First time......

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  Jan 16, 2008 6:36 AM GMT

  So I've been in sort of a long-term relationship with a guy named Mark for a little while now, after having gotten to him when visiting a college. I'm 18 and in my senior year of high school, and I'll be going to see him and some other friends this Saturday and Sunday.
  
  Thing is, instead of staying with my other friend this time (like I did last time I visited), I've been invited to stay with Mark. I told him I would, knowing the implications of accepting such an invitation. I like him a lot, and I'm completely elated about going to see him again, but I'm kind of nervous about having sex. I want to do it, but again: nervous -- it'll be my first time. I just hope I don't screw something up, lol.
  
  Advice? Suggestions? Comments?
  
  Thanks

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• swlaman82
  
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  Jan 16, 2008 7:34 PM GMT

  Try to relax and let him know that you are a little nervous. Take your time getting into it. Enjoy each other's company and some foreplay. Try to let him take you through the motions one step at a time and don't rush into anything. Relax and enjoy it!

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• GQjock
  
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  Jan 17, 2008 10:41 AM GMT

  Just play it by ear....
  don't do anything that you think you NEED to
  just have fun and if you like being with him enjoy it

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  Jan 17, 2008 12:14 PM GMT

  Relax, do what feels right, use condoms
  
  I kind of envy you, the first time touching a naked man all over, what a thrill.

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  Jan 17, 2008 6:45 PM GMT

  You know all that stuff you see in porn?
  
  Don't do that. Only a seasoned ass can have a cock slammed in like that.
  
  Take it slow. Enjoy the moment. Don't do anything you aren't comfortable doing. Use a condom and plenty of lube if you guys are going down that alley.

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  Jan 18, 2008 4:03 AM GMT

  Play safe and take your time; ask questions! Talking about it can be fun and make it more memorable.

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  Jan 18, 2008 4:17 AM GMT

  do what feels right and make it a special occasion for the both of you...LUBE LUBE LUBE!
  
  Don't have any expectations and you will have an amazing time.

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  Jan 21, 2008 4:34 AM GMT

  Thanks guys for your responses. I just got back from visiting him for a couple days and I had a GREAT time. We did end up deciding it would be best to hold off on sex this time.... I know I'm still young, but I'd still like to try to make this relationship last. Since it is somewhat long-distance, it's just all the harder to do so.

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  Jan 21, 2008 5:14 AM GMT

  The first time is really not all it's cracked up to be, generally it isn't all that grand and special. If you remember that nerves should just vanish. All you ahve to do is let the moment take you and go from there, think like a pro !

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