Jan 01, 2008 6:19 PM GMT
I and my partner of 8 years got "married" 6 months ago, ( I actually liked our relationship better before, because - it was because I wanted to not because I had to, I still want to but sometimes it feels like I have to...I know, figure that out)
so what do you call your married partner, I am uncomfortable with the term " husband" and partner does not convey the proper degree of committment. In Canada they/we have all out legalized same sex marriage, and to be frank, I was really scared of the ceremony, I did not want it to become, just like a hetro wedding, you know white suit black suit thing.
in fact the term "wedding" disturbs me, funny enough the lady that did the ceremony had this really beautiful vow that still makes my eyes water, anyway, so what do I call my....husband ?......NOT !
so what do you call your married partner, I am uncomfortable with the term " husband" and partner does not convey the proper degree of committment. In Canada they/we have all out legalized same sex marriage, and to be frank, I was really scared of the ceremony, I did not want it to become, just like a hetro wedding, you know white suit black suit thing.
in fact the term "wedding" disturbs me, funny enough the lady that did the ceremony had this really beautiful vow that still makes my eyes water, anyway, so what do I call my....husband ?......NOT !