this guys profile and decided to Messe him and I was like hey sexy how's it going wanna chat. Lol and he told be your a fucking pig .feminine gays like you make me sick. I really didn't know what to say I've never talked to a guy on here who was so rude and it made me really not want to talk to guys in here for a while.


    You guys deal with anything similar?
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    Aug 07, 2020 8:26 PM GMT
    who was that? i cannot take these kind of threads seriously if there are no clarity on people involved, otherwise you might as well made this up for attention
  • roadbikeRob

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    Aug 07, 2020 8:37 PM GMT
    KyleStephenson saidI seen this guys profile and decided to Messe him and I was like hey sexy how's it going wanna chat. Lol and he told be your a fucking pig .feminine gays like you make me sick. I really didn't know what to say I've never talked to a guy on here who was so rude and it made me really not want to talk to guys in here for a while.


    You guys deal with anything similar?
    I dealt with that once from Canadabeef who was friendly at first but than after communicating with him and sending him a few photo comments he all of a sudden flipped out on me and started falsely accusing me of being effeminate which I am definitely not and started with vicious attacks on me. I have since blocked him and put him on ignore. He is a raging hateful lunatic who is best avoided .
  • KyleStephenso...

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    Aug 07, 2020 8:37 PM GMT
    Cal_ saidwho was that? i cannot take these kind of threads seriously if there are no clarity on people involved, otherwise you might as well made this up for attention





    I can understand you feeling that way. I don't remember the guys name I just remember he was very "masculine" and hairy.I'm not looking for pitty just sharing to see if anybody has dealt with anything similar.
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    Aug 07, 2020 10:30 PM GMT
    KyleStephenson said
    You guys deal with anything similar?

    Daily. Not that I’m trying to romantically approach anyone (in a monogamous relationship). But I’ve been told I’m ugly, fat, an alcoholic, (by guys who’ve never met me), stupid, etc, etc. It’s the way the online world works, and how pathetic trolls enjoy themselves. Don’t take it seriously.
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    Aug 07, 2020 10:59 PM GMT
    KyleStephenson saidI seen this guys profile and decided to Messe him and I was like hey sexy how's it going wanna chat. Lol and he told be your a fucking pig .feminine gays like you make me sick. I really didn't know what to say I've never talked to a guy on here who was so rude and it made me really not want to talk to guys in here for a while.


    You guys deal with anything similar?


    Sounds like you had an encounter with Canadabitch icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 07, 2020 10:59 PM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    Daily. Not that I’m trying to romantically approach anyone (in a monogamous relationship). But I’ve been told I’m ugly, fat, an alcoholic, (by guys who’ve never met me), stupid, etc, etc. It’s the way the online world works, and how pathetic trolls enjoy themselves.



    Ohhhh Boo- Hoo! You dish it out too, so maybe take off that halo
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    CuriousJockAZ said
    Art_Deco said
    Daily. Not that I’m trying to romantically approach anyone (in a monogamous relationship). But I’ve been told I’m ugly, fat, an alcoholic, (by guys who’ve never met me), stupid, etc, etc. It’s the way the online world works, and how pathetic trolls enjoy themselves.



    Ohhhh Boo- Hoo! You dish it out too, so maybe take off that halo

    Who’s boo-hooing, pathetic troll? I’m immune to losers like you.
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    Aug 07, 2020 11:35 PM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    KyleStephenson said
    You guys deal with anything similar?

    Daily. Not that I’m trying to romantically approach anyone (in a monogamous relationship). But I’ve been told I’m ugly, fat, an alcoholic, (by guys who’ve never met me), stupid, etc, etc. It’s the way the online world works, and how pathetic trolls enjoy themselves. Don’t take it seriously.


    Who on earth would ever call you these names????
    Especially, the fat one...how rude!!
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    Aug 07, 2020 11:38 PM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    KyleStephenson said
    You guys deal with anything similar?

    Daily. Not that I’m trying to romantically approach anyone (in a monogamous relationship). But I’ve been told I’m ugly, fat, an alcoholic, (by guys who’ve never met me), stupid, etc, etc. It’s the way the online world works, and how pathetic trolls enjoy themselves. Don’t take it seriously.


