Jan 25, 2008 9:31 PM GMT
Do you feel that being muscular has changed your ideals reagarding settling down/being monogamous due to the increased adoration/attention? Did you used to be different pre-muscle.
Muscle vs. Monogamy. Has muscle made a difference?
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Jan 25, 2008 9:31 PM GMT -
Jan 25, 2008 9:49 PM GMTOh jeeze, find a better excuse. -
Jan 25, 2008 9:49 PM GMTI've always been monogomous in relationships.
And, I'm not getting any more attention being in better shape. I'm doing it for me.
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Jan 25, 2008 9:51 PM GMTMy husband and I kind of get off on it. I stay in shape to please him, and he does the same for me. We turn heads a lot, and that knowledge (that we are desired and physically attractive to strangers) actually makes for better sex. We don't fuck around on each other because we both have the same view of what commitment is. Others here have a different opinion of that I know so please don't start throwing pies... -
Jan 25, 2008 9:58 PM GMTOnly fat people are monogamous. -
Jan 25, 2008 10:06 PM GMT"And only committed people aren't sluts."
That's simply not true. I have a client who got knocked up in a mental hospital after her parents committed her. -
Jan 25, 2008 10:07 PM GMTBoys boys boys...
Play nice. -
Jan 25, 2008 10:10 PM GMTWhat the hell kind of a thread topic is this? LOL -
Jan 25, 2008 10:12 PM GMTcowboyathlete saidWhat the hell kind of a thread topic is this? LOL
I cain't hardly figure it out. -
Jan 25, 2008 10:14 PM GMTGettoknowit Calm down... put down the instant carbs...
and no, being in better shape has not made a difference. It depends on the person. If they are willing to have an open relationship, then so be it. If they want monogamy, then so be it. -
Jan 25, 2008 10:14 PM GMTdudes, make love ... not war ...
ha ha ... -
Jan 25, 2008 10:20 PM GMTchuckystud saidOh jeeze, find a better excuse.
HAHAHAHAHAHA!!! PERFECTLY put!!
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Jan 25, 2008 10:24 PM GMTsome people need to learn how to read sarcasm on the internet... and no, being monogamous is a mental decision, yes your body might tempt you to do something else, but if you're mentally strong you won't have a problem. -
Jan 25, 2008 10:25 PM GMTI think becoming more muscular helped me to establish a monogamous relationship, because it made me a more well-rounded person, which helps me to keep a partner interested over the long term.
PS- It's also made me less inclined to seek out attraction from people other than my boyfriend; when I know guys are attracted to me all the time, I have less need to flirt to feel attractive. -
Jan 25, 2008 11:50 PM GMTI can only speak from my own experience. The amount of adoration I have for myself has increased exponentially with every added molecule of muscle on my body since I've become enlightened to the ways of muscle. I know that Christ could not have lasted as long as he did on the cross if he wasn't a muscular beast. That's beside the point, I know, but, so few people understand that, that I thought it was worth mentioning. If you'd care to expound on it yourself, please, feel free. It is very very very difficult to tear myself away from the mirror, and mind you, it's not even a full length mirror. Imagine my dilemna if I was able to include my oak tree legs in my photos. As all this relates to your question, I have gone "sub-monogamous" in that I've committed to having sex only with myself. My partner stands by me in my decision, proudly, as he has recently converted to g0yism, in appreciation of his own specialness. Lately, our only activity together has been to watch "The Point", which includes a fantastic soundtrack by the one and only Harry Nilsson, who was a friend of The Beatles. Oh, God, I'm rambling again. Back to me. OK, it's your turn. -
Jan 25, 2008 11:56 PM GMTOh it absolutely makes a difference! All my BFs leave me for other guys when I bulk up because I spend all my free time jerking off in front of the mirror. Damn I look good when I'm tweaking my nipple!
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Jan 26, 2008 12:15 AM GMTAbout Jesus...While his ripped muscularity was undoubtedly helpful in prolonging the agony of the crucifixion, I think it goes without saying that it's also proof that he was gay. Of course, I have no problem with a heavenly, muscular masochist. But let's recognize the inverse relationship suggested by masochism. Here, the muscular subject is adoring the sadistic other, who may or may not be muscular, right? It reverses the OP's conditions for worship. Jesus worships the cruel master -- dare I say?.... Saytan the Scrawny.
Of greater concern to Christian parents is the example Jesus sets by his obvious use of anabolic steroids. I think it calls into question just how genuine the miracles he performed were. I'm inclined to think the miracles should be wiped from the Bible and Jesus should donate his halo to the Ted Haggard Fund to Buy Crystal Meth for Muscular Escorts.
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Jan 26, 2008 12:18 AM GMTLMAO! -
Jan 26, 2008 12:21 AM GMTThat's not Jesus. Jesus was anatomically correct. Also, his head was MUCH smaller. -
Jan 26, 2008 12:57 AM GMTI didn't know there was a choice. Honestly, if you can't have both than you're in a world of hurt when you start to decay into mush and you longer attract the young hotties and suddenly realize that you're missing something your life.
I pray that someday there will be a gay and/or lesbian couple out there that will make their mark on the world, stay together indefinitely, and influence more gays to stop leading such shallow empty lifestyles.
I swear, you're like the living dead. You scare straight people away, you consume every piece of hot ass you see, you party all your life, and never produce or adopt heirs. Maybe that's a good thing, because this sounds like an evolutionary pitfall. -
Jan 26, 2008 1:06 AM GMTOW is a hoot. -
Jan 26, 2008 1:08 AM GMTWhen you're a stud, the other person knows that you have choices, and don't have to settle for crap. It opens a lot of doors and levels the playing field.
There's no excuse for being fat, lazy, and out of shape.
Having sex with hot people, who can SEE their pee pee, is better, too. -
Jan 26, 2008 1:19 AM GMTMe, I've actually converted to McGayomy - I won't have sex with anyone but McGay and I have to live with the terrible realization that he's too into his own muscles to ever notice me or anyone else. He's the ultimate unattainable.
I'm singing
Glory Glory Hallaluah McGay... McGay
Glory Glory Hallaluah McGay.
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Jan 26, 2008 1:28 AM GMTWell when I put on some muscle there is little effect on me socially. But now I had a boyfriend who was VERY tall and muscular and when we went out people talked to me less for some reason.
It made things difficult going to the zoo also. Whenever we went the zookeepers tried to separate us and put him in the gorilla exhibit. -
Jan 26, 2008 2:05 AM GMTboiwunderkind saidI swear, you're like the living dead. You scare straight people away, you consume every piece of hot ass you see, you party all your life, and never produce or adopt heirs.
Mmmmm. Nothing like a blow job from a gay zombie.
