I'm just moving to the Tacoma/Gig Harbor/Bremerton area, and have been looking for guys to have as friends (I'm married, albeit gay). Not one guy my age, whose profile I've looked at, has any mutual friends, or guys they think are hot. Are you all dead?? Given up?? Too busy with career to live??

I'm really shy, and afraid of being outed, though my wife knows I'm attracted to men, and I've never had sex with a guy. I'd like to know where (besides a bar) is a good place to go to make male friends.

Would also like to know what some good gyms in the area are.

Thanks, guys.