    Being called fat isn't an insult. It's merely pointing out the truth. It's merely a truthful observation.

    And truth be told, the reason why you are fat is because you eat too much.

    Calling someone fat is no more or less an insult than calling someone thin or skinny.

    You're here in the forums talking about food ALL. THE. TIME. And more often than not, it's always you carrying on about junk or calorie dense nutrient deficient crap that you don't need to be consuming.
  • ObscureAndFuz...

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    Aug 08, 2020 11:22 PM GMT
    jocked_and_loaded said
    Art_Deco said
    KyleStephenson said
    You guys deal with anything similar?

    Daily. Not that I’m trying to romantically approach anyone (in a monogamous relationship). But I’ve been told I’m ugly, fat, an alcoholic, (by guys who’ve never met me), stupid, etc, etc. It’s the way the online world works, and how pathetic trolls enjoy themselves. Don’t take it seriously.


    Being called fat isn't an insult. It's merely pointing out the truth. It's merely a truthful observation.

    And truth be told, the reason why you are fat is because you eat too much.

    Calling someone fat is no more or less an insult than calling someone thin or skinny.

    You're here in the forums talking about food ALL. THE. TIME. And more often than not, it's always you carrying on about junk or calorie dense nutrient deficient crap that you don't need to be consuming.


    That's true.
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    Aug 09, 2020 8:13 AM GMT
    KyleStephenson saidI seen this guys profile and decided to Messe him and I was like hey sexy how's it going wanna chat. Lol and he told be your a fucking pig .feminine gays like you make me sick. I really didn't know what to say I've never talked to a guy on here who was so rude and it made me really not want to talk to guys in here for a while.


    You guys deal with anything similar?


    This is just par for the course I suppose, dont dwell on it too much

    The four general rules I go by is to
    1) Try to reject people as politely and respectfully as I can
    2) Accept that there will always be people who don't take rejection well and lash out
    3) Try to take being rejected respectfully and not be sour about it
    4) Accept that sometimes I'll be rejected in a harsh/disrespectful way
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    Aug 09, 2020 9:27 AM GMT
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    KyleStephenson saidI seen this guys profile and decided to Messe him and I was like hey sexy how's it going wanna chat. Lol and he told be your a fucking pig .feminine gays like you make me sick. I really didn't know what to say I've never talked to a guy on here who was so rude and it made me really not want to talk to guys in here for a while.


    You guys deal with anything similar?


    This is just par for the course I suppose, dont dwell on it too much

    The four general rules I go by is to
    1) Try to reject people as politely and respectfully as I can
    2) Accept that there will always be people who don't take rejection well and lash out
    3) Try to take being rejected respectfully and not be sour about it
    4) Accept that sometimes I'll be rejected in a harsh/disrespectful way

    5) Try to be as less human as possible and try to rationalise mentally everything because that is how I can guard myself with my own excuses
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    Aug 09, 2020 10:09 AM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    KyleStephenson said
    You guys deal with anything similar?

    Daily. Not that I’m trying to romantically approach anyone (in a monogamous relationship). But I’ve been told I’m ugly, fat, an alcoholic, (by guys who’ve never met me), stupid, etc, etc. It’s the way the online world works, and how pathetic trolls enjoy themselves. Don’t take it seriously.

    Come now half brother, you've said far worse. Remember the Flame Wars you brought to RJ, and all the nasty things you said while gay bashing other members Bob.
    You've also told. Us your not very attractive, your stats have told us you are short, and very round. I've seen the American Horror Story of you butt naked on RJ, as well seeing you and your boyfriend on Facebook.
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    Aug 09, 2020 11:15 AM GMT
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    Manifesto said
    KyleStephenson saidI seen this guys profile and decided to Messe him and I was like hey sexy how's it going wanna chat. Lol and he told be your a fucking pig .feminine gays like you make me sick. I really didn't know what to say I've never talked to a guy on here who was so rude and it made me really not want to talk to guys in here for a while.


    You guys deal with anything similar?


    This is just par for the course I suppose, dont dwell on it too much

    The four general rules I go by is to
    1) Try to reject people as politely and respectfully as I can
    2) Accept that there will always be people who don't take rejection well and lash out
    3) Try to take being rejected respectfully and not be sour about it
    4) Accept that sometimes I'll be rejected in a harsh/disrespectful way

    5) Try to be as less human as possible and try to rationalise mentally everything because that is how I can guard myself with my own excuses


    Hmm less a case of guarding myself with excuses and more a case of having realistic expectations and accepting that negative interactions are inevitable
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    Aug 09, 2020 11:17 AM GMT
    Manifesto said
    Cal_ said
    Manifesto said
    KyleStephenson saidI seen this guys profile and decided to Messe him and I was like hey sexy how's it going wanna chat. Lol and he told be your a fucking pig .feminine gays like you make me sick. I really didn't know what to say I've never talked to a guy on here who was so rude and it made me really not want to talk to guys in here for a while.


    You guys deal with anything similar?


    This is just par for the course I suppose, dont dwell on it too much

    The four general rules I go by is to
    1) Try to reject people as politely and respectfully as I can
    2) Accept that there will always be people who don't take rejection well and lash out
    3) Try to take being rejected respectfully and not be sour about it
    4) Accept that sometimes I'll be rejected in a harsh/disrespectful way

    5) Try to be as less human as possible and try to rationalise mentally everything because that is how I can guard myself with my own excuses


    Hmm less a case of guarding myself with excuses and more a case of having realistic expectations and accepting that negative interactions are inevitable


    sometimes it is just good to tell someone how you feel, ya know?
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    Cal_ said
    Manifesto said
    Cal_ said
    Manifesto said
    KyleStephenson saidI seen this guys profile and decided to Messe him and I was like hey sexy how's it going wanna chat. Lol and he told be your a fucking pig .feminine gays like you make me sick. I really didn't know what to say I've never talked to a guy on here who was so rude and it made me really not want to talk to guys in here for a while.


    You guys deal with anything similar?


    This is just par for the course I suppose, dont dwell on it too much

    The four general rules I go by is to
    1) Try to reject people as politely and respectfully as I can
    2) Accept that there will always be people who don't take rejection well and lash out
    3) Try to take being rejected respectfully and not be sour about it
    4) Accept that sometimes I'll be rejected in a harsh/disrespectful way

    5) Try to be as less human as possible and try to rationalise mentally everything because that is how I can guard myself with my own excuses


    Hmm less a case of guarding myself with excuses and more a case of having realistic expectations and accepting that negative interactions are inevitable


    sometimes it is just good to tell someone how you feel, ya know?


    Yeah definitely, not sure if anything I said goes against that?
  • DMVnewbie

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    Aug 09, 2020 6:04 PM GMT
    It sucks, but welcome to the internet where people feel free to be nastier than they would to your face.
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    Aug 10, 2020 9:55 PM GMT
    ObscureAndFuzzy said
    jocked_and_loaded said
    Art_Deco said
    KyleStephenson said
    You guys deal with anything similar?

    Daily. Not that I’m trying to romantically approach anyone (in a monogamous relationship). But I’ve been told I’m ugly, fat, an alcoholic, (by guys who’ve never met me), stupid, etc, etc. It’s the way the online world works, and how pathetic trolls enjoy themselves. Don’t take it seriously.


    Being called fat isn't an insult. It's merely pointing out the truth. It's merely a truthful observation.

    And truth be told, the reason why you are fat is because you eat too much.

    Calling someone fat is no more or less an insult than calling someone thin or skinny.

    You're here in the forums talking about food ALL. THE. TIME. And more often than not, it's always you carrying on about junk or calorie dense nutrient deficient crap that you don't need to be consuming.


    That's true.

    Very true, innit.
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    Aug 10, 2020 9:59 PM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    KyleStephenson said
    You guys deal with anything similar?

    Daily. Not that I’m trying to romantically approach anyone (in a monogamous relationship). But I’ve been told I’m ugly, fat, an alcoholic, (by guys who’ve never met me), stupid, etc, etc. It’s the way the online world works, and how pathetic trolls enjoy themselves. Don’t take it seriously.

    I well recall when I first came to RJ, you Bob called me such things, and you knew absolutely nothing about me. So now it does a boomerang, and comes back to you; so suck it up princess.
  • HikerCamper

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    Aug 14, 2020 5:28 PM GMT
    KyleStephenson saidI seen this guys profile and decided to Messe him and I was like hey sexy how's it going wanna chat. Lol and he told be your a fucking pig .feminine gays like you make me sick. I really didn't know what to say I've never talked to a guy on here who was so rude and it made me really not want to talk to guys in here for a while.


    You guys deal with anything similar?


    No.
  • deep388

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    Aug 17, 2020 6:15 PM GMT
    Can’t say I’ve dealt with “similar” scenario. The guys I have messaged have always been polite in their decline so I am finding it a little hard to believe that you were badly rejected. I try not to take rejections to heart as it means that they’ve at least been honest, much more prefer upfront honesty to when you message guys and they seem interested but then ghost you, that really irks me the most! And also to the OP of this topic, I don’t mean to cause offence but at the end of the day, reality is that the Greek god men on this site won’t give you a second glance unless you are in the same boat of fitness, something most of us all aspire to. That is the cold hard truth. It sounds awful to say, but if it weren’t true, the likes of you and I should be on everyone’s hot list
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    Aug 17, 2020 7:25 PM GMT
    Well yes I started to be attracted by a bitter queer, not long after I came to RJ. a queer who's barely left RJ fir more than a day in over ten years.
    President Trump winning the 2016 election was the exception. He gave RJ a rest for just over 24 hrs. Where I have given RJ a rest for a year or so here and there. Because I was busy travelling, and living my life. Only to return to RJ to be greeted by this vile queer, with: why are you back.

    This vile queer after my arrival to RJ, was to stalk and troll me, gathering a few henchmen along the way. Trying to force me to leave RJ? Said vile queer was to troll me, until I was forced to talk back to this vile little cockroach.
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    Aug 18, 2020 12:11 AM GMT
    Twomen_inlove said
    Well yes I started to be attracted by a bitter queer, not long after I came to RJ. a queer who's barely left RJ fir more than a day in over ten years.
    President Trump winning the 2016 election was the exception. He gave RJ a rest for just over 24 hrs. Where I have given RJ a rest for a year or so here and there. Because I was busy travelling, and living my life. Only to return to RJ to be greeted by this vile queer, with: why are you back.

    This vile wueer after my arrival to RJ, was to stalk and troll me, gathering a few henchmen along the way. Trying to force me to leave RJ? Said vile queer was to troll me, until I was forced to talk back to this vile little cockroach.


    I KNEW southbeach/twomen_inlove's villain-origin story had something to do with getting rejected by Art Deco lol
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    Aug 18, 2020 12:39 AM GMT
    northbeach said
    Twomen_inlove said
    Well yes I started to be attracted by a bitter queer, not long after I came to RJ. a queer who's barely left RJ fir more than a day in over ten years.

    I KNEW southbeach/twomen_inlove's villain-origin story had something to do with getting rejected by Art Deco lol

    News to me, if I’m allegedly involved with a history of unrequited love. Pattison/Twomen_inlove (and the countless accounts & names he’s had between them) was already here when I joined RJ.

    I called him out for spewing all kinds of nonsensical (and often illiterate) lies, especially regarding the US. About which he claims to be an expert.

    And also for annointing himself the only Bonafide Homosexual on RJ, and later the only Gold Star Gay (whatever that is), the final arbiter of who is gay on RJ and who in not. In his judgment, you are either as gay as he claims to be, or else you can never aspire to be more than a bisexual, his “half-brother”. He’s got an obsession about being validated as gay.

    He got all butt-hurt about my challenging his nonsense, and the consequences continue to this day.